Most girls.. don't know size

[plum13sec]

No, mate, the other way around on the cat and ball theory.
you are the ball, she is the cat.

And on the loosing her part, it means in any stage of the relationship.
If you are a frustrated chump that puts too much value in her, she will loose interest.
you have to be willing to be the one to walk away sometimes, to get them to follow.

 

[pe2damax]

So what does it mean if you are in a bar and a girl purposefully strokes your back or caresses your forearm as she walks by you?

 

[Incognito2010]

No, mate, the other way around on the cat and ball theory.
you are the ball, she is the cat.

And on the loosing her part, it means in any stage of the relationship.
If you are a frustrated chump that puts too much value in her, she will loose interest.
you have to be willing to be the one to walk away sometimes, to get them to follow.

Ahhh, I see. But, I already know this. Before, I was just talking about how ugly guys will have a harder chance with attractive, not so promiscuous, women. Unless, you think all women care about is personallity and a little razzle dazzle. Those are important feats, but, what attracts us to someone that we have never met beforehand? Their looks or personality? Which is more prevalent in a complete stranger walking down the street or shopping in the store? Their ability to maintain patience in a relationship and understanding in a relationship, or their ability to look really sexy? The former and latter, respectfully.

No one can tell how your personality will be just by looking at you. In most cases, people are drawn to you by your looks AND THEN , that is when they decide whether or not they want to get to know your personality. A woman does not have a personality detector attached to her forehead (or anywhere, for that matter), no one knows or even cares how you act or how smooth you can talk. At first glance, its how you dress/look that matters.

Let's end it here though, shall we? This conversation is very boring, tbh. Lets just leave it at; you have your opinion and I have mine.

 

[Incognito2010]

So what does it mean if you are in a bar and a girl purposefully strokes your back or caresses your forearm as she walks by you?

Depends how she does it. She could just be very clumsy and you interpret her impinges as caresses and strokes. Or, maybe shes being flirtatious? In a bar, of all places, though? Can't be. Uh, If I were you I would ask her to apologize. No, I'm joking.

 

[plum13sec]

So what does it mean if you are in a bar and a girl purposefully strokes your back or caresses your forearm as she walks by you?

That reminds me, i was at a raggae concert in CA about a year ago and this one girl walked up in front of me and her hand kinda slid across my dick, i didnt think nothing of it.. and just kept watchin the band, then about 20 seconds later she did it again, this time i noticed and started getting a little happy down there.
This continued for about 5 minutes till i had a nice chubbs goin on.

however, maybe it was the 'state' i was in, but I did not even attempt to talk to her, even after she turned and looked right at me as she was doing it.
I have no idea what i was thinking, on second thought, i wasn't.

 

[plum13sec]

Ahhh, I see. But, I already know this. Before, I was just talking about how ugly guys will have a harder chance with attractive, not so promiscuous, women. Unless, you think all women care about is personallity and a little razzle dazzle. Those are important feats, but, what attracts us to someone that we have never met beforehand? Their looks or personality? Which is more prevalent in a complete stranger walking down the street or shopping in the store? Their ability to maintain patience in a relationship and understanding in a relationship, or their ability to look really sexy? The former and latter, respectfully.

No one can tell how your personality will be just by looking at you. In most cases, people are drawn to you by your looks AND THEN , that is when they decide whether or not they want to get to know your personality. A woman does not have a personality detector attached to her forehead (or anywhere, for that matter), no one knows or even cares how you act or how smooth you can talk. At first glance, its how you dress/look that matters.

Let's end it here though, shall we? This conversation is very boring, tbh. Lets just leave it at; you have your opinion and I have mine.

You are right on with what your saying about them judging on looks.
but you never pick up a girl just by looking at them...
looks count all the way up until you open your mouth.
after that its all on you

and even if thats not ENTIRELY true for every individual
thinking like this, proactively, has worked really well for me.
and if the girl does turn you down, F*&^ em, because
if you never approached them, youd be in the same boat your in after being rejected (sexless)
id rather be the guy thats trying and getting rejected then the wallflower sitting in the back by himself.

