Why do some women love sucking cock for ages and others hate doing it while some claim to like doing it but will only do it for a minute and sometimes are too rough!!! What do the women who like sucking get from it? Is it a mental stimulation?
Why do some women love sucking cock and some dont
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Why do some men love giving cunnilingus for ages and others hate doing it while some claim to like doing it but will only do it for a minute and sometimes are too rough!!! What do the men who like eating get from it? Is it a mental stimulation?
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TTBB,
Ha, ha, ha! You're a woman after my own heart, TTBB! I love C. I could do it for hours. My Mrs. hates giving me a BJ. But I don't blame my sweet one. She has a small mouth and I have a big dick.
Ha, ha, ha! You're a woman after my own heart, TTBB! I love C. I could do it for hours. My Mrs. hates giving me a BJ. But I don't blame my sweet one. She has a small mouth and I have a big dick.
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Well Bw will kick me and then ttbb will join in, but here goes an answer.
Male or female ,if you can enjoy your partners pleasure ,it will predispose you to doing long oral. Many like the idea of being good at oral, but don't want to develop the skill or mindset. Some have lacked encouragment, or have had a bad experience.
Personaly ,I find a responsive partner lights me up, which lights her up, a good result all round.
Male or female ,if you can enjoy your partners pleasure ,it will predispose you to doing long oral. Many like the idea of being good at oral, but don't want to develop the skill or mindset. Some have lacked encouragment, or have had a bad experience.
Personaly ,I find a responsive partner lights me up, which lights her up, a good result all round.
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It's all about intimacy and communication and taking the time for both. Amen to Mr. Peg's thoughtful, wise post.
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You are right about the lack of encouragement or bad experiences...when it comes to blowjobs guys tend to be more critical then encouraging .. i also have hung out with a lot of guys and i know that when men get together and talk about sex they usually bitch about blowjobs.. I have seen heard how harsh guys can be about it..even when it comes down to little things like she doesn't make eye contact or doesn't make enough noise when doing it ... and i have also had aggressive partners who have put me off wanting to have a cock in my mouth.. men seem to want and expect woman to perform like a porn star, particularly when it comes to getting sucked off
I am a girl who would love to love giving a blowjob .. but have huge apprehension about giving them...i am waiting for the right guy to come along so i can explore that side of things, cuz I want to be the queen of sucking cock one day..haha
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Another reason some woman don't like sucking cock is because it can feel a lot more intimate then fucking and it doesn't always feel natural. So if woman are not completely comfortable with there sexuality or they have religious overtones it can but a barrier between the enjoyment of it ..Some woman don't like it because the taste might not appeal and the idea of gagging can be scary esp when guys can be sensitive about these two things and take it personally when it happens . Women who love sucking cock generally view band treat them as an extension of there general enjoyment of all things sexual .. the idea of tasting the sex can be a huge turn on for some and some woman know that sucking cock is a good way to get into a mans heart.
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Well, TTBB covered the negative pretty well, describign why some women may not like giving blow jobs, or be scared of it. So I will concentrate on the positives!
I absolutely LOVE to take my man's cock in my mouth. I love the way it feels sliding over my lips and tongue, and pushing deep into my throat. It is a huge turn-on for me to suck and lick him; hardly anything makes me hotter. As time has passed and we have gotten to know each other better, I have come to love all the stages of it, from when he is nearly flaccid to when he cums in my mouth. I love all of it.
I enjoy taking him into my mouth when he is flaccid or nearly so because it feels very different, and I love the fact that I can easily get ALL of his cock into my mouth (nearly impossible when he is fully engorged). Feeling his cock swell and harden as I suck and tease him is literally thrilling. But usually he is fairly hard by the time we get to oral, and I love that too. The silky smoothness of his hard glans feels particularly wonderful sliding over my lips.
It's a big compliment when he's hard and wants to be in my mouth. When he gets there, I can feel him instantly get larger, harder, and hotter when he slips over my lips and inside. That always arouses me! It is a feedback loop -- he gets harder and more insistent, and I get wetter and hornier. TTBB is right, it is a very intimate act.
Taste and smell play a big roll in oral sex. I love his taste and his odor, but then we are extremely well matched. There have been men in my past that I did not enjoy nearly as much, somehow their taste and smell were not as attractive to me. It is very primal and powerful stuff. With the right man, the taste of his skin and precum and cum are all marvelous. But it is a package deal -- if I was not so attracted to all of him, from personality to every aspect of his body, I might not like it as much. I think how much I enjoy the taste of his cum is linked to how much I enjoy him, and his pleasure, and how much it feeds my own.
