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Hello my name is Josh and I am 20 years young and I love family,friends and weight training and I am here to increase my penis size. Here is my size: 7 inches NBPEL 18 cm. 7.5 inches BPEL 19 cm/ 4.75 MSEG 12 cm.5.125 BEG 13 cm. I feel very blessed in the length area and I know I am in the average girth which is normal size. My main concern is my girth. I am kinda insecure about my girth cause all my friends seem too be much larger than me in that category and they all have girlfriends and I am single and I feel like its because of my penis size. I never thought there was anything wrong with me until girls who I was with and treating good just became not interested in me. I could never figure out why and a couple of them are actually in relationships with my friends. This struck me as the odd ball of the group and I feel like I know why now. It seems to me that almost all my friends are in the 6 inch girth category and I found this out in my own ways. That's when the insecurity hit me and the thing I enjoyed most became awkward because I found out that all my friends were starting non erect girth at my erect girth and I felt like why is this and what's tbe chances of all of them having a 6 inch girth? Well what I found out from one of my friends that is a girl told me about a lot of them because she had sex with all them and it is true they are all in the 6 inch girth or bigger category. I don't understand this can somebody give me some greatly appreciated advice or explanation and maybe some one who has had a similar experience? I'm kinda depressed about this.
 

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Well, welcome here. Others will help you more than I on a plan...But two points.

I am very sure that penis size was not the reason you were not getting any with the girls- unless you let it effect you mentally and you act strange when you hang out w/ them, etc. That would be really odd and not a sensible conclusion. Once again, you must be doing something or acting in a way to turn them off (showing lack of confidence, etc).

I doubt all of your friends are 6"+ in girth. That would be very rare for that specific sample size.

I wish you best of luck if you do wish to improve your stats though.
 
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Thanks HockeyNY yeah I thought about it that way and my friends don't seem to like me anymore because of this I did act normal and they don'thate me they just could care less about me anymore and I know they all laugh at my size because some girls have told them my size otherwise they wouldn't know and I wouldn't be able to pick up on there different vibes they have towards me. Confidence isn't really my issue I tfeel like confidence is working against me. I don't have any friends anymore because of this and the girls that I liked and like don't want anyrhing to do with me and I did nothing wrong. Its kinda messed up I know but these are the facts man. They all are in that size category and I don't know why I'm the odd ball out of my friends. But thanks for the reply and advice.
 

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Don't compare yourself to anyone else, just be yourself. If you want to do PE, do it for YOU, not for some girl. I have found that the more I've been myself the less it mattered who liked me or not. Just my two cents.
 

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Yeah I know no to compare myself to other people but its hard not to when every body around me truthfully has my erect girth when they are not erect. That is messed up to know that. I could have cared less till a girl told me this. Obviously you haven't been in my shoes. But thanks for the advice I really appreciate it.
 

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Hey, if you "act" small and you react to their teasing, THEY WIN. Don't give them that power.

I think you have been with some acid-tounged women. Stop comparing dick sizes. If you make it important, then it will be.

I will assume you have common interests with the girls in this group, not just sex. If you "only" like the girls cause they were a good lay, you are a very shallow person.....

And in the same way, if they "only" like you because you were good in the sack, then they are shallow.
 

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Yeah you have some great points. I have talked to girls for hours in person and on the phone and treated them right and nit just used them for sex. I don't feel right hanging with any of them anymore. I'm not comparing I'm analyzing why my heart has been broken and in a couple cases its because my girth wasn't enough and people probably just feel badb for me cause they all don't have any problems with girth they all can pretty much please any women they want without trying. All my efforts just backfire and I find myself wondering what I did wrong and I can never find anything except my girth isn't good enough especially when a girl has had larger girths she aint gonna want anything smaller than the biggest they have had in terms of girth.
 

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Well, you can change yourself, including your dick. I have the opposite situation (plenty of girth, but need some length), so I can't give you specific advice about gaining girth.

But I can tell you that your at the right place, and folks here are very, very helpful.

Take a look at this (all of it) A great girth program . KingPole knows what he is talking about.
 

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Yeah I hope I can change it for me I would trade an inch in length for an inch in girth any day anytime anywhere but its not that easy. I need to be dedicated consistent and find the correct form reps and intensity. Thanks fir the tipds man you guys are great and I'm going to keeo a positive attitude and stay motivated. Thanks again man.
 

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Have you actually seen your friends erect penis'? Even if thier flaccid is bigger it doesn't mean their erect is much bigger, they might just have a good hang.
 
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No but who caresv what there flaccid hang is if their erect girth is 6 inches that's a lot more girth then I have and it is true they all do have 6 inch girth or bigger. Why would some girl lie about it she couldn't understand why they are all bigger than me.