am i already premature Ejaculation ?

[Takotako]

hi everyone.
i have problem with the big brother.
im 24 years old and this is my first time i have sex in my whole life with my gf. real sex so great.
BUT... i have a problem. i cum too quick after 3-4 push in out. about 2-3 second i cum already.
after cum, i still play around with her, and i wait for 15-20 minutes to make my penis hard and ready again. but it cant last longer. i cum again, but this time a bit long, about 7-10 seconds. about 6-7 push in out.

we did again and again same thing still happened, i cum too soon.
i want to have a great sex with her and make her happy.

am i premature ejaculation already ?
or it is because my penis is not used to inside a vagina?
when do in out, is it because penis head is too sensitive?
is it because my penis is to excited?

or it is because i never had real sex before ?
it is because in the past i had too much quickly masturbation, watch too much porn ?
im confused why why and how to fix this.

thanks heaps

 

[rockbusiness]

Well it can be any of the reasons above. Try to relax during sex. Go through this website specially the premature ejaculation forum. Keep your kegels in condition. Lot of factors play. I know this because I was in the same situation as you. I ejaculated upon penitration. Just go around this site. Learn things and learn the magic to control your ejaculation. Sooner or later you can have sex till eternity in one erection. good luck

 

[PJ25]

The first time it is normal to cum faster.

That being,whether we call it premature ejaculation or not, you are unsatisfied with how long you last and you could use some training. This forum is the goof place for this

 

[mistydawn]

It is premature ejaculation.

Why would anyone say 3-4 thrusts is not pre-E? That is! I'm sorry.

Lots of help for you here on this site. You will get more replies and help. It will take some work. The men I have been with that had pre-E got past it with arousel control.

Good luck.

 

[Batwoman]

Control takes practice. I don't really think you can tell somebody they have a premature ejaculation problem after only one time having sex! If you have sex 20 times and still cum too fast, then maybe you have a problem. The first few times it is just learning what it feels like and how to control yourself. Don't worry about it -- many guys cum really fast the first few times since real sex is just such an overwhelming experience. But most catch on very quickly and it is not an ongoing problem. Just relax and enjoy yourself. You will get much better with practice. DON'T psyche yourself out into thinking that there is something wrong with you because you came really fast the first couple of times!

 

[pe_captain]

You were a bit better than me. I lasted literally 1 second. But dont worry tones of info in this forum!

 

[Takotako]

thanks guys for the support, info and share experiences.
now i'm practicing kegel and edging.

thanks

 

[mistydawn]

thanks guys for the support, info and share experiences.
now i'm practicing kegel and edging.

thanks

I believe you can overcome it. My ex BF's did.