No Fap August.!!

[David_Scott]

I have a love-hate relationship with the sense of guilt that comes over after I jack off.
The sense of guilt comes coz I've wasted my sperm.!! something that make babies for fuck's sake.. I just pissed it away.
So I get really frustrated and start living right for the next few days , which i like, which is a reason why I jack off so often.
And then it runs in circles..

Last time I masturbated was on 4th of August, now I've decided not to jack off for the rest of this month.!!
Offcourse I've made resolutions like this before, even have notes on my phone that remind why i should not masturbate, and I read it everytime Im in the mood..but it doesn't work..

So I'm starting this thread with a hope that I can make it through. No fapping all august or what is left of it.!

 

[closeed258]

LOL At the phone reminder

Are you sure it is healthy to go so long without wanking?

 

[mvergasioin]

Instead of making a goal that you saying is already unattainable, why not consider making a goal you can easily attain such as jacking off once a day or once every other day. Then after you have successfully mastered the first goal for a while, you can up the ante.

 

[Miamihurricane]

You dont edge?ballon?, no stamina work?

 

[pterodactyl]

Your body will waste the sperms for you while you are sleeping if you don't ejaculate often enough. Just saying that i don't think you should feel guilty.

 

[David_Scott]

I just wanna let the body do it's work. I've had spells where I don't masturbate for 10-12 days then go all crazy and drain my balls..lol.
So now, I just wanna let my penis be for the rest of this month.

Infact my goal is: From this day onwards, everytime I ejaculate it'll either be involuntary or with a girl. Basically I want to stop playing with myself, but I can't do it altogether, so setting monthly goals.

I do feel it's the right thing to do.
If you could get into my head, you could see why I'm doing this. Last time I went a month without jacking off, I could last longer, and my GF of 1 year who used to make fun of my shortcomings said " Dave, It's so biggggg". HAHA..I loved it so much..
I loved being so buffed up on testosterone, want to feel that again.
Masturbating makes me relaxed, somewhat oblivious to everything around me, I've been like that for so long. Don't like it anymore.
I find it strange that you guys can't relate to my sh*t.?

I honestly thought it'd be like -"Yeah, no fap august.!! We're with you"
Haha..didn't work that way.

But I guess I've been a wanker and I've been the alpha male, atleast had the taste of being the alpha male..and for reasons that make perfect sense to me, I feel more of man when i have testosterone oozing out of my bones and face..and I guess not jacking will do that for me..it has done that for me before.
Yeah, so no fap august.!

 

[amiok]

I sometimes get that guilty feeling too lol. Not because I wasted potential babies, because that happens when you have sex with birth control too, but for some other strange, unknown reason.

 

[David_Scott]

I sometimes get that guilty feeling too lol. Not because I wasted potential babies, because that happens when you have sex with birth control too, but for some other strange, unknown reason.

Haha..I hope you find this funny..sometimes when I ejaculate inside a condom while being with a girl, I pull the condom out, containing my sperm, show it to the girl and say "I could make babies off of it"..lol.
Dammit, I just realized, it really bothers me when I waste my sperm.

 

[amiok]

Haha..I hope you find this funny..sometimes when I ejaculate inside a condom while being with a girl, I pull the condom out, containing my sperm, show it to the girl and say "I could make babies off of it"..lol.
Dammit, I just realized, it really bothers me when I waste my sperm.

Haha that is pretty funny.

 

[Dr Pepper]

After a 7-8 days of no fapping your testosterone levels begin to fall.
Once a week would be a better goal

 

[David_Scott]

So it's been about 16 days without ejaculation, did come very close to it, about 4 times with pre-cum but didn't completely masturbate..!

 

[pterodactyl]

How is it working out for you so far?

 

[headlikeahole]

I don't understand any of this. It's like you're not speaking English.

Why the guilt? Why the negative attitude towards self exploration? Do you not realize that masturbation is healthy?

Is it a religious thing? Or perhaps you're sexually conservative?

