Men vs women idea on what they consider a big unit

[Rando]

Size does matter but women won't say it for various reasons

Why would they admit it? People hate honesty and you will be labelled shallow. I prefer C cup breasts to B cups, so I guess you could say "size matters", but if I find a great girl that I care deeply about I couldn't give 2 shits how big her breasts are. I prefer a toned body to a chunky one, I prefer a tight pussy to a loose one, etc. These are all just preferences, it's not like they are the end all, be all in relationships.

I'm sure it's the exact same thing with any mature, caring female. Sure they would probably prefer a 7 inch penis to a 5 inch one, but if they care about their guy, then it probably barely registers when they find out he is 5.

 

[somebodyelse]

While I agree with you ColtAR-15, I also believe that there's more to a man than his penis.

While, I'm sure that I will never have the biggest wang a girl has ever encountered, I can try to be the best man and lover she's encountered. When a woman decided to chose a mate, the penis isn't a major part. The sexual chemistry and their compatibility emotionally matter more.

in fact MUCH more.

However, you are correct in saying that physiologically, Penis Size matters in the sense that it can be a problem if it is Too Big or too small to function correctly. When I say function, i mean penetrate a vagina and ejaculate. If a penis can not penetrate a vagina it is not functionally able to perform its duties. which is first and foremost, procreation.

A penis isn't required in lesbian relationships... If they have decided that the use of a penis is required, they'll go for artificial ones. Yea, are they normally huge dildos? going by "popular strap-on" searches, absolutely not. they're in the functional range of 4.5-6" in insertable length and 4.25 to 5" in circumference. I've seen many a lesbian complain about "big" when mentioning something barely over 5" in girth and 6" in insertable length.

Penis Size matters STRICTLY in the importance of ability to be inserted and used to ejaculate inside. At least to my knowledge.

Size makes no difference when it comes to an elastic muscle... especially women who have control over their muscles.

The posts you mentioned where their "preferences" were I'm almost POSITIVE was the thread about what size would they chose if they THEMSELVES had the opportunity to BE men... not what they find pleasurable. I remember that clusterfuck of insecurity screwing up an otherwise good, fun thread, lol!

 

[NP97]

Maybe to some people but not everyone. It is a minority that cares about size. The majority doesn't give a flying fuck so long as you have a dick.
It's about the man, not his parts.

 

[NP97]

The posts you mentioned where their "preferences" were I'm almost POSITIVE was the thread about what size would they chose if they THEMSELVES had the opportunity to BE men... not what they find pleasurable. I remember that clusterfuck of insecurity screwing up an otherwise good, fun thread.

I liked that one too. I don't remember how many times I said that it was if they were a man, not what they wanted. Most guys want to have big dicks, that's for sure. Why would women not if they were men?

 

[Padawan787]

Why would they admit it? People hate honesty and you will be labelled shallow. I prefer C cup breasts to B cups, so I guess you could say "size matters", but if I find a great girl that I care deeply about I couldn't give 2 shits how big her breasts are. I prefer a toned body to a chunky one, I prefer a tight pussy to a loose one, etc. These are all just preferences, it's not like they are the end all, be all in relationships.

I'm sure it's the exact same thing with any mature, caring female. Sure they would probably prefer a 7 inch penis to a 5 inch one, but if they care about their guy, then it probably barely registers when they find out he is 5.

I agree that it is not a deal breaker, your breast analogy is good

A woman would probably prefer a larger penis but in a relationship it isn't of paramount importance

 

[NP97]

Can I ask a question?
When we have women on here constantly berating you with the "size doesn't matter" stuff, why do some of you find the need to take what they say and throw it aside like nothing?
Guys know women better than women, right?

 

[TTBB]

The posts you mentioned where their "preferences" were I'm almost POSITIVE was the thread about what size would they chose if they THEMSELVES had the opportunity to BE men... not what they find pleasurable. I remember that clusterfuck of insecurity screwing up an otherwise good, fun thread, lol!

That is correct.

 

[ThomasJohnThomas]

This is from a PM I sent to Coltar, answering his PM, but want to share it here.

"Of coursse some women like big dicks. I`m big and have been with chicks who dig that, but most don`t even seem to care. I have been told it don`t matter from girls I`ve been with. My ex that I was with for over 5 years didn`t even notice or think about it before others pointed it out. She had been with tweny-something guys and said that size didn`t matter, and I was her biggest. And your tight vagina example, how many guys care much about that. And by the way, girls vary more in their "size" down there than what we are. Those who are turned on by it seem to care more about the visual factor of it. And to women size seem to be relative, not a bunch of numbers. Also, many girls who brag about size and are loud about it seem to be insecure or wanting to hurt men back. I know a guy who speaks openly about having a little dick and he is so confident about it and jokes about it without shame, he gets the hot girls and his current girl is so damn hot."

