So now that I'm single again I'm back to facing this dreaded problem I have. I can't get it up the first few times I'm with a girl. It's very embarrassing. The last time I slept with someone for the first time, I had extreme anxiety. My heart was felt as if it were going to break through my chest, I start sweating profusely, my hands become shaky and worst of all my dick goes dead. No chance at getting up. Now, as I go on a few more dates with the person and become comfortable this problem completely subsides.
To be clear, It seems the anxiety came after the ED but I'm really not sure. Previously, I didn't have these attacks, yet still had the problem. The attack only came with the last person I slept with. Maybe it was performance anxiety but didn't manifest into a full panic attack? At this point in my life, I would really like to have the ability to, as horrible as it sounds, sleep around a bit. I'm young making good money, I bodybuild and I have lots of opportunities to be with women (which I have and continue to shut down for fear of embarassment).
PE'ing is slowly increasing my confidence as well as my penile health. I've also quit smoking and stopped watching any porn as well as decrease the amount of time I "release". Problem is that because it's happened before it's stuck in my head that It's going to happen again and I get so worked up about not getting it up that I cant! Has anyone had a similar situation.
To be clear, It seems the anxiety came after the ED but I'm really not sure. Previously, I didn't have these attacks, yet still had the problem. The attack only came with the last person I slept with. Maybe it was performance anxiety but didn't manifest into a full panic attack? At this point in my life, I would really like to have the ability to, as horrible as it sounds, sleep around a bit. I'm young making good money, I bodybuild and I have lots of opportunities to be with women (which I have and continue to shut down for fear of embarassment).
PE'ing is slowly increasing my confidence as well as my penile health. I've also quit smoking and stopped watching any porn as well as decrease the amount of time I "release". Problem is that because it's happened before it's stuck in my head that It's going to happen again and I get so worked up about not getting it up that I cant! Has anyone had a similar situation.
