What's my "perceived" size?

[Pegasus]

There is a difference between someone arguing whether penis size matters or not. I get that whole discussion. A lot of what people worry and deal with today is the very real notion that Women (those in the younger age groups) do ridicule men because of their penis size. They are very open about talking about sex and very open about ridiculing or praising a man because of his endowment.

I have literally been in social situations where extremely young women just walk up to me and grab my crotch and tell me that are just trying to figure out if "I'm worth it or not". Granted, I realize all these things are because of immaturity and sexual ignorance. But, it doesn't make them any less real. If you are a younger person, you are bombarded with this type of crap. You cannot avoid it and either have to look to another age group or just hope you get lucky and find someone who isn't so immature.

Yes ,as you remember my advice was ask her how big she things the picture is and agree with her. Many women think the average size they have had is 8" . Now this is beacause guys add 2" to actual size so their view is distorted. Now it is no use saying to them that the average size they have had is 6" ,you can argue till you are blue in the face, they will just get annoyedand swear they are accurate.

 

[Samurai]

Whenever there is a dick pic around i can't resist having a guess. I would say 7.28 BPEL x 5.3.

Guys, I'm getting totally desensitized to seeing erect penises, lol. It would have grossed me out before but now I've seen over a hundred(pics) in a non porn setting. I okay with this but there is strange feeling about it too. I guess it comes with the "if you look at dick, you must be gay" stereotype.
Also OP, I thought you were way bigger than your measurements. Tink is amazing as well! I though she was trying to be cruel because you might have been fishing for compliments but she was almost spot on with her guess.

 

[Messerschmidt]

With the responses itguy was getting from the guys, I kind of fear the response I'd get from Tink. I can handle it though, if she's so inclined.

 

[TTBB]

So, can we just use this as a "how big do you think I am?" thread now? I imagine I'll be a bit disappointed with the responses, but against my better judgment I'll throw my di...hat in the ring.

wow you really are challenging me with perspective.. the angle is difficult and there isn't much around to get perspective off of but
i would say your length is around 6.75"
girth at the base is around 5" mid shaft is around 4.7

 

[Messerschmidt]

I can handle that. I probably should have pushed the fat pad back with my little girl hands to create the impression that it was bigger. Hard to judge girth as it varies so much throughout the shaft. Schlittle came pretty close to overall girth and the length is between your two guesses. My tunica is really pronounced at the base and base girth is actually around 6", but it quickly goes down to 5" and at the narrowest point it is about 4.7". Length is 7" BPEL.

Now to delete that picture just in case one of the few people I talk to regularly comes here and can recognize my shelving.

 

[itguy123]

I can handle that. I probably should have pushed the fat pad back with my little girl hands to create the impression that it was bigger. Hard to judge girth as it varies so much throughout the shaft. Schlittle came pretty close to overall girth and the length is between your two guesses. My tunica is really pronounced at the base and base girth is actually around 6", but it quickly goes down to 5" and at the narrowest point it is about 4.7". Length is 7" BPEL.

Now to delete that picture just in case one of the few people I talk to regularly comes here and can recognize my shelving.

Well see, you just need to get my picture taking skills! You are more endowed in every way then myself! All you need to do is figure out how to show it off correctly if you are so inclined.

wow you really are challenging me with perspective.. the angle is difficult and there isn't much around to get perspective off of but
i would say your length is around 6.75"
girth at the base is around 5" mid shaft is around 4.7

Question; are you guessing BPEL lengths or what you see in the picture? You were able to accurately guess my NBPEL, but in the picture, I was definitely bone pressed . You seem to be quite accurate. I was way off on the length as ones that point up mess me up real bad.

Guys, I'm getting totally desensitized to seeing erect penises, lol. It would have grossed me out before but now I've seen over a hundred(pics) in a non porn setting. I okay with this but there is strange feeling about it too. I guess it comes with the "if you look at dick, you must be gay" stereotype.
Also OP, I thought you were way bigger than your measurements. Tink is amazing as well! I though she was trying to be cruel because you might have been fishing for compliments but she was almost spot on with her guess.

Well the reason for posting was I believed my pictures looked better then the actual item. So, I was hoping to find out how much I could exaggerate without getting caught. Obviously, the agreed upon answer was let the girl guess for you and you can't go wrong . Granted, I guess she could always guess smaller

 

[Messerschmidt]

Well see, you just need to get my picture taking skills! You are more endowed in every way then myself! All you need to do is figure out how to show it off correctly if you are so inclined.

I don't think the trunk shape does it any visual favors. I didn't take any offense, but I don't think I'll be showing off any pictures anytime soon, unless I can get some more impressive shots. I might have done so before, so I'm glad I came here before doing that.

Well the reason for posting was I believed my pictures looked better then the actual item.

Me too! :sad:

It's okay though.

 

[TTBB]

NBPEL..most women do not understand their is a difference between Bone pressed or non.
Even if you told a women it was bone pressed they wouldn't understand why that matters.
women don't run numbers when they are looking at a penis.
when women do, they do guess-tamations and they tend to round the numbers up and down to, not to the exact point of an inch.

both your cocks look substantial you have nothing to worry about ..

 

[itguy123]

NBPEL..most women do not understand their is a difference between Bone pressed or non.
Even if you told a women it was bone pressed they wouldn't understand why that matters.
women don't run numbers when they are looking at a penis.
when women do, they do guess-tamations and they tend to round the numbers up and down to, not to the exact point of an inch.

both your cocks look substantial you have nothing to worry about ..

Well I was going along the lines of you personally since you keep up with all of this and are quite an astute anatomy size guesser.


P.S. Thanks for the ego high five; even though it wasn't necessary.

 

[somebodyelse]

Grrr I missed the voting LMAO! well the idea seems to have stuck. Say nothing about size and everything will be okay

 

[Snugglebandit]

Most women:

1) exaggerate size
2) estimate within 2 inches

They will say oh ya he had an 8-9 incher, when we know on here that there is a very big difference between those two cocks. And that 8-9 incher was probably 7 inches nbpel at best. I wouldn't worry about telling her your size, she won't really KNOW what those numbers look like anyways.

 

[NP97]

All I want to say is... don't lie.
Just be honest. Cause I know my 8.5"BPEL is tiny on the internet. Hehehe.

 

[thenewdude]

For real, don't show or tell her anything if you are serious about her else she may only stay with you or come back to you due to size which is not a long lasting relationship but a fling.

 

[Pegasus]

Um the thread is about a fling.

 

[itguy123]

Um the thread is about a fling.

Haha, yeah. Too many people focused on it become more then that. I went with the current advice of just sending a pick and calling it a day, not attaching any size to it. The only response I got back was "Yummy". Haven't closed the deal yet, but getting closer

 

[BigO]

tell her to send you a pic back, tell her not to be selfish!

 

[itguy123]

tell her to send you a pic back, tell her not to be selfish!

I have already seen... The pictures I sent led to a webcam session that was nice. Webcams are fun

 

[LoveMyWife]

I have already seen... The pictures I sent led to a webcam session that was nice. Webcams are fun

Haha awesome!