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[fisch28]

hook up sites..what do you guys think about them?

I'm wondering because I did some stupid free trial for 2 bucks, ofcoarse they trick you and charge you 30 bucks for the following month. Anyways I messaged a girl on there 2 days ago, only sent a few quick messages and now I'm guoing to head over to her place for some fun. Guess I just have to hope I'm not walking into being a victim of theft, rape, or death...I'm in SF btw, a 20 year old in shape college guy, just got curious. Whatta yall think PEgym?

 

[UYN]

I think you should tell me what SF is, and stop short-hand texting But other than that good luck Hope she is hot, and DO tell us how it went

-UYN-

 

[vulcan]

fisch28 - I have been doing this for a couple of months & met some great girls. So I'd say go for it.

 

[fisch28]

Sorry, by SF, I mean San Francisco. And yeah, I'll post back how it went later on =]

 

[fisch28]

Ok, great advice Vulcan! I'm going to head over now

 

[fisch28]

Hah, wow...well i didnt get jacked, raped, or killed...

The woman was not hot, pictures online must have been from 10 years ago..I still went in the house though, met her roomattes who offered some beer and some mixed drinks. Since its memorial day, they were having a bbq...so I just chilled, ate some free food and drank some beers for an hour. Not what I expected but turned out good in the end lol

 

[Mc Dong]

A buddy of mine did Fling.com and liked it. He said he hooked up 5 or 6 times. He stopped becasue he started to feel "gross".

I think its gross, but I guess it's no worse than picking up a girl at the bar.

MD

 

[millia]

I used to use Facebook applications (Are you Interested primarily) to pick up girls. Hooked up with 2 or 3 and they were pretty fine

 

[vulcan]

Hah, wow...well i didnt get jacked, raped, or killed...

Always a good benchmark!

Forgot to mention, that yes - not everyone you meet is going to be tip-top.

As for feeling Gross, I can kind of see what McDong is saying, but for now I just fight through that emotion. Block it out of the memory banks.

 

[fisch28]

Hey Millia, what facebook applications did you use? I'm curious... =]

 

[MrBigDick]

What is your intent with these sites? A relationship or simply a bootie call? If all you want is a booty call, just about any of them will do except eHarmony. If you want a relationship, you can try eHarmony, match.com, plentyoffish.com.............I did all of these websites and had some success but overall I hated all of it. Then again, I'm looking for the real deal and not a one night stand or a "hook up". I have a girlfriend now so I don't need any of these sites but before I met her, I used them trying to find Mrs. Right. I will admit, online dating seems to be the 21st century method of meeting someone, whether for straight up sex or an actual relationship.

 

[mtnoelle]

I met my wife online, almost 9 years ago. BUT it wasn't on any of those dating sites. It was on an AOL chat room, back when that was the thing to do. I met a lot of people that way. Searching profiles and messaging woman, chatting in the chat rooms until there was a click.

Met 6 woman through all of that. Had a lot of good times, and hot times, but did really meet the ONE doing that.

 

[tahksis]

Ive met several young girls through Myspace by browsing around my area code. Young girls rock.

 

[Batwoman]

Ive met several young girls through Myspace by browsing around my area code. Young girls rock.

Um, how young are you talking about? You're in your 30s, right?

 

[tahksis]

Um, how young are you talking about? You're in your 30s, right?

Early 20's mostly.

 

[millia]

I used something called Are You Interested.. Only set back is you can't message chicks anymore and if both of you press "like" each other then it locks up.. What I used to do was get the girls that "Liked" me and just messaged them on normal FB. How I got around the lock up part was just simply holding my arrow pointer thing over their picture and their full name would pop up. Very convenient.
They also have a website now too.. Are You Interested <- same thing but one word and add a .com after it. Didn't use the actual website at all.
Another thing that I did was completely in real life.. I would just sit down at school in a high traffic area and just say Hi to girls and see who would have a conversation with me. Got a few that way . Also got rejected biggg time.

If you're looking for a quick fuck too, there's always craigslist.. But lots of scammers and spam bots on there.

 

[fisch28]

Ha, sounds good Millia, thanks.

 

[Gspot]

Match.com, or Lifestlye Lounge if your a swinger. Craig's List has real people but most are spam. Most of the rest are a waste of time and money. I even meet a swinger couple who meet through Match.com!

 

[millia]

LOL. Funny thing is that I've been looking through craigslist for a no strings attached suck&fuck. Just because I have a pussy craving. Still haven't found a real woman.
Lots of trannies in Hawaii as I've found out..