The Art Of Seduction?

[NeedGirthBad]

Hey Forum,

I was wondering what tips and tricks you guys have for seducing a woman. To be more specific getting a woman in the mood when she isn't necessarily in the mood as well as just putting the moves on a close friend. Not looking for pick up artist tricks more like how to turn on a close friend. Ya know good ol' seduction!

 

[Total_Honesty]

I would start by whispering in her ear about how good she looks (women love it when you compliment them on theings that took them forever to get done, especially if it's a new hairdo or weight loss). Next, open up a nice chilled bottle of champaign and turn on some nice, slow R & B music (something with deep bass works for me). If she's in the mood by then, start kissing her neck (I've never dated a woman who doesn't like her neck to be nuzzled when aroused. The ears are an erotic zone for a woman, so slightly tug on her ear with your teeth (however, this one is tricky because not all girls like this so be careful). Now, if she's fully aroused, start taking off your clothes and do what you know you wanna do! Quick tip: women like to have the man take off their pants during foreplay. I know that one from first hand experience.

This technique has never failed me, but your girl could be different, so try it out and see how it goes!

 

[mistydawn]

Needgirthbad...I like your screen name.

There are books about there about the art of seduction. Have you gotten to any romantic moments with this woman yet? Have you kissed? I personally would not set up a scene like music and champagne. That tells a woman you have plans to get in their pants. It is obvious. If you already have something going, then it isn't so bad.

 

[Total_Honesty]

Most of the women that I've been with have melted into butter with a bottle of champaign and soft music. It sets the mood and tells them up front that you plan to make love to them. It could destroy the mood or it could intensify the feeling. I mean, if she wants sex too then she's gonna like the feeling that he wants it also.

 

[Pegasus]

Is this about how to get out of the friend zone?

 

[mistydawn]

Most of the women that I've been with have melted into butter with a bottle of champaign and soft music. It sets the mood and tells them up front that you plan to make love to them. It could destroy the mood or it could intensify the feeling. I mean, if she wants sex too then she's gonna like the feeling that he wants it also.

Just in response to you...yes, if it is something she wants too, then she will melt.

I am more seduced with charm. The way he looks at me. His voice. His body language.

I haven't found champagne, strawberries and cream romantic. It does nothing for me. I understand though that many women like that stuff.

 

[NeedGirthBad]

Needgirthbad...I like your screen name.

There are books about there about the art of seduction. Have you gotten to any romantic moments with this woman yet? Have you kissed? I personally would not set up a scene like music and champagne. That tells a woman you have plans to get in their pants. It is obvious. If you already have something going, then it isn't so bad.

I like my name too! Lol

Well, there are a few scenarios. One is with a woman who I've been very very involved with before but now the attraction level has died down. There's no more fires in out pants. We're in our 20's I just want to spark that feeling of sexual interest in her again and get her juices flowing.

Another scenario is with a women I've flirted with over the phone but I'm not necissarily her type physically. We've never been involved though we talked about it. I may take her out over the weekend or she may come visit me later in the year i. I'm looking to make her feel like she wants it. Rather than throwing myself all over her.

Another scenario is with a woman who I've kissed once. Weren't many sparks. She had just gotten off a big relationship. Time has passed again and I want a chance to try again. Maybe over drinks?

But in general I'm just wondering how to get women you know to think of you sexually. That way when you do make a bold physical move the chances of being rejected are lower.

 

[GTO]

Just in response to you...yes, if it is something she wants too, then she will melt.

I am more seduced with charm. The way he looks at me. His voice. His body language.

I haven't found champagne, strawberries and cream romantic. It does nothing for me. I understand though that many women like that stuff.

Every woman I've been with could've cared less about the stuff - it was about the chemistry, body language, what was said ... and of course the sexual tension ...

 

[mistydawn]

Every woman I've been with could've cared less about the stuff - it was about the chemistry, body language, what was said ... and of course the sexual tension ...

Chemistry is major. When there is chemistry, then the other stuff comes into play like how he looks at you, the way he talks, his voice, body language and so on.

So, what did the women care about gettinthereok?

 

[allanmac]

read the robert green book The Art Of Seduction.

 

[NeedGirthBad]

read the robert green book The Art Of Seduction.

Just torrented that b*tch.

But in the mean time. Suggestions anyone?

 

[GTO]

Chemistry is major. When there is chemistry, then the other stuff comes into play like how he looks at you, the way he talks, his voice, body language and so on.

So, what did the women care about gettinthereok?

