I don't like the idea of anal with a stranger, but with the girl I love, there's not much I'm not into. So I guess chalk me up for liking anal, but only in an intimate relationship.
Is it weird that I don't like anal sex?
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Yeah, that's what I want on my dick, some chick's sh*t with acid in it...................the more I hear on this thread, the MORE I'm inclined to stick with my philosophy.............there's a reason a woman has a vagina. Nuff said.
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I think the woman who enjoys anal sex has to be rare. If you have any respect at all for your woman, I would think you would want her to enjoy sexual intercourse as much as you do, tight vagina, or loose vagina. Obviously women who agree to anal intercourse want to please their partner--men too, for that matter.
I thought it was supposed to be a pleasurable experience for the two people involved in the sexual act.
I thought it was supposed to be a pleasurable experience for the two people involved in the sexual act.
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Hmm.. not sure if you're implying that would be the only reason, but with respect, I do't think it's *that* uncommon, and the two girls I've been with who were into it... honestly were really into it. I could be a scientist about it and say It's not the thickest wall between the back of the vagina and a-spot and her ass - or I could go by their reactions.
I can assure you they weren't grumbling "get on with it" at me
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i think most women do it the first time because they want to please their partner or because they think its something their partners wants.. the second and third time and there after the first is dependent .. some will still just give it as a way to please their male companion/s, others will do it because they love and enjoy it..and some will say never again...LOL
it is pleasurable for both partners, wouldnt be very fun otherwise now would it. Its not a submissive thing, but if it was then thats a shame for those guys. some women LOVE IT, simple as bud. and you have to think that the male equiv of the g-spot is up our arses, so in all likely hood more guys than girls would like it.
It is not weird that you do not like anal. I understand that just about all the porn out there has anal in it and people who are not interested think they are odd.
I totally agree with the above quote. Women do all kinds of things to please the man. Even I have and am sick thinking about it. Women see it in porn and many believe they have to be a porn star in bed. That is what the man wants (and they do!)
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Cindy and I got on this topic yesterday at lunch.
It started by her telling me she likes oral but she won't allow me to go down on her. I still can't figure that one out but whatever. That lead to an anal sex discussion, which she said she liked it but then at the same time said she didn't like something being shoved up her ass and that it hurts because it's a tight spot and you have to go real easy stuffing it (my dick) in there unless you used a ton of lube. The lube, wasn't enough for her to say "yeah, let's do anal sex next time"......not that I would because I wouldn't.....unless she REALLY and I mean REALLY wanted it............
Funny, our conversations are either about pot or sex............
It started by her telling me she likes oral but she won't allow me to go down on her. I still can't figure that one out but whatever. That lead to an anal sex discussion, which she said she liked it but then at the same time said she didn't like something being shoved up her ass and that it hurts because it's a tight spot and you have to go real easy stuffing it (my dick) in there unless you used a ton of lube. The lube, wasn't enough for her to say "yeah, let's do anal sex next time"......not that I would because I wouldn't.....unless she REALLY and I mean REALLY wanted it............
Funny, our conversations are either about pot or sex............
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Well, I really enjoy anal sex. Not every time we have sex, but sometimes, and I would guess that I am the one who starts it just as often as he is. Even my first time, I wanted it -- curiosity, and the fact that anal play with fingers etc. had felt really good. Yes it takes patience and no rushing, yes it takes lots of lube.... but it feels great. I do NOT do it just because I think my man wants it -- I do it because we both want it. If one of us is isn't feeling so inclined that day, we don't do anal. But when we both want it..... it can be stunningly good for both of us.
All of that said, I certainly agree that a lot of women probably try anal sex because their partner wants it, not because they want it themselves. That's a shame, because I suspect that under those circumstances a lot of women have bad experiences. It can really hurt if you are not physically and emotionally ready (the latter is important because if the lady isn't into it, her body tenses up). I guess I was just really lucky to have a fabulous man -- both adventuresome and patient -- with whom to learn about the joys of anal sex.
All of that said, I certainly agree that a lot of women probably try anal sex because their partner wants it, not because they want it themselves. That's a shame, because I suspect that under those circumstances a lot of women have bad experiences. It can really hurt if you are not physically and emotionally ready (the latter is important because if the lady isn't into it, her body tenses up). I guess I was just really lucky to have a fabulous man -- both adventuresome and patient -- with whom to learn about the joys of anal sex.
I will always remember what the first girl I was with that way said to me about it.
I asked her, "doesn't it hurt?" and she says "yeah... but it feels soooo good!"
I asked her, "doesn't it hurt?" and she says "yeah... but it feels soooo good!"
I will always remember what the first girl I was with that way said to me about it.
I asked her, "doesn't it hurt?" and she says "yeah... but it feels soooo good!"
That's what's weird. I actually had a friend (guy) that was more gay than bi, but you wouldn't have known it talking to him or hanging out with him. Totally straight seeming guy.
He mentioned that it was extremely pleasurable... He's one of the guys who can orgasm from it without any penile stimulation. He said it was so far beyond an orgasm that he was capable of by regular stimulation and penetrative sex. It was an all together different experience. I took his word for it, but i can imagine that it would be pleasurable if all the right circumstances are met. Definitely not for me, though.
I've given it, but i found i like the vajajay a little better, but if she wants it, I'll give it to her.
Ok.. fun related question then.. would you let a girl do you with a strapon? I reckon I would.
edit: sorry if that's a threadjack.. I wasn't sure it deserved its own :-o
edit: sorry if that's a threadjack.. I wasn't sure it deserved its own :-o
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my initial reaction to the question is "HELL no!"
My reaction after thinking about it is "HELL no!"
LOL! Seriously though... I... *ahem* experimented with some "insertion" before. nothing bigger than 2" in circumference. I found it to be far more awkward and uncomfortable than pleasurable so I don't think I'd enjoy anything 4 to 6 inches in circumference plowing deeply into me. Just... seems... :laugh:
My reaction after thinking about it is "HELL no!"
LOL! Seriously though... I... *ahem* experimented with some "insertion" before. nothing bigger than 2" in circumference. I found it to be far more awkward and uncomfortable than pleasurable so I don't think I'd enjoy anything 4 to 6 inches in circumference plowing deeply into me. Just... seems... :laugh:
lol.. I dunno, I figure you never know until you try, and lots of people do seem to like it.. but yeah an 8x6 might be pushing it!
What always worried me in my head about it is the image of some girl going to town on my ass going "yeah.. see how YOU like it"
What always worried me in my head about it is the image of some girl going to town on my ass going "yeah.. see how YOU like it"
ha! i dont know... maybe some day. her fingers yes, but a strap on??? christ! maybe? no? no. im going with no for now. ha
i think it would feel more degrading to me more than anything else? anybody else feel that way?
My gf loves anal sex. She always wants it, but I really have to be in the mood to give it to her anally. The first time it felt really good, feels nice.
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As a gay guy I can tell you that at first anal sex was extremely painful, not being relaxed did not help the situation either.
After time I have found it to be very pleasurable.
In one of the postings I read on this thread someone mentioned he did not like the idea because he was afraid it would not be clean enough for him. Well you do want to prep yourself first by using an enema to help with that issue.
After time I have found it to be very pleasurable.
In one of the postings I read on this thread someone mentioned he did not like the idea because he was afraid it would not be clean enough for him. Well you do want to prep yourself first by using an enema to help with that issue.