Trust plays a big roll in oral. From the female perspective, a lady knows that she probably loosk a bit silly with her mouth in a big "O", and kneeling can smack of a form of submission that may not always appeal. Also, a woman needs to trust her man that he will not thrust too deep in her mouth and make her gag or choke against her will. It takes time for a couple to learn how to please each other this way, and both partners have to be sensitive here. I have come to love it when my man thrusts into my mouth, but it took a while for me to be comfortable with that. Him too -- I think he was nervous about hurting me or turning me off. But we figured out together how to make it work for both of us. What fun!
I probably think about sucking my guy's cock a dozen times a day. I am sure that think about it more than almost any other aspect of sex. Between the physical pleasures and thrill of it, and the emotional satisfaction that I feel when we do it, giving him oral is very high on my list of the wonderful things one can do with a man!
I absolutely LOVE to take my man's cock in my mouth. I love the way it feels sliding over my lips and tongue, and pushing deep into my throat. It is a huge turn-on for me to suck and lick him; hardly anything makes me hotter. As time has passed and we have gotten to know each other better, I have come to love all the stages of it, from when he is nearly flaccid to when he cums in my mouth. I love all of it.
I enjoy taking him into my mouth when he is flaccid or nearly so because it feels very different, and I love the fact that I can easily get ALL of his cock into my mouth (nearly impossible when he is fully engorged). Feeling his cock swell and harden as I suck and tease him is literally thrilling. But usually he is fairly hard by the time we get to oral, and I love that too. The silky smoothness of his hard glans feels particularly wonderful sliding over my lips.
It's a big compliment when he's hard and wants to be in my mouth. When he gets there, I can feel him instantly get larger, harder, and hotter when he slips over my lips and inside. That always arouses me! It is a feedback loop -- he gets harder and more insistent, and I get wetter and hornier. TTBB is right, it is a very intimate act.
Taste and smell play a big roll in oral sex. I love his taste and his odor, but then we are extremely well matched. There have been men in my past that I did not enjoy nearly as much, somehow their taste and smell were not as attractive to me. It is very primal and powerful stuff. With the right man, the taste of his skin and precum and cum are all marvelous. But it is a package deal -- if I was not so attracted to all of him, from personality to every aspect of his body, I might not like it as much. I think how much I enjoy the taste of his cum is linked to how much I enjoy him, and his pleasure, and how much it feeds my own.
Trust plays a big roll in oral. From the female perspective, a lady knows that she probably loosk a bit silly with her mouth in a big "O", and kneeling can smack of a form of submission that may not always appeal. Also, a woman needs to trust her man that he will not thrust too deep in her mouth and make her gag or choke against her will. It takes time for a couple to learn how to please each other this way, and both partners have to be sensitive here. I have come to love it when my man thrusts into my mouth, but it took a while for me to be comfortable with that. Him too -- I think he was nervous about hurting me or turning me off. But we figured out together how to make it work for both of us. What fun!
I probably think about sucking my guy's cock a dozen times a day. I am sure that think about it more than almost any other aspect of sex. Between the physical pleasures and thrill of it, and the emotional satisfaction that I feel when we do it, giving him oral is very high on my list of the wonderful things one can do with a man!
That's interesting, I've also heard that some girls consider kissing more intimate than sex.
I wonder why?
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Kisses are used to express love and to build closeness (parents kiss there kids etc) kissing is used to form bond and express care, making it more intimate because it not restricted to mating and different kisses have different intimacy levels.… Kissing can also be the difference between love making and fucking for some people …Sex can be just lust…. There is a general rule that prostitutes don’t kiss the clients as a way to stop attachment and intimacy from developing.. Swinger often have the same kissing rule.. A kiss can speaks to core of a persons.
Lol!!!! Good first answer TTBB!!!!! And good answers all round!!!! I can relate to all that because i have never really been that much into giving oral, but with my recent partner I was feeling horny at the thought and actually liked it when I did it!!!!
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Thanks, Batwoman! Yes, it's all about trust and intimacy. The members have to realize that to get all of this--both the kissing and the oral sex, they have to be with someone for a while and to develop a real close relationship. And maybe they won't get it all, and that's o.k. too. All of what you and TTBB have posted here is DYNAMITE! Thanks, Batwoman, and TTBB for enlightening us.
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Oh god you did it again BW! Time for my meds now. I think later if I want to try edging all I have to do is read that post! No, don't even think of getting a visual on that one!!!!!!!!!!
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I think you and my gf share the same brain BW! LOL! She has told me nearly the exact same thing during our conversations about sex. I love eating her and she absolutely loves suckig my cock - and I'm sooooooo happy :becky:
