Having to stop often when Edging

[cH053n]

First off... I'd just like to point out that I had my first Orgasm by accident the other day when trying to see how long I could last jacking off. I didn't even know something of that magnitude was possible. After doing some googling my goal now is to achieve MMO.

I can't seem to do it again when actually trying!!! Curse You!!!!

So then I started reading Dry Orgasm guides from various sites and say to practice edging.

The Edging 101 guide here says to only stimulate the shaft and to avoid the glands. Although I feel the need to train myself using my favorite ribbed sleeve pocket pussy that way I can be used vaginal sex easier. During stimulation I'm only moving the sleeve at a moderate pace, any faster and I would cum a lot quicker.

The problem is, sure... I can last 20 minutes or more, but I'm constantly having to stop all the time.

Eventually I can stimulate for only a minute or so and then rest for about 30 seconds to a minute.

I find this kind of annoying and would hate to have to do that during sex.

Like most people I have the bad jacking off habit of getting it done fast, maybe edging is going to be harder due to this.

I've only done a few edging sessions so far in the past couple days and all ended pretty much the same.

So I'd just like to know from experienced people is this normal to start with and will I be able to stimulate longer after more practice?

Thanks!

 

[Pegasus]

What is your kegel /reverse kegel routine ?
What arousal control techniques are you using.
Have you only used stop /start edging, or are you also doing other forms.
Have you joined the dry orgasm and mmo social club?

Most guys say there is more info than they can handle on this site ,but hey research is good.

 

[cH053n]

The day I got my DO by accident is when I started my PE journey again and now interested in MMO.

I was doing Kegel's casually to pinpoint the muscle and condition it a little also I just started doing JP's 90 Day Beginner Routine tonight which has 100 Kegel's for off days.

When Edging I try to do any of the following techniques or a combination of:
- deep breathing
- slow down or stop stimulation near the PONR
- press the million dollar spot
- squeeze the base of shaft
- scrotal tugging
- flex PC muscle

Is arousal control any different than ejaculation control? If so what other techniques are there?

Right now I'm only doing stop/start edging, I've heard of Ballooning but not interested. Are there any other forms worth doing?

I tried looking for the MMO club but couldn't find it, will try looking again.
EDIT: found it... lots of good threads there, will check it out.

Researching stuff on google has become a hobby of mine... so I'm used to information overload, heh.

EDIT:
Hmm, good point bringing up arousal control, I think that's what my problem is.

I just found ByggD's Guide to Controlling Your Ejaculation Response, looks like this will be helpful.

Once I get to arousal level 9 it seems like I'm just stuck there, I need help getting back down to 7.

ByggD's guide is giant, any quick tips to lower my arousal level would be much appreciated.

p.s. i gotta watch my porn...
p.s.s would have posted this in the DO MMO group if I would have found it sooner.

 

[actionbuddy]

... So I'd just like to know from experienced people is this normal to start with and will I be able to stimulate longer after more practice?

Hey dude, it's totally normal... so, don't worry about it... Yep, with practice you will gain control.

 

[cH053n]

Ya, I figured out what my problem is.

I need to learn arousal control techniques.

I can't seem to lower my arousal level from 9 to 7.

 

[Pegasus]

Ok so there is a starting point .
Later on read my edging to mmo thread in mmo group.

 

[cH053n]

Ok, I read your guide here PEGym Forums - Edging towards mmo.

I still need to train my PC muscles to Kegel Edging properly though.

Working on arousal level right now, could use some pointers.

 

[Pegasus]

Others can help you more with this.

 

[cH053n]

That's cool, you've helped my big time already, got me pointed in the right direction.

Much appreciated.

 

[Pegasus]

You are welcome.

 

[actionbuddy]

It's so awesome to have a friendly forum to talk about this stuff with you guys, without being put down. Happy Thanksgiving!

 

[mvergasioin]

Keep practicing. Keep as relaxed as possible. Get to know yourself and your dick. Get to know where you are in the arousal heiarchy.. Practice well learn well. You'll blow your load too soon or with bad timing a lot, but who cares. It feels good. Try to learn something about yourself and the process each time you edge. With sufficient patience you will be rewarded. Just don't hurry the process or try to match what others are doing. Do it at your own pace. Learn and enjoy.

And happy thanksgiving to onan and all!