Does it bother you when people flirt with your partner?
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Hey haha I ain't tryna brag but I got a way with other guys women. The last like 6 girls I've been with had bfs already. Its pretty funny tho. The best ones are always taken. I also pride myself in being able to to get the bedroom eyes with girls when theriw ith their bfs onyl to see them walking by me alone right afterwards. 
Baybabe, if your man isn't bothered by the attention you get, then that is a good indication that he is confident in his relationship with you. More important than this, it shows that he trusts you. Be careful what you wish for. My wife likes to flirt and be flirted with. I found this to be a very attractive quality when we first met. Once she was mine, my male instict and ego wanted to crush that quality. But I found that the confidence she gets from feeling attractive equals more sex for me. I do get jealous, but I channel those feelings into my drive to stay healthy and attractive and interested. Just don't go overboard with the flirting. A man likes to be in a competition, but he doesn't want to feel threatened.
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Boy, I'll second that. BUT, it does take two to tango and if these girls are so willing to go off with him, then there absolutely no better in my book.
Well, I'm kinda into the swinger life style, so people that want to fuck the girl that's with me, it's a huge compliment lol
1, 2, 5, 6... complete turn on
but i'm certain that i'm the absolute minority, in my friends circle, at college, anywhere. not many people that is willing to watch their partners getting fucked
I just don't seem to understand "being jealousy" thing, and some girl friends thought I wasn't caring for them ?
1, 2, 5, 6... complete turn on
but i'm certain that i'm the absolute minority, in my friends circle, at college, anywhere. not many people that is willing to watch their partners getting fucked
I just don't seem to understand "being jealousy" thing, and some girl friends thought I wasn't caring for them ?
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This made me chuckle. Haha its not like I purposely go out of my way for to get other guys girls. Its just that girl in Chem class starts talking to me fir a few weeks then realizes she has a crush. I let them know straight up tho that I'm not her to be their knight in shining armor and if their still down then thats on them. How I see it is if you can't keep your girlfriend from running off with other guys that isn't necessarily my fault.
It doesn't bother me much because of how my gf handles it. I remember we just saw a movie and this concession guy tried to hit on her and she was was like can't talk im with my bf. In the same theater she got hit on 2 times while going to the bathroom also. As long as she lets it be known she has a bf I really don't care because I trust her and know at the end of the day she is coming home with me.
This made me chuckle. Haha its not like I purposely go out of my way for to get other guys girls. Its just that girl in Chem class starts talking to me fir a few weeks then realizes she has a crush. I let them know straight up tho that I'm not her to be their knight in shining armor and if their still down then thats on them. How I see it is if you can't keep your girlfriend from running off with other guys that isn't necessarily my fault.
I'm just curious; certainly not judging. Do you know any of these girls' boyfriends? Do you go out with these girls a few times before you end up in bed with them?
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I just feel sorry for the boyfriends, who have done no wrong except trust their girls. The girls deserve what they get.
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I totally agree Peg. On the flip side of this, if any positive can come of this situation is that the boyfriends find out hopefully sooner rather than later the kind of "morally challenged" girl they're dating. Guys aren't the only ones who can be unfaithful.
No I don't. I would never do a homie dirty like that. I knew of the guy once. Yeah I woudl take them out for about a month and then we would become sexually active. It'll last until I end it expect for the time she told me she wanted to break up with her bf or we would have to stop.
I know. I let them know that what their doing isn't right and sometimes the girls still want it. The guy shouldn't be with a girl like that anyways.
I totally second that girls can also be unfaithful because from what I've seen and experienced is that their cleverly deceptive. The concoctions they illustrate for their bf's are very sly. Its actually kinda funny the things they tell them.
It doesnt bother me as much as most guys provided my girl isnt flirting back and makes it clear that she is not interested. Its tough though when I am out I could see a girl I think is hot talking to a guy I dont know what to think (is it her boyfriend, is he just a friend, is it some guy she doesnt know just trying his luck) although I will only talk to her if I am pretty clear on the situation. Some guys I know get jealous if they see their girlfriend talking to a man who she is friends with and has know for years, that to me is a big sign of insecurity.
Several years ago my wife and I were coming back from visiting a friend in the hospital and decided to stop for a sandwich at Subway. We bellied up to the counter and each ordered a meatball sub.
The counterman (perhaps 20-25 years old) could not take his eyes off my wife as he processed our order. He made my sandwich with the standard number of meatballs, but my wife's he added an extra one, much against the portion control rules at these shops.
He continued eying her all during our meal.
To this day when a man looks at her I kid her that he is trying to give her an extra meatball.
The counterman (perhaps 20-25 years old) could not take his eyes off my wife as he processed our order. He made my sandwich with the standard number of meatballs, but my wife's he added an extra one, much against the portion control rules at these shops.
He continued eying her all during our meal.
To this day when a man looks at her I kid her that he is trying to give her an extra meatball.
actually I do have once situation that bothers me. My gf is half puerto rican and sometime Spanish speaking guys come up to her and try to flirt with her in Spanish. They don't think I know spanish so they will say the dirt things and try to disrespect me. Then they get really suprised when I start speaking spanish. I try not to show my anger I just make them feel really stupid.
Doesn't bother me a bit when guys look at my wife; and she likes the compliment that other guys are looking at her, desiring her, thinking she's hot, whatever...
