Having 3 girlfriends?

[TTBB]

You should look into pre white man polynesian cultures ..the women were viewed as godesses and often had multiple husbands or partners..
matriarchal based society was quite common in 'primitive' societies ..

 

[BigO]

Well I think if you truly are in love with one fantastic person that will require enough of your time. To have three, I just cant see any of them getting the time and attention that real love and comittment requires, it is self serving and thoughtless and in all reality playas are assbags who are thinking onlyof them selves.
Dating three woman as long as all know they are dating you and it is not exclusive, but they can date too. thats one thing and thats cool. If any one of the people involved believe its exclusive and you let them believe it you have now just become a bottom feeder.
Also, I do love my wife but three of her would send me over the edge, quickly!

 

[CHEtartar]

you have simon cowell as your avatar though so you have no standing here
lol

 

[CHEtartar]

ignore that, that was to an earlier post!

 

[Slow deep and hard]

I dont for one second beleive that cheating is in a mans dna.

Its in mans dna to find a good woman , have children , and make sure the have a good life.

Those who date more then one or fool around have somekind of sefasteam problem, same for woman

 

[GTO]

I wouldn't go as far as calling it a self-esteem issue as there are a million reasons why a person strays ...self-esteem included but being the least of them IMO ...

 

[BigO]

I dont for one second beleive that cheating is in a mans dna.

Its in mans dna to find a good woman , have children , and make sure the have a good life.

Those who date more then one or fool around have somekind of sefasteam problem, same for woman

That my friends is total honesty

 

[wind chill]

Dating three women is OK (as long as they all know that it is not an exclusive relationship).
Having three girlfriends is not OK (people will get hurt).

Very simple.

how is dating three women ok?

 

[Batwoman]

how is dating three women ok?

Well, I think it's OK as long as everyone knows what is going on. Many people date more than one person at a time, and I think that's fine if they are just dating -- getting to know each other, going places, having dinner, movies, etc. You know, dates. But once promises start being made and serious emotions and/or sex come into play, then I think that it is best to stick to one partner at a time to avoid hurt feelings or misunderstandings. Nobody likes to be in direct competition with another person for someone's affections and attention.

 

[closeed258]

I dont for one second beleive that cheating is in a mans dna.

Its in mans dna to find a good woman , have children , and make sure the have a good life.

Those who date more then one or fool around have somekind of sefasteam problem, same for woman

Cheating isn't in a mans DNA but having sex is!(reproduction)! Men can make 50 different women pregnant at the same time, this is how we are programmed to keep the human population alive in early human days and it is the same with a lot of other species. Women can only have one pregnancy at a time that is why they generally look for one man. It doesn't mean all men will fuck 50 women whilst in a relationship and women will not fuck anybody else but that is the natural human mindset how we were programmed.

 

[BigO]

I think she means that when you are single and comitted to no one it is ok to date who you wish, I mean if you go on a date this week with a girl on Tuesday, another on Friday and then meet agirl on Monday the next week and go to dinner that night you havent done anything wrong untill you let them believe they ar ethe only one your seeing.m If you realize you like one in particular and she feels the same you should stop seeing the other two.
Once you have to tell a lie to keep it going then you are wrong. I also believe that once you get to a sexual relationship you are wrong to see others(taht is my opinion)
Have you never just gotten out of a relationship, been asked out by someone and told them I would love to go out but I am not looking for a commitment yet. Thats being honest and if anothert wants to go out with you on the next weekend that would be OK in my book.
If a girl says she does not want to you to see other woman then you have a choice to make, If your choice is to lie to keep going out with her than your a dirtbag, if you tell her you are sorry but your not ready for that kind of comitment then you are being honest and reapectfull, I could be wrong and I dont want to speak for any one else but I believe that is close to what the honorable Batwoman was saying

 

[Slow deep and hard]

I wouldn't go as far as calling it a self-esteem issue as there are a million reasons why a person strays ...self-esteem included but being the least of them IMO ...

If you can make woman crave you like crazy , you dont need more then one .

Thats the nr 1 reason why woman cheat, if you dont give them enourgh atension.

I do think that the biggest fualt is the media and the way we are broad up to chose everyting we want, that is great but sooner or later you find out that everytime you make a choice you lose somthing else.
so many are just running around like headless chicken trying to get the best we can while we have the chance.

Everytime i cheated i did it because of the selfasteam boost it gave me, i became addicted wanted more and more but nothing helped because it was my own view on myself i needed fixed.

 

[mistydawn]

Sleeping will all 3 is pretty low. I would not be shocked if 1 or all of the girls think they have something with you, but you are just playing them. I don't go for that.

 

[closeed258]

Who's that on your avatar MD?

 

[phil88]

Yes i do..but it doesn't make it right and it doesn't make you the man .. it might give you status amongst other insecure men or playa's but it is wreckless... Real men don't treat females that way... Real women don't treat men that way.

lol our modern day society is severely lacking in both real men and women.

Just dont let any of them think they are your girlfriend. As long as you dont lead anyone on there is nothing wrong with what you are doing.

it has nothing to do with self esteem lol, i simply want sex when i want sex. Its an urge that needs fulfilling, if your busy and i wont be able to see you for 1-2 days i will look elsewhere as is their is no emotional attachment. I am simply used to getting what i want, because I am good at it.


p.s watch out for scratches on the back and hickies. women notice everything.

 

[phil88]

lol see look at the men in this thread. They all want to impress other men with their prowess... lol wtf is wrong with people. Who cares? Does anyone not understand the implications? Its not even about the women, which would mean a total lack of respect for both the women as people and for the man doing it. Why are all men so gay? Lol its like women are nothing but ways to seek the approval of other men (sorry boys). I want women, get rid of the rest of the men. You guys all go off with eachother, circle jerk your massive flaccids and ill deal with all the evil women ok?

 

[GTO]

lol see look at the men in this thread. They all want to impress other men with their prowess... lol wtf is wrong with people. Who cares? Does anyone not understand the implications? Its not even about the women, which would mean a total lack of respect for both the women as people and for the man doing it. Why are all men so gay? Lol its like women are nothing but ways to seek the approval of other men (sorry boys). I want women, get rid of the rest of the men. You guys all go off with eachother, circle jerk your massive flaccids and ill deal with all the evil women ok?

Uh ... what??

 

[phil88]

Lmao, you don't even realize how perfect your response is do you?

 

[Livin Life]

I had 2 girlfriends for almost 2 years it was Great ! also in those 2 years dated many women 1 night stands.
Was not for bragging I love women and love to have sex with many women My girlfriends where opposites one was a home body type, blond hair green eyes light skin very pretty was a bartender the other dark brown hair olive skin dark eyes loved to take me out everywhere and always payed 100 % of the time with a killer hot body.
having sex with 2 different girls a day was great and today I still would not have changed a thing.


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[NP97]

Lmao, you don't even realize how perfect your response is do you?

Not a very well written paragraph. It was somewhat hard to read and didn't make sense really.