Question for men about women and massages

[mistydawn]

I think I am posting this in the right place (hopefully). Recently I have been thinking about massages. I have a friend who does massages with a happy ending for men. She gives a hand job. I know a lot of men go for this. I was wondering if this same thing exists for women.

I have searched porn and found the girl is massaged and porked. I found one where the woman was got off with fingers after the massage BUT it was because it was being done by another woman!

So, I have gone and tried to find out if I could get a man to give me a massage with a happy ending like men. I first sought men who do massages and are paid. Then I fished to see if they give happy endings. One guy said for extra money. The other men seem to be salivating, anxious and want to know my age and what I look like. They obviously are not looking at this professionally. I specifically said a manual happy ending, but I think they are not getting that. I think they are thinking intercourse.

Why? Why can I not just get a nice massage with a happy ending, as in, hands and a vibrator being used? Why does it always end in intercourse? Men are given hand jobs and blowjobs by women all the time and they (women) get nothing back. Why can't men do the same...even if being paid???? I would just like it to be all for me sometimes which guys get the luxury of a lot.

A friend told me to get a submissive. I think even with a submissive I would have to give something like sissifying, beating, CBT...whatever they are into.

Why?

Can anyone explain to me why this is?

 

[somebodyelse]

wow...

Hmmmm Sounds like a new market! I might look into this! Holy crap Misty you're a genius

Can I be a satellite office You start the business and I'll work for you hahaha

To Add:

I'm sure there's a lot of women looking for exactly what you're talking about right now... Nothing more pleasurable to me than getting a woman off. I like to see if i can do it with just my hands... you know you're good if you can finish her off with just your hands

 

[BigRooster]

I thought about some night classes on massaging at a local technical school. Truthfully what you are talking about was at the back of my mind, but being a married man. That thought is still there, and will probably just stay there. I still think about doing it proffesionally. Maybe hooking up with a salon or chiropractor. I do think that if a woman does seek this kind of massage. She should be careful for what she is asking for. If the man is doing the job right and she is getting what she is paying for. The man is probably going to get aroused as well. Meaning that he is going to be looking for a happy ending too. I don't care who you are. There is no way you can be pleasing a woman in any kind of way and not be aroused. Correct me if I'm wrong. Also there is the possibilty for the woman saying she was raped. How do you come up with some kind of legal agreement that no charges will be pressed if things were to go wrong. I don't think any man on this site wants to go to prison, especially for rape. The courts seem to take the ladies side in cases of that.
Hoped I shed a little light on your question.

 

[Pegasus]

This is avaible, I had a friend who did it. If you are paying you call the shots.

 

[BigO]

I think you should be able to get what you want and agree that it should be professional. There is no reason why a woman shouldnt be able to enjoy an massage all inclusive that is just for her and her only, maybe you should look into to getting that going. Probably would be a smash hit in Veagas or some where it would be legal. Great Idea qnd a great question as well

 

[mistydawn]

A great idea but it is technically prostitution. Seems so stupid to me that I cannot pay for someone to give me an orgasm.

I stopped getting massages because I couldn't really enjoy them. I knew I'd have to get up and perform. It killed it for me.

 

[crs]

Have you tried looking at the Backpage site, there are one or two where i live that serve women whether or not they do what you want i don't know but it's a good place to look.

 

[islander]

FWB should work for this. He can give u the massage and happy ending and you can watch him jack off afterwards.
Or maybe do a one day him one day you. Just happy ending no intercourse.
What you need is to find someone that gives tantric massages. Most of the time they are female. If that doesn't bother you then you will most certainly get a happy ending with your own hands or theirs if they agree. .
Call an instructor to get "trained" and once you get to know the person ask for the names of her other students.
Post the info

 

[GTO]

Had an ex actually give me this idea once and said I should seriously look into it since, as she claimed "your hands are so perfect for it." Never gave it much thought and blew her off ... but I am hearing more and more women looking for these types of services - esp. the real professional types. Don't think my gf would like me rubbing on another woman's clit though! LOL!

 

[whamtoon]

I can say that I know it gives my wife incredible pleasure to be massaged. She has told me that whenever she gets a massage she is turned on and near the PONR. But without the clitoral stimulation she just has to wait until later by herself or with me. I don't think I would have a problem with her getting a happy ending, as long as that was it.
I do know that if I start massaging her back and shoulders, I do get aroused. So I would wonder if any man could do the happy ending for a woman without having a hardon and then have to take care of it himself.

