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4.25 girth :( it sucks so fucking bad i can't stand it. Ive had two long term relationships, one is current but both of them never cum and they were both small. I feel like a failure of a man
 

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not great I know I would like more - but not 'that' bad?...are you sure it was your 0.5 lack of girth from the average - that made the difference between them cumming? Im not sure...
 

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Brother, I used to have 4.5". I never knew anything other than that. Work with what you have! 4.25" isn't tiny, either; it's just below average.

You can make women cum lots of ways. Learn to do some great motion with your hips and you'll find you have the freedom to move in ways girthy guys can't. ;-)
 

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learn to use your tongue bro. this is one of the best ways to make a girl consistantly orgasm. as for girth, start doing your exercises, you'll get there.
 

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4.25 girth :( it sucks so fucking bad i can't stand it. Ive had two long term relationships, one is current but both of them never cum and they were both small. I feel like a failure of a man


They were small in boddy size? Because that has nothing to do with how big they are down there! I had a girlfriend who didn`t cum vaginaly and my girth is 5.7". No problem, I told her I loved it when she touched her clit while we had sex. Sex-life saved, she even squirted once:) My girlfriend now come very easily, even on tiny 3" girth dildos. Some girls are vaginaly sensetive, some aren`t. And girls vary more in size down there than men.
An advantage of being thinner is that you may last longer, if premature ejaculation is not a mental thing, which it often is.

Get her to touch herself during sex, tell her it turns you on. And the two of you can try hitting the g-spot when you are in her, she can have a pillow under her ass or you can figgure out what works best for you.
 
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OP, many women don't orgasm through penetration alone. Have they mentioned that they could with previous partners? If so, I'm pretty sure your girth has little to no blame in this:(

I don't have any problem with my 2.5" girth finger;)
 

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OP, many women don't orgasm through penetration alone. Have they mentioned that they could with previous partners? If so, I'm pretty sure your girth has little to no blame in this:(

I don't have any problem with my 2.5" girth finger;)

Are you calling him a lousy fuck? lol
 
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Are you calling him a lousy fuck? lol

Well, I wouldn't use those terms, but in a sense, yes.

Sorry, OP, bigger dick=better lover SO WRONG! I wasn't trying to be mean, but check out the following thread:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-perspective/28252-best-threads-about-women-sex.html

I think your girth is fine, and you should be able to do many wonderful things with it. Any amount of length and girth ain't worth sh*t if you don't know how to use it! Many factors go into a girl having an orgasm. Read up on the above link, and enjoy:)
 
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learn to use your tongue bro. this is one of the best ways to make a girl consistantly orgasm. as for girth, start doing your exercises, you'll get there.
Good advice. Until I started PE, I kept my wife happy and satisfied for almost forty years with a 4.4" girth and an active tongue. You may be surprised how sensitive she becomes down there after five minutes of tongue action.
 

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I feel like I'm very good in bed though lol maybe I'm delusional or something though like my technique and stuff
 

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oops I screwed that last sentence up you get the point though
 

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I have been married for many years and my wife only started orgasming a little more than a year and a half ago and I am doing nothing different. Some women orgasm and some dont. Some keep themselves from orgasming because they they don't know what to make of the sensation (wife). There is just too many variables. Take care.
 

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I was 4.5" girth for years so I know how you feel. Never had any complaints from partners, but it just feels small in your hands and you don't feel like you are really filling a woman up with cock and stretching her. I had women cum vaginally, so I don't think
that should be a problem. I'm pretty sure they would cum much easier on a 6" thick cock though.
 

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Stick with the PE though, I'm sure you will make girth gains once you figure out what works for you. Patience and persistence is needed. Good luck!
 

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Dude, I have the best and most cosistent results making girls cum, using my hands. Notice I said hands not hand. There are lots of great tech's for bringing a girl to orgasim with your fingers. Plus female sexuality is largely mental, she needs to feel safe to "let go" with you. And the best part about getting her with your hands first ( other than watching her wiggle in ectasy), is that after that she's usually "warmed up" for pentitration. Some might call it foreplay, but I love getting girls off with my hands at least as much as I like using my penis.
 

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Damn, pay no att. To my multiple spelling errors. Editing is a bitch, so I refuse to do it.
 

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Coltar15, let me guess, did she get a sense like she was going to pee and held it back? And once she started cumming did she end up being a squirter? Damn, I love female sexual response!
 

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The pee sensation was part of it at times. No she has never squirted as far as I can tell. I have had a few times where there was a lot of juice on me but I don't think that she is a squirter. She was a virgin when I met her so she has always been on the shy side sexually. It sucks she could have been having orgasms for years but she just wouldn't let it happen. But on the positive side it kind of rejuvenated our sex life and the sensations for both if us keep changing. I had always thought that I just didn't have the proper equipment to make her orgasm. I know that isn't true but I have always wondered that if I was bigger could she have helped herself from cumming? Its possible.
 

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The "pee sensation" is fluid building up in the skeens gland. That is what squirts out when she squirts. I if your penis is in her it feels( to us guys) like a sudden warm gush of wetness, same if your hands are there. If there is nothing in front of her then you can she the squirt. The easiest way to get her to squirt is to rub about an inch or so back on the top side of her vagina, it should feel like a ripe rasberry. Also, don't put too much presure on her( mentaly ) to cum. Just tell her to lie back and enjoy herself. I find it also helps if you put your other hand under her ass with your thumb pressing at the bottom of her pussy, for support.