Convinced that Condoms are Diminishing...

[sdaddy]

I am convinced that condoms are diminishing or killing my erections. Just before I put on a condom, I have a raging erection. Soon after intercourse begins, I partially (or totally) lose my erection.

Has any of you experienced this phenomenon? If so, what's the remedy?

 

[pterodactyl]

Almost every time. You have to rely more on the mental aspect of sex when the physical sensations are dulled.

 

[Hanma]

What about those ultra thin ones?

And yeah, pterodactyl is right. Listen to his ancient wisdom. Focus on her and other sensations. Just wondering though, are you uncut?

 

[sdaddy]

I am cut.

At one point I thought it was the tightness of the condom. Then I abandoned that thought, because if that were the case, I would lose an erection during clamping sessions.

I'll take pterodactyl's advice.

 

[somebodyelse]

Almost every time. You have to rely more on the mental aspect of sex when the physical sensations are dulled.

Truth in motion.

condoms kill the feeling so you have to really just focus in on your feeling. Sometimes it ends up being that you're in your head more than paying attention to her. sucks but that's just how the cookie crumbles with condoms.

I actually had this problem for a while. I'd lose my mojo in the middle of in the beginning of intercourse. it was partially because I had on Snug fit condoms on, and the other part was due to the lack of sensation.

One of the things i tried was stopping masturbating for a while, and if I did, i used an impossibly light grip... so light my fingers slid along the shaft skin without lube. then whenever in coitus, i'd focus my attention on my peen and the sensation I was feeling. opening my eyes every now and then to see her face and to make sure she was enjoying herself.

 

[Pegasus]

Can't say I notice any significant loss of sensation,however wearing too small a condom will kill my erection.

 

[Cdn]

I had that problem.
Definite loss of sensation, we use either ultra thins (personal favourite) or fire and ice to give back more sensation.

Regards
Cdn

 

[Pegasus]

Is the loss of feel physical or mental?

 

[BigO]

I had that problem.
Definite loss of sensation, we use either ultra thins (personal favourite) or fire and ice to give back more sensation.

Regards
Cdn

there is definately a difference in condoms and you should expriment with many different ones. Fire and ice work great for me but my wife says they burn if we do it for a long time.