Saiyan,
Let me give you my two cents. Though Im young (21), I literally have read over 100books on the topic of sex alone (I am a ferocious reader). In addition, Ive listened to and watched a couple dozen audiotapes and videos. These products all have one thing in common; namely, making sure you give the girl the sexual experience of her life. However, topics varied from rough sex to tantric sex, physical sex techniques to psychological sex techniques, relationships. Pretty much everything.
I think that when a man is smaller than 'average' (lets say 6") he really has to make up for this using other skills. Unless, that is, the girl is small. According to the Kama Sutra there are three types of men (size wise) and three types of women (size wise). Ranging from small to medium, and large (regarding women this refers to the depth/width of the vagina). However, once you have reached a very respectable size like yourself, this becomes irrelevant. The difference between a 6" and a 8" incher (assuming girth is proportionate) is significant, but I can honestly say, from reading dozens of polls, books and what not that most women don't prefer anything bigger than 8" except for some really hardcore size queens out there. The vagina is stretchable and research actually showed that after being together for at a long time (a year at least) the vagina somewhat 'adapts' to the penis, whatever size or shape that may be. The outer 1/3rd tightens, and the deeper 2/3 balloons out. The deepest spot of the vagina, the front and back deepspot also called the Aspot and UFX spot can be reached quite easily with a penis your size, even if she falls in the 'big' category. Thus physically, it does not really matter whether you are somewhat smaller than some previous genetic freaks she dated.
You have to beat them on a psychological level. Most women are more turned on by seeing a big penis than a smaller one, but once you play the psychological game, it eventually doesn't really matter. Its all in their head, and you have to compensate that and not feel inferior about your member (wish I could trade with you !). Do some different stuff, make sure she feels it deeper, for example, place a pillow under her butt in missionary position and make her fucking BEG for that dick of yours. Once she assures you she is a naughty little girl that can take your cock, put it in a bit. Then pull it out, eventually when she almost wants to slap you for not sticking it in, you put it in, slowly because most women like the first penetration the most in a sexual interaction (backed by science yo). Pull her hair, slap her tits. Tell her she is a dirty little girl who's been waiting for your big cock all day long. The so called 'physical' limitation you think you have can be compensated this way because your confidence makes it appear 'bigger' in her mind. Thats what you do. Be sure to mix it up, next time go slowly, look in her eyes, whisper sweet things in her ear. Whathever you have to do to make her more engaged psychologically speaking.
Not only will you condition her with your cock being huge, but it will bring variety into the bedroom and you will satisfy her on both a physical and emotional level. When women masturbate, it doesn't matter whether they use a 5", 8" or 12" dildo, they aren't turned on by the piece of plastic, but by what they are fantasizing about in their minds. She can come harder on a 5" than a 12" if her fanatasy is more engaging for her. So BE her sexual fantasy, fuck those other guys who are too big for most girls anyway and give her the emotional stimulation.
Goodluck
Z
