well personally I date females and transgender mtf women. My gf is trans right now and shes made it quite clear anything thicker than what Im at now (maybe a 1/2 more) would be uncomfortable, so i tailored my routine for more length gains (which she also said isnt necessary sex wise but shes more lenient that way). Friends of both sides say my irth is more than enough to hit walls.
If i can reach my length goal without losing my girth and functionality, whoopy for me, if i need to get a bit more girth so be it, but a super dick was never in my cards to begin with. Im not doing porn and my player days are over.