I was suppose to lose my virginity yesterday....HUGE fail....I was kissing her a little right...an you know i got somewhat hard and just kept kissing her. I started grabbing her ass and licking her tits, My indicators tell me that she was loving that. Then she started going for my junk and thas when it all failed.. I reached my Max erect point a couple of mins ago (i can tell bcuz i felt a lil pre cum)..and then she grabbed my flaccid while kissing and started to jerk..but only for a little. In my head it was SOOOO EMBARRASING. Im like 3in-4in flaccid. TERRIBLE. Then it was time for her to leave...I hate myself.
Huge fail...
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Pretty much nobody's first time goes as planned. Why did you lose your erection though? I didn't read about you climaxing.
Losing virginity is usually a disappointing and poor experience, all your expectations wrapped into a nerve wracking few minutes where you are so worried you can barely enjoy it. It gets much better the more you do it, as you gain more confidence, technique, and control.
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OK, first off bro, don't say you hate yourself. It happens. No reason to go into self loathing and putting yourself down. We were ALL there once.
I wanted a bigger dick so I did PE. Although I know it takes more than 55 days for my penis to grow, Just the face of doing PE would help my mindset. Now there's moments where idont wanna do or moments where I feel like this shud motivate me..
I was hard when I was kissing her. An that point I should've juss whipped it but I didn't. And now I juss keep thinking about it. She texts me but it feels like it nvr happen. She doesn't mention it at all. I have another shot tommorow but I just hate being flaccid. Even if my EL is 5.5 I don't care about thatanymore. I've accepted the fact that there's always someone bigger than me. I just don't want my flaccid to be present. Ugh...
Still hate myself...-____-
I was hard when I was kissing her. An that point I should've juss whipped it but I didn't. And now I juss keep thinking about it. She texts me but it feels like it nvr happen. She doesn't mention it at all. I have another shot tommorow but I just hate being flaccid. Even if my EL is 5.5 I don't care about thatanymore. I've accepted the fact that there's always someone bigger than me. I just don't want my flaccid to be present. Ugh...
Still hate myself...-____-
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She was probably embarrassed too, and is feeling like she did something wrong too. Go talk to her! Tell her she's so beautiful that you got all nervous yesterday, and smile and take her hand.... she'll eat it up. Then try to relax, take your time, and try again. Make sure you have plenty of private time -- no rushing! That's the biggest killer of erections (and a good time). Anyway, if she liked you enough to have sex with you yesterday, she likes you enough to try again. Just try to have a sense of humor about it and try again.
Good luck!
Good luck!
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OK, you know what bro, the more you talk nonsense like this, the greater your odds will be of having the same thing happen. You need to relax and just go with it. Who cares if you have a flaccid dick when you get started? Let her aide in getting you good and hard. And don't be worrying about who's bigger than you, that shouldn't even enter the equation dude.
That doesn't sound like a bad idea. I know she was expecting my dick 2 be bigger but it was my flaccid that probably turned her off.
Your right. I never was the kind to put myself down. I can actually admit that I am not the best atthis. But I'll juss relax this time
Dude that happend to me when I was like 14 and I ain't know what the fuck I was doin....I had put a condom on my flacid cock....ugh...so embarassing.....if u let her know how u feel about urself, she will most likely say its not a problem etc and that should calm and make u feel beder.....then once u get hard, she gonna be like DAMN are u sure of what u told me....lol..trust me that wrks....
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And what makes you so certain she was thinking negatively? So you started with a flaccid. You know how many times I've had sex with a woman and I started out flaccid? Hell, half of the fun is having her put your flaccid in her mouth and suck it a bit to get you raging hard.
Are you doing anything for her to get her aroused and make her feel good? Remember, sex is a two way street unless her getting you off is gratification enough for her and there are women out there like that.
They might be happy that I'm hard but I'm 5.5x5.0...its not like I'm wow-ing.
I did do things that turned her on. Its just that her pulling my dicc was proabaly supposed to be hard but it wasn't so it juss stopped
I did do things that turned her on. Its just that her pulling my dicc was proabaly supposed to be hard but it wasn't so it juss stopped
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I don't know why you thought that you were supposed to be hard when you started, or even right away when she started touching you. It often takes a while to get into the groove -- it's normal to not be hard right away at the start every time. Girls know this, and I know that I have always enjoyed it when he starts out flaccid and I get to feel him slowly getting hard and hot in my hands (or mouth). If it takes a while, that's fine, I get more time to play and feel all the stages in between. So don't freak out if you're not hard when you start out -- relax and let her work her magic on you!