 

[GTO]

I can say that I know it gives my wife incredible pleasure to be massaged. She has told me that whenever she gets a massage she is turned on and near the PONR. But without the clitoral stimulation she just has to wait until later by herself or with me. I don't think I would have a problem with her getting a happy ending, as long as that was it.
I do know that if I start massaging her back and shoulders, I do get aroused. So I would wonder if any man could do the happy ending for a woman without having a hardon and then have to take care of it himself.

I've been able to give my gf a massage without springing wood - but it's been a rare occurrence indeed. It takes a ton of concentration, especially when I get to massaging her ass ... oh, I better stop thinking about that now ...

 

[whamtoon]

Yeah, that gets me going too, especially the crack

 

[TTBB]

You can actually get what you are looking for where i live.
full body erotic massages for women by men ..


". I invite you to enjoy an unrivalled erotic full body pampering. My sensual massage session is beyond your hottest erotic dreams.
I am a world-travelled, experienced euro masseur and a sophisticated, pleasurable companion, offering classy service in my up-market, lovely studio.

I m handsome, stand at 180 cm tall and have well groomed athletic body, blue eyes, brown hair, fair skin, warm hearted character and fun-loving attitude.

My legendary soft, erotic touch and throughout 5 continents gained experience guarantee your highest pleasure. You can play with me if you wish and can be nude, offering body slides and other cheeky extras for your pleasure. First timers are very welcome too. My discreet studio is professionally equipped on the highest hygiene level"

 

[MrBigDick]

You can actually get what you are looking for where i live.
full body erotic massages for women by men ..


". I invite you to enjoy an unrivalled erotic full body pampering. My sensual massage session is beyond your hottest erotic dreams.
I am a world-travelled, experienced euro masseur and a sophisticated, pleasurable companion, offering classy service in my up-market, lovely studio.

I m handsome, stand at 180 cm tall and have well groomed athletic body, blue eyes, brown hair, fair skin, warm hearted character and fun-loving attitude.

My legendary soft, erotic touch and throughout 5 continents gained experience guarantee your highest pleasure. You can play with me if you wish and can be nude, offering body slides and other cheeky extras for your pleasure. First timers are very welcome too. My discreet studio is professionally equipped on the highest hygiene level"

Damn TTBB, where did you find this ad?

Personally, I think the idea is awesome. Women should be entitled to get the same satisfaction men do. JMO. Unfortunately, I think because "massaging" has always been considered a man's guilty pleasure, more of these places cater to men than to women. However, living in the era we now do, I should think there'd be more and more of these services available to women.

 

[TTBB]

That was just from one of the more known "tradeandexchange" websites in my country .. a place where people post things they want to sell or find...took all of two seconds to find.
but you can find ads like that at the back or local papers, services listed in the phone book.
prostitution is legal here.. so it means the market for erotic massage is able to promote itself within reason.

I personally wouldn't pay for the service.
but i do love those kinds of massages.. give me a man who is willing to give me erotic massages and i would be a very happy woman.. so much more relaxed and fun to be around..LOL

 

[phil88]

more importantly where do i find a woman to practice on( i wouldn't want to practice on my actual partner a fwb situation would be different though) and where can i find one to teach me (i wouldnt be comfortable learning from a man)

 

[TTBB]

Why wouldn't you want to practice on an actual partner?

 

[islander]

It's mind blowing. Get a book or read online. Do a little at a time. Your partner will go crazy and want u long time!

 

[MrBigDick]

That was just from one of the more known "tradeandexchange" websites in my country .. a place where people post things they want to sell or find...took all of two seconds to find.
but you can find ads like that at the back or local papers, services listed in the phone book.
prostitution is legal here.. so it means the market for erotic massage is able to promote itself within reason.

I personally wouldn't pay for the service.
but i do love those kinds of massages.. give me a man who is willing to give me erotic massages and i would be a very happy woman.. so much more relaxed and fun to be around..LOL

You're already fun to be around!!

Wow, prostitution is legal there? Definitely not here.

I don't know, I think if a man can have access to those services, so should a woman.

 

[MrBigDick]

Why wouldn't you want to practice on an actual partner?

This would be the perfect situation for me personally. Practice on your lover.