Guys im so depressed :((

[Gogulik]

I'm sorry, I don't want to sound like im victimizing myself but I just don't know what to do. This affects me so much that I don't feel like doing anything at all anymore. The problem is, I don't even know where to start... it seems as if my symptoms are so weird that I don't even know how to explain them. I made another thread earlier but I will try to be more precise in this one... I will just list my symptoms:

1) Erection feels unstable. Before when I had an erection, it wouldn't even move unless I flexed my PC muscle and when that happened, it would jump really hard. Now, when I flex my PC muscle, my penis doesn't jump the same way. It jumps weakly and loosely, it's the best way I can describe it.

2) Sometimes I have great erections but I feel no throb. This causes me to loose them and have no sexual desire or feelings.

3) I prematurely ejaculate... which is destroying me :-(. My PC muscles automatically contract when I stimulate my penis and then I get the feeling that semen will shoot out. There is no 'build up' to the point of no return, it feels like the valves holding the semen are weak or something.

4) I leak pre cum which again is not something I did when I did not have these problems. I get an erection and when it subsides, pre cum oozes out.

5) Penis glans is discolored in certain areas, is this a sign of prostate problems?

I realize some symptoms might be normal but I just thought I would list everything. To cut a long story short... my genital area does not feel right . Does this sound like a pudendal nerve problem? Prostate? Muscles inside the genital area not being able to relax?

Help is much appreciated... urologists are retards of no help so maybe I will find someone who has a clue. I just don't want it do be permanent.

P.S: Im 20 years old...

thanks guys

 

[Going411x7]

GIve it a couple of weeks. If you don't improve I would see a urologist, even if you think they are all full of sh*t. It may be anxiety and nothing more--probably is. But it could also be a prostate problem. That has happened to the best of us. Have you overdone it in your excitement to get a bigger dick?

 

[Gogulik]

I can only identify 3 possible causes... I did jelq, maybe as you said I was in a rush to get a bigger dick but this was a couple of months ago... if it's from that, I think the symptoms should have cleared by now. Another cause may be that I heard a 'pop' sound from my penis but without any pain, bruising, etc while having sex. The last thing I can think of is too hard PC muscle contractions but as with jelqing, symptoms should have cleared by now.

I'm sure if I felt my erection properly I wouldn't have this premature ejaculation and semen oozing... it's like my genitals became weak I don't even know what to say. You think anxiety can cause these symptoms :s? thanks for the reply

 

[Going411x7]

Yes, anxiety can cause such things. Also, you may have strained a muscle or a ligament when you heard the pop.

 

[blink2000]

I agree with going411by7.

I heard a 'pop' sound from my penis but without any pain, bruising, etc while having sex. The last thing I can think of is too hard PC muscle contractions but as with jelqing, symptoms should have cleared by now.

Did you keep doing your PE routine or did you give yourself a chance to heal after this?

Have you still been doing a routine in spite of your symptoms? I recommend you completely stop PE & consider seeing a doctor too if your symptoms don't improve.

To me it sounds like you've had some kind of injury & that you have not healed yet for whatever reason.

This might help:
Dealing With Injuries

 

[frb3]

Not to make light of your plight. Keep in mind what the famous philosopher Yogi Berra said: "Ninety percent of everything is half mental."

 

[blink2000]

Not to make light of your plight. Keep in mind what the famous philosopher Yogi Berra said: "Ninety percent of everything is half mental."

This halfway makes sense.

 

[Gogulik]

haha nice quote. I did give myself time to heal, I stopped completely. The pop was a long time ago, around a year maybe. But since then, I have had times when I had great erections and everything felt normal. But lately as in the last 2-3 months, everything went sort of down hill... maybe it is all in my head because I am too stressed about this sh*t but I don't see how a discolored glans or a loose erection could be in my head :s

 

[jonny127]

I'm sorry, I don't want to sound like im victimizing myself but I just don't know what to do. This affects me so much that I don't feel like doing anything at all anymore. The problem is, I don't even know where to start... it seems as if my symptoms are so weird that I don't even know how to explain them. I made another thread earlier but I will try to be more precise in this one... I will just list my symptoms:

1) Erection feels unstable. Before when I had an erection, it wouldn't even move unless I flexed my PC muscle and when that happened, it would jump really hard. Now, when I flex my PC muscle, my penis doesn't jump the same way. It jumps weakly and loosely, it's the best way I can describe it.

2) Sometimes I have great erections but I feel no throb. This causes me to loose them and have no sexual desire or feelings.

3) I prematurely ejaculate... which is destroying me :-(. My PC muscles automatically contract when I stimulate my penis and then I get the feeling that semen will shoot out. There is no 'build up' to the point of no return, it feels like the valves holding the semen are weak or something.

4) I leak pre cum which again is not something I did when I did not have these problems. I get an erection and when it subsides, pre cum oozes out.

5) Penis glans is discolored in certain areas, is this a sign of prostate problems?

I realize some symptoms might be normal but I just thought I would list everything. To cut a long story short... my genital area does not feel right . Does this sound like a pudendal nerve problem? Prostate? Muscles inside the genital area not being able to relax?

Help is much appreciated... urologists are retards of no help so maybe I will find someone who has a clue. I just don't want it do be permanent.

P.S: Im 20 years old...

thanks guys

1) YOU'RE TOTALLY NORMAL, just a little stressed and unsecure.
2) I read all your descriptions and must say, again, you've no problems.. the only problems are your fears. Live more, think less! Wanna anybody who helps you? Just one, a psicologist. You will get more sure of yourself and solve many problems. Be trustful man!
3) do this: less pc forums, more talikng with girls
best regards

 

[Prob91]

Same problem

Same problem

Dude i have the exact same problem. First of all let me say the penis enlargment was stupid to do. I have a 6 inch penis that i was very happy with and never considered enlargement, and never got any greef over it. I loved it. Then one day when having sex with an undeserving sloot she came down hard and i herd a popping sound. Immediate loss of erection and went really floppy. Since then it just hangs loose and i cant move it anymore, can only get hard with alot of physical stimulation. It just isnt the same and feels fragile when hard, also have a big bulge under my head. Been 6 months now. Dont listen to anyone, its not stress, its physical. Just remember what it used to be like and the orgasms u had and ull know. Before this happened i could be under copious amounts of stress and jerk one off anytime i wanted. Now my libido is so low i need to force myself to do it. My question to u is has it cleared up? I see ur post from 2010, and im going thru hell right now wondering if its better. Also i started a treatment for peyronies disease that may help u if it hasnt gotten better. Google "peyronies disease institute" and do some research.. I think our problem is a little deeper than scar tissue though. All the best