Damn hard flaccid is awful you guys. Sometimes I do feel like throwing in the towel and just shooting myself, because I am so afraid and I fear thatin this part of my life, being 19, I am missing out on relationships I can have, or finding "the one" for me. And if I miss that girl, then I'll never have a chance again as she will have never been in my life. I feel like this always. I can take this sh*t no longer. This is just so awful. Cannot stop the tears from flowing
Sometimes, this condition is just too much
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No no, what I mean is that as long as I have this injury, I can't really have sex in fear of making it worse or hindering progression of healing. And I want to show a woman how much I care for her, love her. And I cant do that given my condition, hence why I cannot get into a relationship. I dont care about meaningless sex. I just fear each day passing with this condition, that because I am not pursuing women in such a way, that I will miss out on my soulmate
kingpole
Retired Moderator, PEGym Hero
hang in there, everyone with the condition is working HARD to solve the problem. I have been following HF threads for some time now, almost too much as somehow I convince myself that I may have it.
To help solve the problem, stay in high spirits, update any changes, post photos (as kingpole suggests this will help others identify), and offer your assistance to those who believe they have HF.
You can do it.
While it is detrimental to your psyche, it should not own you, Mr. Friend. You are not your penis. You know about oral sex and stimulation. You can create a perfectly healthy relationship from the ground up without the need for sexual pressure! What girl your age wouldn't love the idea of not having to feel the pressure of sexual exploitation from a guy?
your penis doesn't define, you. You define it. Bring your mental state above the issues with it, and you will Bring your mind over the matter. The human body is an amazing thing. It can Regenerate, reform, repair, or bypass many issues as long as the brain tells it to. It's an amazing thing. Your penis is only your hindrance if you let it be!
Chin up, man. Get back on the saddle and keep your head up.
your penis doesn't define, you. You define it. Bring your mental state above the issues with it, and you will Bring your mind over the matter. The human body is an amazing thing. It can Regenerate, reform, repair, or bypass many issues as long as the brain tells it to. It's an amazing thing. Your penis is only your hindrance if you let it be!
Chin up, man. Get back on the saddle and keep your head up.
Dude Im 21. Ive had the hard flaccid for 2 years now. Dont let it run your life, I still have sex and have had a girlfriend since the injury. Just take a lot of herbal pills and hope for the best
yea but when you cannot get full or pleasurable erections, it tends to ruin your phsyche man. If I had good erections still, I would be ecstatic, and have a more level head. even ED medications only improve my erections very slightly, when it should be making them full potential, or at least close to that
I was taking stuff like Extenze and Newzair (which contain 50mg of dhea), which did work for sometime. However, I started to have nervous breakdowns -- I was abusing them and taking 3-5 pills a day without days off.
My question is when you took the ED medications, were you having sexual intercourse? or were you testing them to see if they would provide you with a pleasurable erection?
Thanks
I'm in the same boat man I have the girl of my dreams waiting for me she lives 4hrs away and blah blah it's a long story but anyways I haven't even gave It to her yet and idk WTF shell do when I say hey babe we may never be able to have real sex are you okay with that? This is a huge issue for me I'm only 18! Idk what I'm ganna do I haven't been able to get it up for almost a week now I constantly feel sick on my stomach from worrying cuz it's impossible not to! I can't live like this. I'd be willing to get whatever surger y to fix whatever the he'll I did