What I was saying was that they didn't care about 'stuff' - the champagne, roses, etc. that you had mentioned. They were all about the 'tangible' results of being in a relationship ... even the ones where the relationship wasn't the greatest, they never cared for that frilly stuff - which I thought was very cool and actually a big thing that attracted me to them.

Don't get me wrong - I wined and dined when them when the mood fit, but they would rather sit at home cuddled up on the couch and just watch the wind blow outside rather than spend time in a candle-filled bathroom in a bubble bath.

 

[mistydawn]

Just torrented that b*tch.

What does that mean?

 

[mistydawn]

What I was saying was that they didn't care about 'stuff' - the champagne, roses, etc. that you had mentioned. They were all about the 'tangible' results of being in a relationship ... even the ones where the relationship wasn't the greatest, they never cared for that frilly stuff - which I thought was very cool and actually a big thing that attracted me to them.

Don't get me wrong - I wined and dined when them when the mood fit, but they would rather sit at home cuddled up on the couch and just watch the wind blow outside rather than spend time in a candle-filled bathroom in a bubble bath.

I am not into the whole romance thing of champagne, roses and such. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy roses occasionally. I love to eat out though, even at Denny's. Never did the bathroom candle thing. My FWB did bring down the lights, play music and had the house smell nice when I got there. I never had that before. I liked it. Oh yeah, and he had the lube and toys in a heater to warm them.

 

[ThinJohnny]

Massage - and not just for the amount of time it takes you to work your way up from her waist to her shoulders and enter her from behind

A long massage that starts out therapeutic, and slowly transforms into sensual. I've never had that one fail. Unless she falls asleep. But if that happens, just revert to the shotgun approach I mentioned above - start at her waist, head for the shoulders, and enter her from behind

 

[somebodyelse]

I like my name too! Lol

Well, there are a few scenarios. One is with a woman who I've been very very involved with before but now the attraction level has died down. There's no more fires in out pants. We're in our 20's I just want to spark that feeling of sexual interest in her again and get her juices flowing.

Another scenario is with a women I've flirted with over the phone but I'm not necissarily her type physically. We've never been involved though we talked about it. I may take her out over the weekend or she may come visit me later in the year i. I'm looking to make her feel like she wants it. Rather than throwing myself all over her.

Another scenario is with a woman who I've kissed once. Weren't many sparks. She had just gotten off a big relationship. Time has passed again and I want a chance to try again. Maybe over drinks?

But in general I'm just wondering how to get women you know to think of you sexually. That way when you do make a bold physical move the chances of being rejected are lower.

i'm confused by this post... So which woman out of these is the one in question? if you've already been involved with her, there's no reason to worry about it. If you guys have been talking about doing it, there's very little involved with seducing her. She already knows what she wants. If you've already kissed then you've already made the first move.

There's nothing else to do but make a move on a woman you KNOW thinks of you sexually. The longer you wait the more you risk getting ousted from her sexual hunger fulfillment list.

Massage - and not just for the amount of time it takes you to work your way up from her waist to her shoulders and enter her from behind

A long massage that starts out therapeutic, and slowly transforms into sensual. I've never had that one fail. Unless she falls asleep. But if that happens, just revert to the shotgun approach I mentioned above - start at her waist, head for the shoulders, and enter her from behind

Gotta say this works wonders LOL! the trick is getting them to allow you to massage them.

 

[NeedGirthBad]

i'm confused by this post... So which woman out of these is the one in question? if you've already been involved with her, there's no reason to worry about it. If you guys have been talking about doing it, there's very little involved with seducing her. She already knows what she wants. If you've already kissed then you've already made the first move.

Sorry for not being clear! They are all potentially viable! The thing is with the first one is that we stopped being involved and there is a strange sort of awkwardness. With the other 2, the intial tension has waned and so I want to get it back.

 

[Total_Honesty]

I think he meant that he downloaded the book, mistydawn. Torrents are downloadable files for your computer.

 

[mistydawn]

I think he meant that he downloaded the book, mistydawn. Torrents are downloadable files for your computer.

I thought that might be what he meant, but the b*tch part confused me.

 

[Batwoman]

Chemistry is everything. I have always been sure right from the beginning if I was sexually interested in a man, or not.

I love romantic gestures (flowers, cards, erotic notes, candlelight) but only if they come from a man I already want. Coming from someone to whom I am not (or am no longer) sexually attracted -- then they just make me feel weird and sad.

What pushes my buttons most are chemistry and body language. I want to see his eyes, his smile, hear his voice speaking low and full of desire. THAT makes me melt.