I think I just had a dry orgasm..

[Snowblind3]

Or a minor one at least...

I've been doing edging as part of my routine 3x a week for about 9 weeks now..how I stay my hardest is by almost always being at the PONR. Well, the thing is, if I get too far to the PONR and I kegel really hard and even hold back the cum my body thinks, or is used to, me cumming and so I lose my arousal physically and mentally..quite annoying. Anyways, I am still trying to train my body to get used to it.

Anyways, my orgasms suck. Like whenever I ejaculate all it is is a feeling of release and nothing much more. Well, as I was edging I felt as if I was going to cum and went to the PONR and so I tried to get there as fast as possible to have a big finish . Well...I felt as if I was going to cum and then nothing and I had a slight buzz and nothing came out and once again my arousal diminished and all that.

So..basically, I think I can have more dry orgasms now...but it doesn't matter if
1. Your orgasms suck
2. Even if it is dry you can't have multiple orgasms and your dick just shuts down -.-

Any questions, comments, advice is all welcome.

 

[NP97]

1. Dunno how that is possible... lol.
2. It takes some getting use to. Eventually you will be able to keep a somewhat higher erection level afterwords. Mine use to drop from a 9-10 to a 5. Now it drops to a 7-8.

 

[Pirate]

It does sound like your body is figuring out how to separate ejaculation from orgasm. It might be that your orgasms suck because you are ejaculating before you orgasm so, maybe, you are not actually reaching orgasm at all. Does that make any sense?
I suggest that you keep working on it. I, also, tend to lose my EQ after a DO but I am getting better at maintaining it.
Please let us all know how it goes for you.

 

[Pegasus]

My experience with eq mirrors Np's. In time you should be able to have multi quality orgasms with one erection.

 

[Snowblind3]

Well then yes Pirate, but how do I achieve orgasm before/as I ejaculate? I am pretty sure I have never had an orgasm.

 

[Pegasus]

Well then yes Pirate, but how do I achieve orgasm before/as I ejaculate? I am pretty sure I have never had an orgasm.

Whoa this is unusual for a male, have you seen anyone about it?

 

[Snowblind3]

Haha no...didn't think I needed to.. Maybe it's just a weak orgasm..?

 

[Pirate]

I recommend that you keep edging and building up your kegels and see what happens after the point where you would normally ejaculate.

 

[Snowblind3]

Ok, do you think I should add in some more kegels? Like 50-100 kegels on my off days?

 

[Pirate]

You need a regular kegel routine every other day. What are you doing for kegels right now?

 

[dongofsteel]

I have had a similar experience to you Snowblind.
1. I can get to the PONR and then kegel, holding in my special sauce.
2. I can get to the PONR and then barely go past it and orgasm without kegeling OR ejaculating
I think that our goal is number 2, but it doesn't feel as intense as a "normal orgasm". I have been edging more often, and the feelings have gotten a little more intense.

-DoS

 

[Pegasus]

Your 2 sounds like relaxation method dong.

 

[Snowblind3]

You need a regular kegel routine every other day. What are you doing for kegels right now?

I do 50 hard kegels MWF according to Kingpole's routine. What else could I do for them?

 

[Pirate]

How long do you hold each of those kegels?

 

[Snowblind3]

The first one I hold for about 20-45 sec then there on after for like 10 sec and then most of them come down to about 5 seconds.

 

[Pirate]

Here is my current routine (every other day):
Morning:
1 minute kegel holds (5 minutes)
30 second kegel holds (5 minutes)
2 second basic kegels (10 minutes+)

Evening:
1 minute reverse kegel holds (5 minutes)
30 second reverse kegel holds (5 minutes)
2 second basic revers kegels (5 minutes)
Alternating basic and reverse kegels (5 minutes)

 

[Snowblind3]

I'll start kegeling more.

But damnit I just got through with a good PE session and then comes eding and it only lasts for 10 damn minutes because I was coming up to the PONR and tried to let it just slide back down but a little came out and bam, end of erection and arousal. Very very frustrating.

 

[NP97]

That's because you did actually ejaculate. Don't remember the term of the top of my head. Retroejaculation? Either way, it takes a while to perfect the timing and then allow your body to get use to it.