 

[amiok]

The posts you mentioned where their "preferences" were I'm almost POSITIVE was the thread about what size would they chose if they THEMSELVES had the opportunity to BE men... not what they find pleasurable. I remember that clusterfuck of insecurity screwing up an otherwise good, fun thread, lol!

He may be, but there were others. There were ones where it was said something like "The best sex I've had is with a 5 inch girth, I'd love to try 5.5." Size doesn't matter? But the biggest girth was the best I'd like to try bigger. Another says over and over it's the man but her huge man gives her the best o's and reaches places that others can't etc.

Both do seem like really sweet women who help many a man on here. But those things were said.

 

[NP97]

He may be, but there were others. There were ones where it was said something like "The best sex I've had is with a 5 inch girth, I'd love to try 5.5." Size doesn't matter? But the biggest girth was the best I'd like to try bigger. Another says over and over it's the man but her huge man gives her the best o's and reaches places that others can't etc.

Both do seem like really sweet women who help many a man on here. But those things were said.

Taking things wrong.
May want to try it to see if it feels different. And some women really like that a-spot to be stimulated. Girlfriend isn't one of them.

 

[Steve23]

He may be, but there were others. There were ones where it was said something like "The best sex I've had is with a 5 inch girth, I'd love to try 5.5." Size doesn't matter? But the biggest girth was the best I'd like to try bigger. Another says over and over it's the man but her huge man gives her the best o's and reaches places that others can't etc.

Both do seem like really sweet women who help many a man on here. But those things were said.

Women are human too, why wouldn't they want to try different sizes? If they liked one size I'm sure they might think slightly larger would be even better, makes sense no? And back to size matters or size doesn't matter? That shouldn't be said anymore, it's stupid. It matters as much as vagina size matters, maybe you would prefer a tighter one, but would you dump your current girlfriend for a tighter one? No, because it doesn't matter in that sense even if someone tighter would feel more pleasurable to you.

 

[amiok]

NP: Not taking anything wrong dude. You're being too nice. Want to try bigger cause it should be better. Like big.

Steve: Yea I never said I had a problem with a woman enjoying a larger dick. I know they are human. My point is don't spew bullshit and then truly actually care or be curious cause size does matter.

SBE: 2 inches bigger than you? So 10x8 or so is that what you are saying?

 

[Ravenously]

Why are women so bad at estmating distance? ....
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Because, ( holds hands out to about five inches) their whole lives guys have been telling them that this is 8 inches.

 

[Closed039]

While, I'm sure that I will never have the biggest wang a girl has ever encountered, I can try to be the best man and lover she's encountered. When a woman decided to chose a mate, the penis isn't a major part. The sexual chemistry and their compatibility emotionally matter more.

Despite having a penis that is 8.75 x 5.75, you are sure you will never have the largest penis that your female buddy has ever encountered? This doesn't seem to make sense - surely this size is 99th percentile at least.

 

[ThomasJohnThomas]

Why are women so bad at estmating distance? ....
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Because, ( holds hands out to about five inches) their whole lives guys have been telling them that this is 8 inches.

We have that one in norway too, only with 20cm instead of 8"

 

[Closed039]

He may be, but there were others. There were ones where it was said something like "The best sex I've had is with a 5 inch girth, I'd love to try 5.5." Size doesn't matter? But the biggest girth was the best I'd like to try bigger. Another says over and over it's the man but her huge man gives her the best o's and reaches places that others can't etc.

Both do seem like really sweet women who help many a man on here. But those things were said.

In college there was a kid with a notoriously big dick, and one of the girls that I knew just blurted out "ooohhh I'd like to try that."

 

[somebodyelse]

Despite having a penis that is 8.75 x 5.75, you are sure you will never have the largest penis that your female buddy has ever encountered? This doesn't seem to make sense - surely this size is 99th percentile at least.

Check my latest blog. lol!

I went from using straw paper and a ruler to just my plastic tape measure and pulling it pretty damn snug.

so now i'm right around average, maybe a little above.

 

[ThomasJohnThomas]

If one woman like big dicks, they all must do it... Right?... Like every muslim is a terrorist and every american loves guns, right.

 

[Steve23]

But every american does love guns..

 

[donjelqer76]

What I find really funny about this whole size issue is how small the units of measure are that we are talking about. Seriously, a difference of 1/2" or even 1" really isn't that big at all! In fact, I don't see how a woman would be able to tell the difference between a 7.5" length inside of them or an 8" length inside of them - its just such a small difference.
I would even venture to say that if their arousal level was very high and they were with a man with a 7" penis, versus if their arousal level was lower and they were with a man with an 8" penis - that the man with the 7" penis would feel larger to them because of the arousal level being higher (assuming relatively similar girth).

When you look at it this way, its probably pretty hard to tell the difference between anyone that is within the normal average range. This goes to show the phrase "its how you use it" does carry a lot of weight - if you use it effectively and you are an excellent lover, you will probably feel bigger and more satisfying than what your stats tell.