What's with all this, "if I love him his cock size doesn't matter" crap?

[TazerGun]

Lol, wow... I once told a female I had sex with that my penis was 9 inches. In reality, I was about 6.75 at the time. I said 9 as a joke, but she took it seriously and proceeded to tell her friends and her current boyfriend my size. I was with him once, we were both drunk, and he kept saying how insecure he felt because I had a 9 inch cock.

The point being, females really don't know. It's such a cliche, but confidence is everything in the bedroom. Apparently your woman loves sex with you and you have zero confidence. If you stop putting such a premium on penis size and start enjoying the sex and mastering your technique you'll learn to forget about size and be completely comfortable with yourself... and your girl will enjoy sex with you that much more.

 

[burgers]

Because you're an insecure man who thinks everything he's told is a lie. Women cannot tell the difference between small, average, and large when you're talking about world average size. They know what is small, average, or large for their own body.

So there is the possibility that the other chodes were my size? One was her height (5'4) and the other 5'8. I know that height has no correlation though.

 

[Messerschmidt]

So there is the possibility that the other chodes were my size? One was her height (5'4) and the other 5'8. I know that height has no correlation though.

Are you asking if its possible that the average guy has an average size penis? Yes, I would say that is possible.

 

[DemOne]

So there is the possibility that the other chodes were my size? One was her height (5'4) and the other 5'8. I know that height has no correlation though.

A person's height doesn't really have any determination on what their penis size will be. It's possible they were bigger, possible they were smaller, possible they were the same. Their size means nothing. What reason does she have to lie to you about you being big for her? She knows her body, you clearly don't. Even if one of her past lovers was larger, that doesn't mean sex was any better.

 

[phil88]

why does this have to be so god damn long..... this thread is awesome. Ridiculed, dude, your a hero lol, seriously, you need to post more.

i really dont know whats better, burgers initial train of thought, the forums attempts to "help" or ridiculed's post. So much anger

at this point i am recommending medication lol, but i am not done reading the thread, just there is so much here i needed to get food....


p.s "wanting" to be alpha suggests way to many insecurities for it to ever be a reality.

 

[burgers]

why does this have to be so god damn long..... this thread is awesome. Ridiculed, dude, your a hero lol, seriously, you need to post more.

i really dont know whats better, burgers initial train of thought, the forums attempts to "help" or ridiculed's post. So much anger

at this point i am recommending medication lol, but i am not done reading the thread, just there is so much here i needed to get food....


p.s "wanting" to be alpha suggests way to many insecurities for it to ever be a reality.

Good point. I would however ask that if a man behaves like one and achieves the same results as one, is he not in affect an alpha male even though is is still insecure about himself? Isn't alpha status something that is percieved by the outside world and not determined by the man's own real insecurity? If someone is good at something, he is good at something. His personal beliefs about his own skill levels are irrelevant if he is good at it. Obviously its best to be secure and good at things at the same time, but I think tge perceptions of others are what make someone alpha or not. I have a long way to go to being alpha, but people certainly view me as a confident and funny guy. I get invited to lots of parties and always get things really hopping. Weird eh? I am very insecure but I seem to prevail regardless. Women are always flirting with me too, despite my insecurity. I can't figure it out. I think I am one of those depressed individuals that overcompensate by being hyper social and fun even though I am dying on the inside. I also tend to be incredibly obsessive, as is evidenced by this ridiculous thread. I really need to get a full-time job. F me I am a mess. Sorry guys. I hope you find this entertaining. When I step back from it even I can laugh at how weird it is.

 

[spi2ro]

Hey Burgers, Does the girlfriend reach a climax, does she quietly make nice groans and moans, then your what she likes and doesn't need a boyfriend that is immature.

 

[burgers]

why does this have to be so god damn long..... this thread is awesome. Ridiculed, dude, your a hero lol, seriously, you need to post more.

i really dont know whats better, burgers initial train of thought, the forums attempts to "help" or ridiculed's post. So much anger

at this point i am recommending medication lol, but i am not done reading the thread, just there is so much here i needed to get food....


p.s "wanting" to be alpha suggests way to many insecurities for it to ever be a reality.

