Welcome richo, to the GYM! READ ALL THE BEGINNER THREADS, Select a routine, start a journal and log your routine regularly. EDGING at the end of your routine, will help you retain engorgement; then wear a properly fitted steel cock ring (that's what I do) to keep a flushed flaccid. This really built my girth quickly. Click on the link in my signature to read all about the Extended Cock Ring Challenge for details and results. PM me if you have questions.