how many people have you slept with?

[RockstarParkingDude]

in all honesty, i'm just really curious about this one. i feel like a lot of people wrongly associate a big dick with lots of sex, though i dont think this is really the case. i'm more convinced that it is confidence that attracts partners, however a big dick often brings confidence.

so really, how many people have you slept with? hooked up with? etc?

for the purposes of this poll... oral sex counts as sex. if that changes your number drastically... make a note of it in your post.

this is an anonymous poll

 

[amiok]

0

And yes having a small dick, that's why I'm here, is one of the reasons I haven't got with girls.

 

[RockstarParkingDude]

i had a smaller than average dick before i started PEing. now im dead average... but of the sixty five or so partners ive had, only 3 have ever called me small. three is all it takes (clearly as i'm here) but really being small doesn't stop you from getting chicks. insecurity about your size does.

 

[ManWithPlan]

i had a smaller than average dick before i started PEing. now im dead average... but of the sixty five or so partners ive had, only 3 have ever called me small. three is all it takes (clearly as i'm here) but really being small doesn't stop you from getting chicks. insecurity about your size does.

So you are the one who voted 61-99! Damn, I envy you !!

I wish I could vote that option one day

 

[zen16]

i worked 25 years in clubs, it can be a little too easy at times,i dont even remember all of them but more then the poll loll, am i small? i dont think so, i am 6.6 x 5.5 but the last girlfriend made me feel puny and the performance anxiety she gave me is still lingering

now i feel small, come too fast because i am scared of losing my erection or scared of not getting it up

darn this was a year ago and only slowly recovering now

so even with a big track record if the wrong ideas get programed in, it is hard to get rid of


i think the best advice i can give is trust yourself, let go of outcome, and dont give a fuck, that seems to be helping more then all the exercises i did

 

[subdude]

size and confidence

size and confidence

Confidence in yourself overcomes most, but not all size issues. Performance and erection quality can bring the "please stop by again", call you are interested in. I have lived this scenario with several older ladies, back in the joyous days of youth and lustful summers. I was the smallest of my group of friends, but I had as many call backs or hookups as they did. So what do you really need, besides a checkup or makeover? Take a hard look at your self,
ask any female friend who has seen you nude, or nearly so, what she would like to see change about you, and work diligently to overcome areas of concern,ie hairstlye, cologne, clothing coordination, body fat, conversation.
A male friend of mine had a similar issue. On the advice of a female, we took him to a hairstylist, changed his cologne, had his teeth cleaned, redressed him, worked him out, the following summer he had dates every weekend. And he only has 7 erect inches. Back in the days before PE, we started measuring, because three
buddies seem to have very large erect tools. 1@10, [email protected], I was the little one @6. Skinny dipping in the lake and showering together after football practice, you tend to notice things, no matter how innocent the days of youth.
Confidence in yourself makes the man.The rest is just eye candy. Study up on oral activity, women have always
said they liked "warming up" before the ride.

 

[RockstarParkingDude]

i worked 25 years in clubs, it can be a little too easy at times,i dont even remember all of them but more then the poll loll, am i small? i dont think so, i am 6.6 x 5.5 but the last girlfriend made me feel puny and the performance anxiety she gave me is still lingering

i think the best advice i can give is trust yourself, let go of outcome, and dont give a fuck, that seems to be helping more then all the exercises i did

word. a small dick shouldn't stop you from getting girls, and getting girls doesn't mean you have a big dick, or even less issues. we all suffer the same.

don't let your dick stop you from having sex. thats the opposite of what it was meant for!

 

[rhinoguy]

7.2" x 5.2" dick but only had 4 women in 2.5 decades. Just picky mainly and I was not sexually active from 1988-1998. Also back in the 80's when I wanted to get laid the most, AIDs was far more serious issue than I think it is now.

