What's with all this, "if I love him his cock size doesn't matter" crap?

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Hi there. I am new to these forums and really enjoy reading the different views individuals have here.

I recently got into my first relationship and my girlfriend seems to be crazy about me, can't get enough of, always says the sex is amazing and blah blah. I really like her, but I honestly think she lying, even though she seems very honest. I have an absolutely average sized cock in every sense of the word (5.8 x 4.9) and I just can't buy that the sex she has with me is tge best she has had. She said she has only had sex with two other men before (her ex boyfriend, (they didn't put it all the way in and her hymen never broke) and her estranged husband) the odds are that one or both of those dudes where bigger than me, and it pisses me off.

If I can't fill her up like the other guys, there is no way the sex can be better, because I just can't stimulate as many nerves. Now, I have hard erections and can last as long as I want, but that's not enough. She texts me constantly and says that she loves me, but I feel that it's all irrelevant if I am not as big as her previous partners. I know to never ask about what she thinks about my cock, but she says that I am a perfect fit, which of course means; "you are too small but I love you so I can deal with it".

It really bugs me that although I am taller, better looking, in better shape and financially better off than the previous chodes, that they are more manly than me simply by virtue of nature. Women say sex is better if she loves the man, and that it's not just about penetration, but come on now, if it wasn't just about that, we would just make out right?

I feel horrible that she will settle for me and my average cock cause she, "loves" me. If sex with your partner isn't the best you've ever had, you may as well not have a partner, you should be shopping buddies. Lol. I'm seriously thinking of breaking up with her, cause I always picture her with bigger cocks in her pussy and mouth and I can't love her because she's had better sex with bigger cocks before me.

If I had an 8x6 I could love a woman, because I would know with 99 percent confidence that I would be the biggest and thus best she has ever had. Should I break up with her? Why do women settle for less like this girl has with me? I hate my cock. I feel like retiring it forever and never having sex again, because I feel like no matter how hard I try, I can never be good in bed because of a genetic factor that I cannot change. Thoughts?
 
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Oh boy have you got a lot to learn about woman. Maybe one of the ladies on here will pop by and tell you what you obviously don't know. So I guess the guys who can't function have no hope in having a nice happy marriage with great sex.
 

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I had (have) this problem too. Honestly, you're over thinking. I am the thinnest my girlfriend has had (4.75) but she constantly says I am the best a literally gets pissed if I deny. If she says its the best sex, then it probably is, especially if she says without you asking her. If she just comes out and says it, it is probably true. Don't let it ruin the relationship.

Its a psychology thing with you and you should not take it out on her. It really sucks knowing you are probably smaller. I have a huge issue with my thinness so it definitely sucks knowing I am the worst there. However, since you said you last long and are hard, you probably are the best she's had. I am kind of rambling because I should be heading to class so I'll make a better reply later.
 

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Hi and welcome, don't break up with her cause all that is in your mind, she loves sex with you cause you have a fitting unit for her, from your post I get it that it pisses you when she tells you that yer small and if her ex was bigger than you start PE-ing and surpass her ex but I say don't break up with her.
 

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Wow, you really need some help.

I disagree with pretty much every statement you made.

This is the dumbest reason I've heard for wanting to break up with a girl who loves you. I mean SERIOUSLY??
 
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She never said I was smaller. Not at all. I just assume it. Also, what good is love if you can't satisfy her like the other guy? Relationships aren't all about sex, bit it has to be the most important aspect. Otherwise you may as well be friends with her amt not having sex anymore. I am seriously thinking of telling her I don't want to have sex anymore and that she should find a guy with a big cock to love.
 

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Dude, that would be the most foolish thing you can ever do and you will facepalm yourself one day...why tell her " find another guy with big cock " when you can get yourself big with PE ?
 

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Wow. Just... Wow!
 

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Wow. Just... Wow!

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She never said I was smaller. Not at all. I just assume it. Also, what good is love if you can't satisfy her like the other guy? Relationships aren't all about sex, bit it has to be the most important aspect. Otherwise you may as well be friends with her amt not having sex anymore. I am seriously thinking of telling her I don't want to have sex anymore and that she should find a guy with a big cock to love.

Dude, unless you stick to a virgin, then there is a GOOD chance that EVERY girl has experienced something bigger than you. So you would not have a relationship with a girl ever again?

Do you ever hear a woman complain that her partner had women with bigger boobs before, so she wants to break up?? How absurd is that???

You should really seek help from consultants. (I bet that if you look at this post few years later, you will laugh your ass off for your immature thoughts)
 

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How do you not think of your woman getting hammered by a bigger cock and enjoying it? Cause of course she did, and she probably wishes you could have a big cock too. No matter how hard you f her you can't ever fill her or stretch her as much so what's tge point in having a relationship if you can't ever measure up?
 

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How do you not think of your woman getting hammered by a bigger cock and enjoying it? Cause of course she did, and she probably wishes you could have a big cock too. No matter how hard you f her you can't ever fill her or stretch her as much so what's tge point in having a relationship if you can't ever measure up?

Oh stop it now. Your original post wasn't that bad but now you are just trolling.
 

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I'm inclined to agree with you Skeptic. If not...

Porn has done terrible things for you burgers.
 

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Frustrated cause your girlfriend told you that you're too small ? and her ex was bigger ? in that case PE is your friend.
 

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You guys are asking all the wrong questions. The first question should be "How old are you?", likely followed by "Aaahh, no wonder. You are yoing and have been watching too much porn".

Because like Aiden said: Wow

-UYN-
 

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I'm not trolling! I really feel this way. I feel like I am losing my mind. I don't think I can ever have a relationship with a woman because of my genetic inadequacy.
I need advice.
 

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Another solid example of what porn can cause and end this addiction...
 

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Why would this problem go away with age? I am 23. I had sex with one woman a month before I met this woman. She has had sex with two guys before me, I have had sex with one woman before her. She never said her ex's were bigger. I just assume they are.
 

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Its not necessarily age, that UYN speaks of, but the maturity that (usually) comes with it. One day you'll realize there is more to a relationship than being able to "fill her up and stretch her," which you alluded to earlier.
 
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Why would this problem go away with age? I am 23. I had sex with one woman a month before I met this woman. She has had sex with two guys before me, I have had sex with one woman before her. She never said her ex's were bigger. I just assume they are.

Haha, why would you assume it? Think positively :D Maybe her ex were all smaller than you ;p Wouldn't that make you feel great?!

If you are really curious, just ask her. If she says you are the biggest she had, then BINGO! WINNING!

If not, just give her the finger and tell her to FUCK OFF!

No, I am not serious ;p
 
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