how to control this

[celinajait]

hi PEple,

i have a problem. i have been edgin now for quite a while. i am able to edge for like 30 mins without reaching PONR. but this is the thing as soon as i would touch the back side of penis or start stroking my head i feel like ejaculating. how do i solve this problem, as no matter how much edging i do if i lack in this no use of stamina exercises

also i have noticed i now have night falls about 2 times a week. is this normal. i don't ejaculate while edging.

please let me know ...thanks

 

[Pegasus]

Firstly ,it seems to me you are not ejaculating enough. It also seems that you need to change your edging style over time . How do you go during sex?

 

[celinajait]

well ur right.. i just ejaculate when i have sex...

and during sexi cum out fast... but edging i dont even feel like cummin... plz help

 

[millia]

What's happening is that you're probably not edging correctly. When edging you should be getting your whole dick, including the frenulum and glans (which are the most sensitive), and fighting off the PONR from there, rather than just the shaft. Start edging and including your glans with every stroke.

 

[mister]

We didn't use any contraceptives for a few yrs and so I naturally had to edge . One problem was that later when we wanted to get preg I'd been staying off for so long I had trouble coming so I'm anti edge now myself .
Another angle for me was that why should I go without just to give her more of what I now would not have , that's unfair.

But eh , they all reckon it does help gains so !

Cheers

 

[celinajait]

But doesn't edging mention that we Just have to stroke the base of penis till shaft and jot include the glans.
I read somewhere that once glans are included it's ballooning then ??

Please help..

Thanks

 

[millia]

But doesn't edging mention that we Just have to stroke the base of penis till shaft and jot include the glans.
I read somewhere that once glans are included it's ballooning then ??

Please help..

Thanks

No Celinajait, ballooning is what you just described.

When edging you should be essentially jerking off slowly and including your glans. When you feel the urge to ejaculate move back down to the base of your cock, or play with your balls until the sensation subsides.

 

[celinajait]

Oh no
So is it that what I have been doing was just a waste of time..

And what about any suggestions on night falls ??

 

[Wynn]

The next step is to take a cigarette lighter from the car get it nice and hot and place it on the back of the area of the penis. This will help keep that area from being to sensitive. Oh yeah and it will also give you a cool swirl look, check my picks, everyones doing it

 

[millia]

That doesn't work, it's just excruciatingly painful and unnecessary. You didn't waste time, it's just you learned to do it a different way. Now you can take what you learned and move forward and become a sex GOD.

 

[Pegasus]

You need to ejaculate more often Cel.

 

[happiesttrail]

You need to ejaculate more often Cel.

Pegasus, what exactly do you mean? I have the same problem, my glans / frenulum is much more sensitive compared to my shaft. I know that you should be incorporating the top of your penis while edging but doesn't ejaculating after edging slow down your gains? I might be wrong but I think there's a poll on here that shows most the people make better gains by not masturbating over once or twice a week and it feels like you gain more by having blood still engorged in the penis after an edging session. What's your take on this? I'm mostly just concerned with overworking myself with balancing PE and masturbating/having sex.