Problems Edging

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I've been working at edging these past couple of weeks just to start off with the whole PE thing until I can get in the full swing of it. But it seems like I have no definite "PONR". It's like I have little mini-orgasms before I get there, then sometimes a pretty big one, but not actually a full-blown out ejaculation one. It'll even go so far as to almost have one and feel as if I'm going to ejaculate.. but I'll hold it in. The sensation seems too much and I do feel worn out after. My penis feels worn out and achy.

I do use lube and I don't squeeze it too hard.. I'm just wondering if this is normal or just me?
 

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I don't understand, dry orgasms can wear you out,is this what you are saying?
 

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Well, it's like I have a bunch of mini-orgasms (so it feels) before I start reaching ejaculation.. and I didn't feel I was kegeling enough to have a dry orgasm yet. But maybe I have. It just doesn't feel right.
 

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Sounds like you are achieving what many men vie for when they edge. Keep it up!
 

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Well hot damn that sounds great.
 

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When you first start dry orgasms they are often low intensity.

Kegel power is only part of the story,how were you applying your kegels?
 

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Yeah, I mean they were pretty low-intensity. Like a halfway there kinda feeling but it didn't finish.

I'm not sure what you mean by how I was applying them. I've only been doing them a little but and rather inconsistently (for different reasons I'm not starting PE all-out yet).
 

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Hmm ,keep in touch.
 

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Well, it's like I have a bunch of mini-orgasms (so it feels) before I start reaching ejaculation.. and I didn't feel I was kegeling enough to have a dry orgasm yet. But maybe I have. It just doesn't feel right.

Anybody can have a dry orgasm, it doesn't depend on kegels. Your orgasm can be detached from ejaculation, but they most often occur together.

Keep reaching toward your goal and you will get there.