body or dick?
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:agree: We do not walk around with our bits showing so you will be picked by body and face, also the clothes on the body. Clothes catch my eye before a face. It isn't the cost of the clothes, or name brands, it is the style. Style says something about the person. I like creative dressers and just some simple looks can turn me on.
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I gotta admit that I find this thread really dull -- because hands down, I am WAY more interested in the shape of a man's body than the size of his cock. That's been true since I was a teenager, 100% of the time. No way I would ever "forgive you for your body if you had a big dick." I just don't get it how any man can be clueless enough to think that women really think that way.
I will choose a 6 inch dick with a hard body over an overweight body with an 12 in. dick.
Does that shock you?
Are you gonna close the thread?
I have a hard time with the fact that the men do not believe us. Could it be that they are thinking with a male mind? That this is how they judge a woman, by her bits (tits and pussies)? So they think that is what we are judging them on.
When i chose dick over body i wasn't even thinking what a woman would prefer. I was answering the question on what would make me the happiest.
Not having the dick i want tortures my mind, makes me so unhappy. So i'm trying to get a bigger dick purely for me.
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Threads don't get closed because they're dull.........they closed because the subject matter causes argumentative behavior amongst members.
And be advised, NOT ALL men think this way..........I'm a man, and I don't think that way at all. I judge a woman by the content of her character and her personality, not by how big her tits are or how tight I might think her pussy is. There have been will continue to be times where my fellow men embarass me with how they think.
Hey, like schlittle said, Sometimes it's not about the woman :lol:
While some guys do it specifically for the pleasure of a woman, others (quite a few actually) do it specifically to feel better about them selves in the arena of men...
It's still a largely taboo subject and many men believe that you can't do anything about it, so if you've got a big peen, you're "better off" than the other guy. Weird how it goes, but sometimes that's all you need to start being more sociable and more successful. to feel better about yourself. in a way fitness just wont.
As I said before I'd take the smaller penis and the NATURALLY "hot" body... you know those blokes that can eat 900lbs of cheesecake everyday and not gain a single pound. Those genes with say, a 5.5BPEL, sure as Long as I get to have it square! 5.5x5.5 I'll take it! i'd give up my current stats (8.75x5.75") for that
5"x5" sure... 3.75x3.75? hmmm pushing the limits of adhesion there :laugh: i could still work it back up to 6x6 so Maybe even that too!
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LOL! I may have to embarass you 'a little' on this one buddy - when I see an attractive women walking towards me, I'm not looking at the content of her character, I'm scoping out the contents of her bra
I'm checking out how she's built, what she looks like - those things that cause that physical attraction ... cause that's what I "see." Now the thing that separates the men from the goats is how fast you can make the shift from admiration of her looks to then seeing what sort of person she is (character, personality, etc).Like my example with Heather (the woman I met on the train I shared with you all), she is one of the most physically attractive women I've ever seen and my initial thoughts of her weren't all that great. But after we began talkimg, I found her to be highly intelligent, funny and just plain cool. But it was the package that I saw first - character wasn't what I saw that day when she walked on the train.
And that's one of the points in this thread - we have to take it from both angles. If you are in relationship with the person, then maybe a bigger dick is your goal. But if not, the woman's not gonna see the dick first, or even what type of guy you are. Misty mentioned clothing and the guy's sense of style as beig a turn-on for her. Character and even personality can't be judged by a person's fashion sense but it does catch your eye. And unless you're walking around all dau in a unitard showing off your cock, she may never know.
Even fat people or people who aren't the best looking have sex too
I choose cock every time!!!!
Hey, like schlittle said, Sometimes it's not about the woman :lol:
While some guys do it specifically for the pleasure of a woman, others (quite a few actually) do it specifically to feel better about them selves in the arena of men...
It's still a largely taboo subject and many men believe that you can't do anything about it, so if you've got a big peen, you're "better off" than the other guy. Weird how it goes, but sometimes that's all you need to start being more sociable and more successful. to feel better about yourself. in a way fitness just wont.
As I said before I'd take the smaller penis and the NATURALLY "hot" body... you know those blokes that can eat 900lbs of cheesecake everyday and not gain a single pound. Those genes with say, a 5.5BPEL, sure as Long as I get to have it square! 5.5x5.5 I'll take it! i'd give up my current stats (8.75x5.75") for that
5"x5" sure... 3.75x3.75? hmmm pushing the limits of adhesion there :laugh: i could still work it back up to 6x6 so Maybe even that too!
