Anal

[Going411x7]

I guess like so much in how we are wired, it just depends on the individual.

 

[MrBigDick]

I guess like so much in how we are wired, it just depends on the individual.

Exactly. Like I said, I don't stimulate my prostate very often.......usually only when I get a wild hair.........

 

[BigO]

Hey man, her but does not smell llike rose, dont tell her I said that.............please.

 

[Ivor]

Well the other night we did it with her lying flat on her front, pillow under her to raise her arse a bit, vibrator on her clit...and damn me if she didn't come quicker and harder than she usually does when we're doing it the normal way. Any guys here find this with their partners sometimes? Or female members, do you find that? It's pretty cool when it happens.

 

[someone_like_u]

Well the other night we did it with her lying flat on her front, pillow under her to raise her arse a bit, vibrator on her clit...and damn me if she didn't come quicker and harder than she usually does when we're doing it the normal way. Any guys here find this with their partners sometimes? Or female members, do you find that? It's pretty cool when it happens.

This is the way we enjoy it Ivor, except I bow my back up to him. Very nice position The orgasms are way more intense, had a couple squirting o's the last time, and it had me talking way more dirty to him. Love it!

 

[CUSP82]

Oh my!

 

[insight]

I used my girlfriends dildo to penetrate myself (as embarrassing as it sounds) and I can't say I particularly enjoyed it. Then again I have no idea where the prostate is located. I told my girlfriend and the first thing she quite literally asked is if I was gay? I got nothing against gays but it's most definitely something I am not. After telling her this she asked if I was bi. I explained I have absolutely no interest in males whatsoever (sexually) and the only reason I did it is because of the discussion we had months before where she said she would only do anal if I did, and after reading about male anal I was curious to explore. She replied she only said it because she knew my answer would be NO and didn't really mean it

I took it quite offensively when she asked me those questions which resulted in an argument and me not only being embarrased of telling her but made me feel shameful and disgusted of myself. She however later apologised and told me she would tell no-one else. I hope to god she doesn't because I would consider that a massive breach in trust which could possibly be a relationship-ender. But I trusted her enough to tell her so I can trust her enough not to tell anyone else.

The discussion of anal hasn't bene on topic much now she's on the needle and we can have sex again. But I spoke to her the other night after I couldn't stop looking at her ass after she got out of the shower and she seems to be somewhat interested. She said it's one of those areas she wouldn't mind exploring, one of those forbidden areas that se's curious to look into etc. Maybe I'll get lucky soon

 

[insight]

Starting to annoy me that I can't edit my posts and my paragraphs keep merging

 

[Ivor]

Question for Batwoman, or any other female (or male) members here with a long-standing interest in taking it in the back door: have you ever encountered any long-term adverse effects from it? My girlfriend and I do it fairly often (couple of times a month on average, I guess - sometimes more) and while I'm always really careful not to go deeper or faster than she can handle, and use plenty of suitable lube, there's no getting away from the fact that I'm quite big and I'd hate to think she might develop any health problems from it. Sorry, this is a bit of a personal question but there's been some pretty frank talk in this thread so I thought you might not mind!

 

[someone_like_u]

Ivor, I still consider myself a newb with anal but so far, I've had no issues afterward. I know you're asking about long term issues, but I honestly don't have an answer for ya.

Just sort of giving the thread a bump until BW can give us her insight

 

[Ravenously]

Where is the Batsignal?

 

[someone_like_u]

@Ravenously....Oh, BTW, I love your sig.....

 

[Ivor]

Ivor, I still consider myself a newb with anal but so far, I've had no issues afterward. I know you're asking about long term issues, but I honestly don't have an answer for ya.

Just sort of giving the thread a bump until BW can give us her insight

Thanks S_L_U! Just out of interest, roughly how often do you and your partner do it this way?

 

[someone_like_u]

I'd say once, sometimes twice a wk. We just started about two months ago so it's new and exciting.

Ivor, we never do it roughly. LOL! Sorry, couldn't resist!

 

[Ivor]

Ivor, we never do it roughly. LOL! Sorry, couldn't resist!

Ha, very good!

 

[Batwoman]

I'm here! Sorry I'm a bit late, I guess I was busy with my kids when the Batsignal went up!

I've been having anal sex for several years, although not very often. But it is very intense when we do it. He does not hold back at all (which I love) so although I would not say it is rough, it is certainly quite.... athletic, with full penetration. Anyway, I have never had the slightest hint of any problems or long-term negative results from our anal escapades. He always warms me up really well and uses lots of lube. We never do it unless I am really ready, relaxed, and into the moment -- begging for it, basically. It is easy for me to imagine some tearing or other problems if one did anal without the receiving partner being ready since that would involve forcing against tight muscles and tissues. But when it is done right (and she is ready for it each and every time) then there is no reason to think it will harm her.

 

[Ivor]

Thanks for the reply, Batwoman! Yeah, when we get into it, we often both get quite 'into it', if you see what I mean - sometimes going in nearly all the way and going as fast as we do when I'm in her pussy. But that's only when she's as in the mood for it as I am. Anyway, that's great to know!

 

[actionbuddy]

@Ravenously....Oh, BTW, I love your sig.....

I'd never noticed this before, but, if you look at the white areas of the Batsignal, instead of the black, it's kinda naughty... or my mind is! Batwoman rules!

 

[Ivor]

The other day my girlfriend said that in the event of us moving in together (which may be on the cards at some point), she'd be comfortable doing up to about once a week, which suits me as I want it to retain that taboo feel, which I think it might lose if it ended up becoming something we did every other night.

We've found that the optimal way to do it is for her to lie on her front with a pillow under her hips and to use her small 'bullet' vibrator on her clit as I fuck her from behind while gently probing her arsehole with my finger and some lube. Then when she's ready I enter her that way very slowly, taking several minutes to get about halfway in. By that time she's really into it and I can move slowly in and out. Then once she's come I can gently get her up on all fours and fuck her until I come insider her, which predictably doesn't take very long.

Interestingly she said that when she comes that way, her orgasms seems to start from her g-spot, as it does when she comes while I'm fucking her and she's got no direct clitoral stimulation. Whereas when she's rubbing or vibing her clit while I'm fucking her the normal way, it seems to start mainly from her there. Just goes to show how closely 'wired up' all that anatomy is, I guess.

 

[someone_like_u]

Ivor, your last paragragh, that's exactly how it is for me:becky: Are they more intense, as well? They are for me. Whoa, good stuff!