I just found out that my wife is prego I'm confused because I used a condom everytime properly . Is this possible just can't be happening . What pissed me off is that we agreed not to have kids for while I wasn't even planning a to have a another baby! But something is fishy because she just got done with your peroid . Yeah I know a female could still get a peroid but this is just mind blogging. Whats the point of using condoms if you could still get someone prego . Or maybe she poked little holes in the condoms with a needle?? any pointers on this ??? I'm not ready for another kid especially with her lol.
My wifes prego but I used a condom everytime properly!
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I think there's a disclaimer on most condoms saying that they're 99.9% effective. If your wife wans't on some sort of BC as well, I suppose there is some margin for error.
Well persian there's a helpful response for a guy that's been having some problems with his wife as of late. Joking or not but maybe you should have read some of danners other post before being so flippant!
Having read 'persians' pervious posts, I think he is taking the piss and hasn't signed up for any other reason than to cause trouble: re "3 inches from hanging":
"I gained 38 inches from haniging with the BibHanger, on a good EQ day I'm 47 inches, and 46.5 on a bad EQ day. My basr girth is 18 inches all hanging from the Bib hanger."
We're all guys here (well, the majority of us anyway) and we all know that if we've taken the time to out our problems, then they must be really causing us some heartache. The last thing we wan't is some wise-ass with their insensitive comments, trying to get a cheap laugh.
sh*t ain't insensitive, it's a possibilitie that she did cheat.. But to threadstarter enjoy the steps of the pregancy ull find out sooner or later wats up... Don't stress it now... It just sounds kinda suspect...
I know it's enitrely possible, but judging by his previous posts, I don't think he's trying to help; just cause trouble and upset people in a difficult situation.
To the OP: if you're wife is not using any kind of BC, other than condoms, then it's quite possible that the condom leaked, or split of whatever.
To the OP: if you're wife is not using any kind of BC, other than condoms, then it's quite possible that the condom leaked, or split of whatever.
It's pretty unlikely to get pregnant when using condoms but as they are not completely safe it is bound to happen to someone.
I've not tested this but I'd imagine that if you poked holes in the condom then it would split and you would notice.
Regarding Persian's helpful little comment; if she is using condoms with you and she did cheat then I'd assume that she would definitely use protection with someone else. Her being pregnant doesn't in any way mean that she cheated.
Sometimes it is just pure bad luck. A friend of mine got his girlfriend pregnant whilst she was on the pill. She continued having periods and passed a pregnancy test (because she was on the pill.) A few months after leaving him she gave birth on the floor in her university dormitory. She apparently had no idea that she was even pregnant but I don't see how that could be.
Either way she's pregnant now so how it happened isn't that important, what matters is what happens next.
Joe
EDIT: I'd recommend an IUD for contraception. They are pretty much fool proof - just don't pull the string!
I've not tested this but I'd imagine that if you poked holes in the condom then it would split and you would notice.
Regarding Persian's helpful little comment; if she is using condoms with you and she did cheat then I'd assume that she would definitely use protection with someone else. Her being pregnant doesn't in any way mean that she cheated.
Sometimes it is just pure bad luck. A friend of mine got his girlfriend pregnant whilst she was on the pill. She continued having periods and passed a pregnancy test (because she was on the pill.) A few months after leaving him she gave birth on the floor in her university dormitory. She apparently had no idea that she was even pregnant but I don't see how that could be.
Either way she's pregnant now so how it happened isn't that important, what matters is what happens next.
Joe
EDIT: I'd recommend an IUD for contraception. They are pretty much fool proof - just don't pull the string!
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My wife called back and said I just wanted to see your reaction if I was actually prego. She didn't llike my reaction she didn't want anymore kids by me. What kinda of person do that?? we already agreed that we not planning to have kids in the near future . The look of things I don't think it will ever happen.
How exactly did you react? Apparently your wife changed her mind on having kids, but now it seems that she sees you as unfit or something, not quite sure. Of course you can always make it up.
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Well thats a bit fucked up. If she lied to get a reaction out of you and got a bad one then it's her own fault.
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Same here thats like me saying I have testicalur cancer see how she reacts who the hell does that??? Something not's right here she acting wried.
Also if she knew that you didn't want kids then she couldn't have been expecting a good reaction. To use a pretty weird analogy I just thought up:
It's like if I have a pet spider (I don't) and I invite someone in to my house and it turns out that they are scared of spiders so they freak out, punch me in the face and run off. That's pretty out of order but they reacted that way because of a way that they feel.
However if I know that they are scared of spiders and run around the house chasing them with it and get punched in the face then it would be my own fault for being a dick.
Joe
It's like if I have a pet spider (I don't) and I invite someone in to my house and it turns out that they are scared of spiders so they freak out, punch me in the face and run off. That's pretty out of order but they reacted that way because of a way that they feel.
However if I know that they are scared of spiders and run around the house chasing them with it and get punched in the face then it would be my own fault for being a dick.
Joe
Wow, that's is not okay. I would be pissed if someone did that to me. That is not healthy behavior. I understand that people do dumb stuff in bad situations - been through that - but to purposefully manipulate someone's emotions just to see how they react. That shows a major lack of respect for your partner and very little integrity.
Not sure I'd be able to trust a person like that without some major damage control. For me that would be marriage therapy and repairing the lines of communication. They are a little scrambled. Think the train has come off the tracks and sometimes it can only be put back with help from someone else.
Not sure I'd be able to trust a person like that without some major damage control. For me that would be marriage therapy and repairing the lines of communication. They are a little scrambled. Think the train has come off the tracks and sometimes it can only be put back with help from someone else.