Um what are you talking about? I have been lifting a while and am currently in a cut phase, to get lean after putting on a good amount of muscle. People aren't just naturally super lean AND aesthetic/muscular without excercise and with poor diet. Just doesnt happen, except maybe rare black people with crazy beast genetics (no racist, serious). I've worked hard for my body and so does virtually everyone else who would be considered aesthetic. Not an accident. Sure i eat cheesecake, but not every day. I COULD eat it every day, just exercise more/eat less other food/ have smaller portions of it.
If you put in half the work you put into your body as you put into your penis enlargement program, I guarantee you could have both. Look up starting strength if you want the best routine to start off..
ANYBODY without serious physical limitations can build strong bone, tendon, muscle, etc. Your mind is the limiting factor to put in the effort. Similar to PE, it requires consistency, dedication, goals, etc etc.
/rant
^^ which is why I'd take a large starting penis to start any day, and then bust ass to get in shape for 6 months or so. And then have both
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Even fat people or people who aren't the best looking have sex too
I choose cock every time!!!!
True - and that's why I tried to make the discinction in my last post about those already in relationships versus those looking to get in one ... or that are simply looking to get laid ...
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LOL! I may have to embarass you 'a little' on this one buddy - when I see an attractive women walking towards me, I'm not looking at the content of her character, I'm scoping out the contents of her bra
Like my example with Heather (the woman I met on the train I shared with you all), she is one of the most physically attractive women I've ever seen and my initial thoughts of her weren't all that great. But after we began talkimg, I found her to be highly intelligent, funny and just plain cool. But it was the package that I saw first - character wasn't what I saw that day when she walked on the train.
And that's one of the points in this thread - we have to take it from both angles. If you are in relationship with the person, then maybe a bigger dick is your goal. But if not, the woman's not gonna see the dick first, or even what type of guy you are. Misty mentioned clothing and the guy's sense of style as beig a turn-on for her. Character and even personality can't be judged by a person's fashion sense but it does catch your eye. And unless you're walking around all dau in a unitard showing off your cock, she may never know.
OK, I guess I should CLARIFY what I meant since GTO pointed out an obvious flaw in my earlier post. Judging her based on the content of her character and personality was under the PRESUMPTION the physical attraction was already there. Case and point, whilst on our morning recess in court this morning, this attorney sent his assistant to drop off several boxes of documents needed for a trial that's starting tomorrow. OK, this assistant is a tall, leggy blond with beautiful tanned skin, a nice tattoo on her right ankle, wearing a nice pair of "fuck me" pumps...............she was GORGEOUS!!!! Pretty smile with beautiful, pearly white teeth (and yes GTO, all her teeth were there
). I mean, it was all I could NOT to stop and stare at her. And bummer, she'll there tomorrow for this trial to help out the attorney...............awwwwww, and I have to be in there tomorrow too!! Downside? She's about 20 years my junior......and she was packin' plenty up top to be enjoyed. OK GTO, is my clarification better?? lol
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OK, I guess I should CLARIFY what I meant since GTO pointed out an obvious flaw in my earlier post. Judging her based on the content of her character and personality was under the PRESUMPTION the physical attraction was already there. Case and point, whilst on our morning recess in court this morning, this attorney sent his assistant to drop off several boxes of documents needed for a trial that's starting tomorrow. OK, this assistant is a tall, leggy blond with beautiful tanned skin, a nice tattoo on her right ankle, wearing a nice pair of "fuck me" pumps...............she was GORGEOUS!!!! Pretty smile with beautiful, pearly white teeth (and yes GTO, all her teeth were there
OK GTO, is my clarification better?? lol
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I think that's not so much to do with looks alone as it is to do with how a person carries themselves. I mean obviously a good body and a nice smile goes a long way, but a perfectly average looking man, or even someone not classically attractive at all can still be insanely successful with women by exhibiting a strong character, some confidence, self-respect, some good banter and a little pride. If you're comfortable in your own skin you're gonna be alright, which is why we keep on banging on about "size doesn't matter yada yada." It seems a shame that us guys -even good looking guys with good bodies - would screw up our chances this way so often by worrying about our cocks, when she's not even going to see that until after you already attracted or seduced her.
Why am I so sure? I got plenty stories. Plus I don't work out, look like a horse's arse yet I still seem to do ok, to the point where my current gf reckons I need taming... lol.
Even fat people or people who aren't the best looking have sex too
see above
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why? I haven't a 4 inches cock, the perfect is super body and average to big cock, as mine LOL
No, it doesn't shock me. The truth never shocks a totally honest gentleman like myself.