 

[KickstandJohnson]

After a 7-8 days of no fapping your testosterone levels begin to fall.
Once a week would be a better goal

Is there an article to back this up? Ive been fap free for about 2 weeks now and ive definitly felt an increase in energy/feeling strong

 

[somebodyelse]

Yes, there was a study done in either China or Japan where college students or young men were studied for a period of a week or two. They found Testosterone levels steadily increased every day until the 7th when it dramatically fell.

There definitely is an increase in Testosterone in your blood stream when you don't orgasm. You do notice this increase in hormones as more energy, more alertness, More confidence (self-assurance) because it's a trigger for the feel good chemicals in your body as well.

It's really hard the first 3-4 days not to wank, but once you get over the hump, you can really learn to control your urges. You have more energy and you feel much more lively all the time.


What i found is that Edging can help that if you don't go too close to the PONR. Even if you don't go over the PONR, you'll release a bit of the chemicals that are the result of orgasm and it will kill your T-levels.

 

[Going411x7]

My urologist and my internist both told me to pop often to prevent prostate cancer. I have followed their advice. I have no guilt about my sperm not making a baby. Why add to the 7 billion inhabitants of this beautiful blue globe? It's overpopulated already. Or is it 9 billion?

Enjoy your masturbation and forget about the guilt.

 

[rokenone]

What i found is that Edging can help that if you don't go too close to the PONR. Even if you don't go over the PONR, you'll release a bit of the chemicals that are the result of orgasm and it will kill your T-levels.

Yeah. So ideally, to keep testorone levels at top health would be by staying away from PONR for 1 week, but no more?

 

[David_Scott]

I don't understand any of this. It's like you're not speaking English.

Why the guilt? Why the negative attitude towards self exploration? Do you not realize that masturbation is healthy?

Is it a religious thing? Or perhaps you're sexually conservative?

I've done enough self-exploration, to the point where I did not feel the need to be with a girl. MASTURBATION/PORN IS NOT HEALTHY and to be honest the amount of jacking off I used to do was not natural. The body has mechanisms to deal with excess sperms or whatever. These are just my thoughts. Anyways, 16 days ago I had a limp dick, premature ejaculation, no morning wood and felt exhausted most of the times.
And now, I do get morning wood,ejaculation control is better, dick looks healthier and I feel strong and less frustrated(still frustrated though).
I"ve been through all this before, so this really works for me. Maybe it's psychological but what isn't.?

But hey, if you don't believe me, try it. Join me next month when it'll be "No Fap September.!"
Seriously, for all those saying testosterone levels falls dramatically after 7 days, why don't you try not jacking off for yourself.?

 

[headlikeahole]

I've done enough self-exploration, to the point where I did not feel the need to be with a girl. MASTURBATION/PORN IS NOT HEALTHY and to be honest the amount of jacking off I used to do was not natural. The body has mechanisms to deal with excess sperms or whatever. These are just my thoughts. Anyways, 16 days ago I had a limp dick, premature ejaculation, no morning wood and felt exhausted most of the times.
And now, I do get morning wood,ejaculation control is better, dick looks healthier and I feel strong and less frustrated(still frustrated though).
I"ve been through all this before, so this really works for me. Maybe it's psychological but what isn't.?

But hey, if you don't believe me, try it. Join me next month when it'll be "No Fap September.!"
Seriously, for all those saying testosterone levels falls dramatically after 7 days, why don't you try not jacking off for yourself.?

I've gone as much as 9 weeks without busting because of my time in the military. It didnt do anything for me other then make my skin more sensitive to pimples. And I make me more irritable.

Masturbation has been proven over and over to be good for your prostate, testicular and emotional health. It's all about having control. Too much of a good thing CAN be bad. But none of a good thing IS bad.

 

[Hockey_NY]

I've had to stop recently for a week or two because of surgery and it's tough but I agree that after a few day hump it is more about the choice of not doing it compared to getting urges.

Having said that, by and large it makes me happy, releases some energy, and just gives a good-feel feeling afterward, so that is good enough for me. Can't disagree about the negative effects of porn so I try to do some without it as well, with no issue.

I think we are made and wired to masturbate, so it is certainly not a crime to do it.