 

[subdude]

OH, by the way, just how large is it? I have known girls who would tell you straight forward, when asking for a date, they would not undress for less than 8. They are known as size queens. They know what they want and what they like, and will shop around until they score. A girl with limited partners would find your attention worthwhile, if you have excellent oral warmup skills. We used to call that practice, "necking"! Learn to speak the word large instead of small. The mouth speaks, the ears here, the subconscious deciphers and the mentality comes into line.
Look at the man in the mirror after a shower, speak to yourself, man what a nice cock you have. Stroke it a few times.
Entice him to salute you, dont jerk off, its called edging. Go to a lingerie shop and buy a nice flexible cockring, one you can easily put on and take off. 1 1/4 to 1 1/2" diameter. Edge while you shower. The cockring will hold the blood for a short time, buy the supplement damiana at a health food store, it increases blood flow to your cock, take two in the morning with breakfast, will give you a plump hang all day, pull on that big boy every time you go pee, growth comes with time. Stretching, jelqing, edging, damiana for blood flow. Yep, I'm gettin there. Added 1/4 inch in 4 months. TLC, known as firm tender loving care. Best regards.

 

[zen16]

word. a small dick shouldn't stop you from getting girls, and getting girls doesn't mean you have a big dick, or even less issues. we all suffer the same.

don't let your dick stop you from having sex. thats the opposite of what it was meant for!

loll it never stopped me i had way over 100 hihi, but lately my confidence was crushed by the last girlfriend and messed me up inside, but it is getting better

 

[badmonkey]

Just the Wife for the last 13 yrs. (met in high school)

 

[RockstarParkingDude]

i'm kind of hoping for a female response or two as well. it would be nice to get perspectives from all around

 

[Wynn]

Up past the 60 mark if you count random acts of head. 55 home runs. I own first dates, what. Does anyone leason to david deangelo, he did cock comedy. That one tape will teach you everything that turns boys into men.

 

[Hanma]

Zero.

It's hard to get the insecurities out of my head.

 

[Wynn]

Hanma, dude, bro, homie. Live it up and leason to some self help pimping tapes. David d and cocky comedy. "you can do it"

 

[redbear52]

I think it is either 15 or 16 so I answered 11-15. It might have been a few higher. There were some rather drunken one night encounters in college and they weren't all memorable so I might have forgotten one or two. And I am rather ashamed to say that twice I woke up in bed with a woman after a night of total debouchery and honestly couldn't remember how we had gotten there and whether we had "done it" or not, so I don't know whether to count those.

There were a few times that a woman and I did not get past the mutual oral sex stage on our first meeting (usually due to lack of an available condom) but to the best of my recollection we always wound up "consummating" our relationship after that, so I don't think there was ever a woman I had oral sex with who I didn't wind up banging.

Apart from a couple of years in college, which was for me like many of that era a time of experimentation with drugs, alcohol and sex, I really didn't want to seek out women for casual sex. Generally, if I liked them enough to screw them I wanted to have some kind of relationship with them, or at least do it more than once. I have had about 6 fairly serious relationships with women, ones that lasted at least several months, if not years.

I doubt penis size enters into the equation. I have always been at least a bit above average but to the best of my knowledge there was only one woman who really knew that before we dated. I don't know if that influenced her interest in me or not. I never wound up getting undressed with a woman with the desire to have sex with her and not having it happen, with the possible exception of the drunken episodes I mentioned above. In other words, I never had a woman back out of having sex with me because I was too small or too large.

I have been with one woman for over 33 years of my life. I have turned down pretty serious advances from women about 7 or 8 times, most because I was married but a couple before marriage because I just wasn't interested. As for confidence, when I was younger I really didn't have much, was not very outgoing, and was rather intimidated by women. I am much more comfortable with them now. I have always been struck by how random females seemed vastly more interested in me when I was in a serious relationship with a woman, even if that women was not present at the time.

 

[CUSP82]

Do I include my fellow boyscouts I slept with and when the little league I coached went to Copperstown for a tournament or is this just sexual?

 

[Brian98]

Ive got quite a big dick, even before i started pe, always got compliments for it but only been with 4 girls, im not a guy to sleep around, i only really sleep with people when im in a proper relationship, not one night stands.

 

[CUSP82]

A very good way to live Brian!

 

[redbear52]

I agree that is a good policy. There was a time not too long ago in this country, before AIDS was known here and when the "sexual revolution" was is full swing, when young people who adopted that policy were looked upon as pretty weird, especially if they were men. There was really quite a bit of peer-pressure not to turn down an opportunity to have sex with a woman, even if it was completely casual.

When my wife and I first started dating well before we were married, she seriously thought I was gay because I didn't try to get into her pants on the first few dates.