Getting a nice 8"x6" but loosing anal sex chance?

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raybbaby

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I would think your chances of getting to anally penetrate a woman with an EG of much more than 5.5 inches get pretty slim outside of the world of "adult film", meaning porn. I mean, just imagine trying to fit something that thick up your butt. Ouch.
 

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what usually hurts with anal is bad technique and not the size
 

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Some of you really misunderstood what I mean. Of course I like anal sex and want to go on but it should not be painfull for my partners and they also should be desired. Maybe I should have mentioned that; when we had such a problem,I gave it up. The thing is, I just wanted to find out if something wrong with me ; like unsufficient lube,patience ...etc.Some friends mentioned that even big sizes could be handled with proper foreplay and lube but you cannot categorize all the girls with their capacity.
 

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It is a fact that anus has a limited capacity of enlargement,so that maybe bad technique is the biggest handicap but size does really matter.
 

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Viking I know guys and women that get fisted and a fist is bigger than a dick. You hit on an issue you should strongly look at; a good anal lube and plenty of it plus you need to have patience. You really need to learn some anal stimualtion techinques that would help relax her and help open her up to make penatration easier.
 

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JF fisting is probably an extreme example.. Viking if you are worriend that a couple of girls would not want to take your future 6.5" girth, well you are probably right. But those few girls might not even try your current 6"..
 

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Just trying to make a point that some anuses can handle more than 6" in girth.
But you are correct that some girls cannot or will not even want try with that size girth.
 

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The anus is a hell of a lot more flexible than people really know. Just takes time to coax it so it relaxes. 6" may scare a lot of people, but it's probably not too common to find someone who can't take that fully relaxed and lubed up.
 

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Viking we mostly talked about girth here but if you meant the 8" length then i totally agree with you, esp if you dont like the thought of leaving something out
 

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They actually sell a special anal lube with some type of pain relief in it.
 

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If you're not a homosexual, there's no reason to do anal sex in the first place.

this coming from a guy who only likes big heads on a mans dick and doesn't see a point in having sex. oh yea, and he likes older ladies but doesn't wanna talk to them.
 

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You're right, but if she ever says that she wants anal sex with me that would be the last conversation we have.

you have never had sex. wtf are you saying.
 

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Well what he likes or doesn't like really isn't a part of this discussion is it?
 

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Misty, I don't agree -- I don't think it's sad at all to ask questions like VikingNorge did, I think it's perfectly reasonable. There is no need to condem a man for wanting something -- or at least wanting to keep his options open -- related to sex acts that at least some women think are a wonderful part of a shared sex life.

I like anal sex! I don't do it out of some sort of misplaced idea about needing to please a man. I LIKE it! (Often anal sex for me and my partner starts because I've asked for it.) In that context, I welcome the idea that a man would consider lady's feelings about size and anal sex when setting PE goals for himself.

i like giving anal sex. :p should i wear my costume too?
 

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Well what he likes or doesn't like really isn't a part of this discussion is it?

this guy is a troll. unintentional or not. he is incredibly inexperienced in sex and sexual topics yet he goes on and on about WHAT WE MUST AND MUST NOT DO, and what is right and wrong. its bullshit.
 

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And going around specifically calling him out is not trolling? Don't shoot yourself in the foot now.
 

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so yea. i don't think being big will complicate anything. anal sex will adapt to the size of the object going in.
 

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well personally I date females and transgender mtf women. My gf is trans right now and shes made it quite clear anything thicker than what Im at now (maybe a 1/2 more) would be uncomfortable, so i tailored my routine for more length gains (which she also said isnt necessary sex wise but shes more lenient that way). Friends of both sides say my irth is more than enough to hit walls.
If i can reach my length goal without losing my girth and functionality, whoopy for me, if i need to get a bit more girth so be it, but a super dick was never in my cards to begin with. Im not doing porn and my player days are over.
 

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The OP said that he had tried anal before and it only seemed to hurt the girls. He wants to get to 8x6 but wants to try anal still.
I think what misty is trying to say is why would you want to get bigger and keep trying it if you have only hurt women? .

Exactly. He is fully aware that it hurts women yet continues.

They make anal lube with a pain anesthetic. If that is being produced (I have seen it in stores)...hummm...that might be an indication that it is well known that IT HURTS!!!!

Oh and hey, since the anus can take a fist no one should give a second thought to 6"! Anyone with an aversion to that is just a frigid bitch!
 

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It doesn't hurt for everyone Misty. Vaginal sex hurts for some, but that doesn't mean it does for everyone else.
 
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