Would this make you feel inadequate?

[sjones130]

Hey there! First post! I just found the site and I've been reading for a while. I'm going to start JP's 90 day beginner routine today and let you guys know how I get on. I'm pretty average, 6 inches, not sure about girth as I haven't measured that.

Anyway! My sex life is pretty great. I'm with the love of my life and when we started having sex I could probably only last about 10-15 minutes. I've totally changed that around now and when we had sex on Sunday evening I lasted for over 2 hours. I have total control over my ejaculation, and I could come within 10 mins if I wanted to, or not come at all and keep going for ages. My girlfriend likes it hard and fast and she always cums multiple times when we have sex. She says I'm the only guy to make her have an orgasm during penetrative sex. I have to admit this was a big ego boost as I don't have a big penis at all, in fact I consider it to be pretty small. The other night after we had sex for 2 hours she started asking me about my previous sexual partners and if I ever had sex with anyone with a huge vagina, which I had. She told me about having sex with a guy who had a 3 inch penis and she felt nothing... so then I had to go and ask her what's the biggest penis she has had and she said she was with this black guy and he was a whopping 11 inches. She said he couldn't fit all of it inside her and she didn't enjoy it, it was very sore for her. I'm not sure whether to believe that or not so if there's any women on here I welcome your feedback as i figured it would be very enjoyable for a woman. Knowing that she was with someone with an 11 inch penis has made me sort of feel inadequate lately. I guess I'm envious maybe. I realize I make her cum multiple times when we have sex and I can go as long as I like, but I can't help feeling like sh*t since she told me. How would you guys handle being told this by your girlfriend?

Thanks for listening.

 

[aidan784]

Welcome to the gym!

After a bit of time here you'll realise that:

1. The 11 inch was probably bullshit.

2. Size is just a male ego thing.

 

[sjones130]

Thanks

Yeah I realize it's all in my head and I just need to get over it. I wouldn't mind being in the 7 inch club so I'll get working on that now.

 

[sotorp]

It could screw your mind up thinking about a huge black cock pounding your girls pussy.
But it is all up to you and how you picture it or how you throw the picture away and deal with what is before you.
Nobody likes to hear about past boyfriends and sex lives.
Of course it could be worse..... she could have said that it was the best sex she had ever had and she can't get it out of her mind.

But your girls experience just proves the different way women and men look at cock size. For us bigger is always better because culturally we have been brainwashed to associate penis size with sexual power and domination over the fair sex.
It would be interesting for somebody to study this phenomenon. In part of course this is because of the erection process .
The higher the erection= higher sexual stimulation=better sex.
So simplistically and even physically we associate a bigger penis with more sexual satisfaction.

However I seriously doubt women like very long penises i.e. over 6-7 inches depending also on vagina depth.This is because they do not get much pleasure from the last one or two inches of cock at the bottom end where they feel very little.
What they do get pleasure from is from a shorter penis but with thrusts that are deep and stimulate the clitoris when you go "balls deep".This can be more pleasurable than lets say an 8inch cock that is going deep but is banging their cervix before the two pelvises can meet.
On the other hand I would say a bit of extra girth is more pleasurable for most women unless you are way over 6 inch but also depending on particular vaginas. I would imagine for most women a "fatty" like 6.5 " BPEL but 5.7 inch EG is more pleasurable than a tall one of 8.5 BPEL and 5" EG.

 

[Pegasus]

This again;check the numerous threads on this subject.