 

[pe2damax]

So what's everyone's record for time from first seeing a girl to making out?

 

[Incognito2010]

You are right on with what your saying about them judging on looks.
but you never pick up a girl just by looking at them...
looks count all the way up until you open your mouth.
after that its all on you

and even if thats not ENTIRELY true for every individual
thinking like this, proactively, has worked really well for me.
and if the girl does turn you down, F*&^ em, because
if you never approached them, youd be in the same boat your in after being rejected (sexless)
id rather be the guy thats trying and getting rejected then the wallflower sitting in the back by himself.

I agree on just about everything you've said. Actually, the only thing I've disagreed with, thusfar, is about the ''ugly guys can get any girl, with skill'' comment. After that, I belive the confusion came when you assumed I was speaking pessimistically. As in, I believe I'm ugly (not the slightest).

 

[The Maul]

So what's everyone's record for time from first seeing a girl to making out?

1 year or 2 days depending on how you look at it.
I knew her for 1 year but we never really talked more than casual small talk.
Day 3 I was in that ass.

 

[papaki]

I am sure that nothing of all that counts more than something that you all have forget.Hormones.It depends of the day the situation and the horniness.Only that counts for me.Girls are atracted to men wich have these hormones(testosterone) and this is something that they can see very easy.Now if a ugly man has more of them it is probable that girls are atracted by this.This is my explanation.I want every one of you to think about a moment that you knew you had many of those hormones and horniness and remember the way you talked to women and how they respond to that.But it is not by one time that.If one time you make her want you and the other time you have less of that you lose the game.Each man can saw a woman that has got plenty of those hormones and make her see it after many days that are the same it is very easy for me to win her...I cant even count how many girl I have made to like me about of this hormones.And remember hormones are prodused when we feel good.If a guy is very good looking and has a good idea about his self he is going to feel good about him self and produce some hormones.If a guy is ugly but has a huge dick again feels good about him self and produce some hormones.Hope that makes sense what I write...

 

[baybabe]

So what does it mean if you are in a bar and a girl purposefully strokes your back or caresses your forearm as she walks by you?

Means she wants to stroke the rest of you.

 

[Pegasus]

Means she wants to stroke the rest of you.

Hubba hubba.

 

[scrjunky6]

I hate to reopen a thread that was on the 60 something page but I just had to because of how intertaining it was...lets just say that an amazingly good looking kid with average size who has no problem getting girls doesnt have a girl but easily could but then starts to go through a rough phase in his life where he starts to break out and sh*t isn't working out in his life and starts to become insecure even though under all the bullshit he is still a beautiful kid with a great personality and a great body, just hormones are getting the better of him and making his life suck at the moment. How is this viewed through the womens eyes. I feel like sadness/depression can be spotted easily through your actions and in your eyes...and yes of course its a turn off

 

[Squid]

real confidence will make up for A LOT. A lack of it will assure you get almost nowhere.

 

[bboy]

But don't women have sex toys to compare?

 

[Pegasus]

You think they measure their toys?

 

[Batwoman]

You think they measure their toys?

I do!

 

[NP97]

...I measure my toy. Lol. When I was in college this one girl was dancing with me. We stopped for a bit because I was up in beer pong. She followed me over to the table, and grabbed my cock under it. I wasn't hard (although that gave me a bit of a chub ), but she still smiled and said, "Ohhh that's big." Got a HJ from her that night. She said my dick was 9"... I said, "Naw... 8 1/2"." hehe. I was 7" at that time.

 

[scrjunky6]

I feel like girls just know big small and average based on how it feels inside them....not actually measurements and stuff...they have a range of sizes that fall into each of those categories

 

[Batwoman]

I feel like girls just know big small and average based on how it feels inside them....not actually measurements and stuff...they have a range of sizes that fall into each of those categories

Absolutely right. However, didos come in sizes that can be measured. Measuring a toy is about the only way a female has to find out exactly what size 6" x 5" is for, for example.