Hey Burgers, Does the girlfriend reach a climax, does she quietly make nice groans and moans, then your what she likes and doesn't need a boyfriend that is immature.

She has stated that she has never had an orgasm. I am inclined to believe her. She was so shy when we first had sex, and she had a very hard time getting wet. She was surprised when I told her I loved to go down on girls. Apparently the other guys never did that. She gets right to the edge of orgasm, where she is twitching and tensing and shaking and making subtle moaning sounds, and then she hits a wall where she won't allow herself to cum. Strange. I think she has childhood issues.

 

[phil88]

If you walk into a room and I pick up on your need to lead, and then let you believe you are doing so, who is the alpha male?

this is extremely entertaining, also know nothing i say carries any judgement , this is just easily one of the more interesting threads lately.

sadly your not in love..... your going to want to keep the girl and keep having sex because your mind fuck is gonna get a lot worse without her. Also your right, while a small dick may not be a deal breaker it definitely makes a difference. I am sure more then one woman on here will tell you the best sex she ever had was with the smallest dick. You clone that dude with the small dick, and give him a bigger one, and I bet it adds to the experience instead of takes away from it. Having a smaller penis just puts more pressure on the rest of the experience. The good news is you can still be better then most.

what do you do for psychical activity aside from masturbation and sex?

 

[burgers]

If you walk into a room and I pick up on your need to lead, and then let you believe you are doing so, who is the alpha male?

this is extremely entertaining, also know nothing i say carries any judgement , this is just easily one of the more interesting threads lately.

sadly your not in love..... your going to want to keep the girl and keep having sex because your mind fuck is gonna get a lot worse without her. Also your right, while a small dick may not be a deal breaker it definitely makes a difference. I am sure more then one woman on here will tell you the best sex she ever had was with the smallest dick. You clone that dude with the small dick, and give him a bigger one, and I bet it adds to the experience instead of takes away from it. Having a smaller penis just puts more pressure on the rest of the experience. The good news is you can still be better then most.

what do you do for psychical activity aside from masturbation and sex?

I don't have a need to lead. If anything I have a need to make people laugh. I'm not super big tough guy or anything. I can't intimidate anyone, not do I try. I just like to be liked. My point was that personal belief in one's self has to take a back seat to what people really think about you. If people perceive you as confident and funny and secure, then to them you are, if if you are a bloody mess on the inside. Perhaps I need to fix my OCD. I have battled it for years and it affects my whole life.

 

[burgers]

I don't view my penis as small. I thought it was dead-center average really. I lift weights, run etc. I do lots of pullups.

 

[phil88]

any drugs? drink alcohol? anything that would be mind altering? how often do you masturbate? How long do you sleep? Do you eat healthy?

 

[burgers]

Lately I am very depressed and up to a couple of days ago I would masturbate out of boredom two times per day on average. Not lately because I have this idea that my shaft is less sensitive. I take a list of supplements, drink green tea, occasionally drink whisky and beer, don't smoke eat a balanced diet low in saturated fat and get 8 hours of sleep per night. I read a lot and sometimes feel as though my brain is going to implode as I can't shut it off. Like a non-stop circus. Lol. In case anyone wonders about why my spelling is poor, it's because I am typing this on an iPhone; I don't have Internet on my pc.

 

[phil88]

whats the weather like where you live? and do you fall asleep on your own or sleep clean?

 

[burgers]

I sleep in a vat of warm peanut butter in a well oxygenated room that is lined with magnets to align my energy. Lol.

 

[phil88]

lol well it could be winter depression, which will end soon as it is spring, or your legitimately chemically depressed, so talk to someone who can give you meds, or vitamin D.

 

[burgers]

Should I just Not have sex again? It may save me a lot of problems. Certainly a great way to deal with inadequacy; just don't do the thing that causes you anxiety.

