All I can say is, thanks a lot PE Staff and Members for your motivation and help.

[growth_problem]

Man, I don't know how to thank you guys for this great website that I have joined but today I finished JP's workout once again, however I increased the intensity to 4 sets instead of 3. I must say everytime I am done PE'ing my Penis feels bigger and bigger and wants to shoot out the sky. I don't know if it's the rest I took, the sex I missed out in my Teen years that's coming back to me to regain my penis strength, or just PE ? lol.

I can't wait to measure at the end of this month

When I joined this site I was really down emotionally, and wanted to kill myself when my ex girlfriend told me I had a small penis, I can't wait after a year of PE what it's going to look like. When I see her again I swear I'll slap her in the face with the monster. Hahaha.

 

[smallpackageRay]

Congrats Growth_problem!!!

BTW, your ex-gf was messing with your head if you was the same size as you started PE with. You are definitely above average.

 

[panos]

great stuff! lol you need to give your ex some milk with that(i bet she will grow 1 feet xd)

btw i am new here and so excited what is jp's workout?
could someoene post a link
i would appreciate that!

 

[Jimrod]

Congrats on the good start.

The amount of men that are here because of something a girlfriend or ex-girlfriend said to them, is quite disturbing. Women can be extremely hurtful, and know full-well that a negative comment about penis size, is probably the worst thing you can say to a man.

Good luck man.

 

[Going411x7]

Some women are just damned cruel. And others probably don't even realize how devastating such comments can be to some guys. It all has to do with self-esteem, not how big your cock is.

 

[isambard]

Man, I don't know how to thank you guys for this great website that I have joined but today I finished JP's workout once again, however I increased the intensity to 4 sets instead of 3. I must say everytime I am done PE'ing my Penis feels bigger and bigger and wants to shoot out the sky. I don't know if it's the rest I took, the sex I missed out in my Teen years that's coming back to me to regain my penis strength, or just PE ? lol.

I can't wait to measure at the end of this month

When I joined this site I was really down emotionally, and wanted to kill myself when my ex girlfriend told me I had a small penis, I can't wait after a year of PE what it's going to look like. When I see her again I swear I'll slap her in the face with the monster. Hahaha.

Fuck her!! No, seriously, fuck her. Once you get to a size you are more confident with, look her up, play it all nicey-nicey, then fuck her with your new and improved schlong! That way.. a. you'll show her who's in control now and that her destructive, horrible words were JUST words, and didnt affect you so she wasted her time saying them, and b. you can show her what she's missing out on. Fuck her again, then tell her to fuck off. (MODS:sorry if I have sworn a little too much)

 

[Clash]

Fuck her!! No, seriously, fuck her. Once you get to a size you are more confident with, look her up, play it all nicey-nicey, then fuck her with your new and improved schlong! That way.. a. you'll show her who's in control now and that her destructive, horrible words were JUST words, and didnt affect you so she wasted her time saying them, and b. you can show her what she's missing out on. Fuck her again, then tell her to fuck off. (MODS:sorry if I have sworn a little too much)

The thing is, if you do that, you're doing something just as bad as she did. Getting revenge directly is one of the worst things a human can do, it's pretty much un-healthy. All I can say is, if you want revenge growth_problem, have sex with someone else, or, get a new girlfriend and try and get her to spread the fact that your penis is large. Satisfying someone new is far better than trying to satisfy an ex.

On topic, well done growth_problem, how satisfying is it to visually see you are larger. I'm new as well. I've been doing pe for a month and have seen visual gains, but I'm not going to measure for another couple of weeks as I only officially started counting JP's routine a week ago. In the first three weeks I gained .25 in length and I'm just amazed. It almost looks like I've gained some girth and my confidence has improved quite a lot.

 

[Going411x7]

Great advice from both you guys. I guess he can decide which one will work best for him. I'm sure the circumstances will dictate his choice.


Way to go, Clash!! More good news on positive physical indicators. That's when I knew I was growing in length and girth--when my penis LOOKED larger and FELT heavier. Measurements by tape or ruler don't always indicate this.

 

[CUSP82]

Are you ever going to tell me how you made out on that test or do I have to haunt you all over the forum?

 

[isambard]

The thing is, if you do that, you're doing something just as bad as she did. Getting revenge directly is one of the worst things a human can do, it's pretty much un-healthy. All I can say is, if you want revenge growth_problem, have sex with someone else, or, get a new girlfriend and try and get her to spread the fact that your penis is large. Satisfying someone new is far better than trying to satisfy an ex.

On topic, well done growth_problem, how satisfying is it to visually see you are larger. I'm new as well. I've been doing pe for a month and have seen visual gains, but I'm not going to measure for another couple of weeks as I only officially started counting JP's routine a week ago. In the first three weeks I gained .25 in length and I'm just amazed. It almost looks like I've gained some girth and my confidence has improved quite a lot.

I wasn't expecting him to take my advice literally. Just adding my two pence worth as I feel strongly about these arseholes that play around with mens' phyches' like it is a toy. Not one GF has EVER has said I have a small penis, because looking at the average, I don't have a small penis. In fact I have had nothing but compliments throughout my (sexually active) life. But my last one did say it. It may have been said in the heat of an argument, and it was her way of getting to me because nothing else would, but it really hit me hard. So I feel very strongly about these bitches doing stuff like that to men, particularly when it is totally undeserved, or even worse UNTRUE. Funny enough, thats why I am here today, at 38. Yes, up until a few months ago, and 20+ years of having fantastic sex with every woman I've been with (short or long term), I have NEVER been concerned about my size. But just a few words that can crush a man later, I am here! And seeing as I'm not the type that is easily affected by what people say, I can easily empathise with those that are.

