Lose erection after dry orgasm.

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Hi everyone. I have a question to ask regarding dry orgasms. I just lose my erection after I hold back (until I am able to hold it in with kegels alone, I'm squeezing just below the glans to stop myself), and this poses a real problem to my edging routine. Is there anybody who overcame this problem? Is it just a matter of strengthening my pc? Thanks in advance.

 

[Pegasus]

Is this a retro ejaculation into the bladder.

 

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Thanks. How do I keep my erection without damaging anything? Kegeling doesn't seem to work yet.

 

[Pegasus]

Practise is the short answer.
I assume you are doing edging, stop/start?
You are doing kegals.
At this point you should be approahing the ponr as close as possible, it takes time to go through the ponr.

 

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It's basically stop/start, but last night I had a great session where I kept going all the way through. I had what felt like a dozen or so mini-PONRs without getting to orgasm. I barely stopped at all, and I kept an erection level of 10 for about a half hour, until I came. I felt like it was a really good edging session. Would I be able to do this until I'm able to keep an erection after I kegel away an orgasm? Also, as far as "practising", would I just keep practising kegels, or would I do something else? I know there are all different exercises and different muscles, so what would I need to focus on for now? Thanks for your help thus far.

 

[Pegasus]

Read up on kegals and exercise both bc and pc muscles include/learn reverse kegals.
It sounds as though your training is going well. The idea is to keep geting closer and closer to ponr without ejaculation ,it sounds as if you are going well.
Eventually you go through the ponr and have an orgasm but no ejaculation ;a dry orgasm. At this point you can work on stringing orgasms together.

 

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I'll do that. Thanks for all your help.

 

[Pegasus]

You are welcome.