I was seriously happier when I was a virgin, and my favorite pass-time was turning girls down and being a jerk to them and making fun of them openly. I was an outside observer, and my code was not unlike the code of a videographer on the African savanna; observe, but don't interact. I used to be free of all of this shagging crap, and was much more confident when I never bothered to pay any attention to women. I would literally go to parties and relish in attracting girls then shooting their efforts to attract me down. Maybe I am an emotional masochist. I hate the battle of the sexes. Why couldn't ever man have the same sized penis? A 7 x 5.5 would be plenty for most women. Imagine if there was no variety in size and women never had anything to talk about because every cock was the same. This planet is unfair. I have little to complain about, I'm just making a blanket statement. I need to go and rest.

 

[irheretogrow]

That would be ridiculous, I would never find this cool place if I had a 7x5.5... and the way everyone is conceiving things in their mind many things are unfair but we must accept it and live on.

 

[Hanma]

First of all.

HOLY BANGING sh*t COCKS, BATMAN. This thread's grown so much! Look at the active users! 55!

Now:
You don't have a micro penis.
Your penis works perfectly well.
You can last for as long as you can, in your own words.
You have a girl that loves you so much.
Your personality seems to be 9 on the scale.
You are financially and physically well set.
You get hit on a lot.
You are a social guy.

Quit complaining, get over the winter depression.

Also, check this thread out: https://www.pegym.com/forums/success-forum/24027-thank-you-pe-gym.html

 

[normalguy]

Are you mad?

Are you mad?

Hi there. I am new to these forums and really enjoy reading the different views individuals have here.

I recently got into my first relationship and my girlfriend seems to be crazy about me, can't get enough of, always says the sex is amazing and blah blah. I really like her, but I honestly think she lying, even though she seems very honest. I have an absolutely average sized cock in every sense of the word (5.8 x 4.9) and I just can't buy that the sex she has with me is tge best she has had. She said she has only had sex with two other men before (her ex boyfriend, (they didn't put it all the way in and her hymen never broke) and her estranged husband) the odds are that one or both of those dudes where bigger than me, and it pisses me off.

If I can't fill her up like the other guys, there is no way the sex can be better, because I just can't stimulate as many nerves. Now, I have hard erections and can last as long as I want, but that's not enough. She texts me constantly and says that she loves me, but I feel that it's all irrelevant if I am not as big as her previous partners. I know to never ask about what she thinks about my cock, but she says that I am a perfect fit, which of course means; "you are too small but I love you so I can deal with it".

It really bugs me that although I am taller, better looking, in better shape and financially better off than the previous chodes, that they are more manly than me simply by virtue of nature. Women say sex is better if she loves the man, and that it's not just about penetration, but come on now, if it wasn't just about that, we would just make out right?

I feel horrible that she will settle for me and my average cock cause she, "loves" me. If sex with your partner isn't the best you've ever had, you may as well not have a partner, you should be shopping buddies. Lol. I'm seriously thinking of breaking up with her, cause I always picture her with bigger cocks in her pussy and mouth and I can't love her because she's had better sex with bigger cocks before me.

If I had an 8x6 I could love a woman, because I would know with 99 percent confidence that I would be the biggest and thus best she has ever had. Should I break up with her? Why do women settle for less like this girl has with me? I hate my cock. I feel like retiring it forever and never having sex again, because I feel like no matter how hard I try, I can never be good in bed because of a genetic factor that I cannot change. Thoughts?

YOU ARE COMPLETELY OFF TARGET. Don't take it bad but I think that you should really seek for professonial help. You seem to have a girlfriend who is really crazy about you and you really think that all the texts she send you about how sex is good with you are a lie... Moreover you even think of breaking your relationship with her? Just because you assume that she might have been with a guy with a bigger penis than yours?
Even if you might have read this already, I'm gonna say it one more time: a guy with an average penis can be better in bed than a guy with a huge penis. It's not as much about the size but how you use it... Keep in mind that you might never reach your 8x6 goal. So what will you do? Try to avoid woman until you reach this goal? Dump every woman you date just because she might have been with a bigger guy?
WAKE UP! This isn't fantasy, this isn't porn. This is real life and no one is going to live your life for you. So be happy with your girl, have a lot of sex with her, enlarge your penis and try to reach your goal and stop thinking about those bullshits (excuse my rudeness). Because when you say all these kind of stupid things, the only that comes to my mmind is that you don't deserve such a girl...