But as G4 rightly put it, I'm sure G-P will work out what he feels is the best way to get over his shitty experience too.

 

[growth_problem]

Are you ever going to tell me how you made out on that test or do I have to haunt you all over the forum?

Lol Cusp. I still haven't gotten the results yet, I have to wait till december atleast.

 

[growth_problem]

Thanks for the motivation guys, I am working on it and will stick with the JP workouts, I added JAI's and Fowfers as a Beginner routine to complete the other half of JP's workout. I can't wait to measure after my probation period and start on advanced exercises.

 

[Waylander]

keep at it man and take the high road :thumb:

 

[growth_problem]

^Yeah man. Then again, the whole girlfriend thing doesn't bother me as much anymore because while we were dating not never did I have sex with her because she always thought I was using her throughout those 8 months, and we never even had sex. Lol. But whatever .. I have a hobby as well that keeps me happy, not only women. But then again, you have to have a woman in your life man, it just sometimes feels like your lonely or whatever.It doesn't bother me as much anymore because my gains with PE have been pretty impressive and that has kept me to a point for motivation and being busy with it. It did at first when we broke up with each other, man was I in a bad depression, ED out of nowhere.

 

[CUSP82]

You are never lonlely when you have the PE Gym!

 

[Pirate]

Congratulations!
KABOOM!!!
Always remember: living well is the best revenge.

 

[dejaview]

You know man the best approach to dealing with blatantly hurtful comments such as the small penis remark is to hit back with a comment about her anatomy. I have found that women can rip a guy's ego to shreads if let do so, maybe its their greater reliance on verbal warfare compared to us guys. And I have found if such comments are left ignored but the damage is still done then there is a greater chance of taking it out physically with the girl. Not a good idea and maybe to nip the conflict in the bud by a witty response about her body will set her back nicely and she will think differently next time.

 

[smallpackageRay]

What gets me is when the gal is saying it when it really isn't true. There are guys here that are 6" in length and being told they are small. The only way a guy that size should be told that is if the gal only ever saw his flaccid penis. But there are gals that I'm sure say it because they know to a guy it's the ultimate low blow.

For myself however, I know I am small. When I started dating after my 1st wife passed away, I was barely over the definition of a micro-penis. So there wasn't going to be a woman alive that could tell me something i didn't already know. Besides, I have heard everything they could say growing up. So instead I was the one that took the initative. I have the confidence enough to know i can still please a woman,very well might I brag, but I also have the confidence enough to admit to a woman I could have problems satisfying her with my penis. And you know what, it takes the wind out of their sails to use my penis against me.

 

[Pirate]

You know man the best approach to dealing with blatantly hurtful comments such as the small penis remark is to hit back with a comment about her anatomy. I have found that women can rip a guy's ego to shreads if let do so, maybe its their greater reliance on verbal warfare compared to us guys. And I have found if such comments are left ignored but the damage is still done then there is a greater chance of taking it out physically with the girl. Not a good idea and maybe to nip the conflict in the bud by a witty response about her body will set her back nicely and she will think differently next time.

Nay, matie,
No good ever comes from that sort of exchange. If she is the sort to make those remarks, tis best to just sail away and waste no more time on her.

 

[dejaview]

I hear what you are saying Pirate and very often the best resort to such insults is to walk away. I really liked what you said about the best revenge is living well. I will write that one down. However I think in the heat of a war of words there are times when I am sure some guys may actually take to heart what was said and next time maybe not so passive. In my experience with verbal tiffs, and the comment could be anything not just penis reference, I have hit back with some comments of my own, not to all mind , and the mood in attitude can change in an instant. I heard from one girl before that they were actually impressed to hear a guy that was not overly genteel and had some fight in him. Maybe its that whole finding your mate that can make a stand deal. Who honestly knows?......
Now let me recount an interesting situation that happened to me at work about a year ago. Okay so I moved to a new dept in my company and immediately started to chat with a cute chick close to my area. . on one occasion I walked with her to her bus stop and another time and low and behold she starts the rumor that i was stalking her. I was infuritated and made it a point to avoid her like the plague. I did not want anything to do with her and she likewise. She then started to up the ante in flirting and playing with the other guys in the office. I mean serious teasing and i felt kinda relieved that she was not thinking of me and i could get on with my own things. Our only interactions would be at meetings where we would often just deride what the other one had said. No love between us at all. Incidentally, our asst mgr had his eye on her and everybody knew it. He in fact would buy her breakfast each morning and leave it at her desk. Then something happened that was a sign of the economic times, namely our dept was to move and there were layoffs. We all were in a state of shock and just had to get on with it. People got a little more warmer toward each other given the state of things and one day we get an email from my nemesis stating that she bought some coffee and pastries for everybody in the dept with a comment about nobody probably cares anyway. Many emails were sent by others to ally her fears and thank her and I sent a little one as well saying thanks and how she is always full of surprises...now comes the kicker .....
I applied for another job with another dept and got it .. I met her about a month later coming from HR and asked her what was going on ....she said she was applying for a position in my new dept...and the reason ....here it comes.....was to be with me....then the word got out through one of her friends that the only one she really wanted to date there was the one that hardly spoke ever to her and sometimes was mean as well as she was ....and that one was me......lets just say the asst mgr who brought her lunch was up in arms and thought for sure I was playing with her behind everyones back ......not a grain of truth in that ....but it goes to show sometimes that women can dish it out and maybe are impressed with guys that can give it back as well.....I would never mean coming down hard like using brute force and deranged bullyish comments but an occassional comment to keep them in check....wow that was a long post ....and to finish if off i just wonder how she would feel now about this new improved "peacemaker" I have gotten over my months PEing and using the great advice given on this forum....maybe I will look her up soon.....hmmmmmmm