Never Satisfied

[wemustbuildthebomb]

So story time.

I am now officially at the two year mark of the beginning of my PE routine. When I started doing PE, I had some above average equipment; nothing special, but statistically better off than some other guys. The problem is, I never viewed it this way. I always thought that I was super small. Granted, I am decently tall (6'3"), but I was seriously self conscious about my size.

Fast forward two years, and I have now both surpassed my initial gain goals, and am indisputably above the statistical mean for both length and girth.

Here is the issue: Though I am totally aware that I am comfortably above the average, and my self consciousness has substantially reduced, I still do not think that my penis looks that big. Perhaps this is just some sort of minor body dysmorphia, I don't know. My concern is that I will never be satisfied with my gains.

My question is this: have any of you had a similar situation to me, where you met goals, which did not satisfy you? And if so, was there ever a point where this "not enough" feeling went away? I would appreciate any input on the topic.

 

[kickinthemebs]

If you have that mindset at your size I don't think you will ever shift it. You need a good dose of cop on.

 

[popol5169]

I've read about quite a few big/huge gainers who always thought they were small despite their stats. They got used to their new size and the initial problems of self perception came back.

 

[jackjohnson]

So story time.

I am now officially at the two year mark of the beginning of my PE routine. When I started doing PE, I had some above average equipment; nothing special, but statistically better off than some other guys. The problem is, I never viewed it this way. I always thought that I was super small. Granted, I am decently tall (6'3"), but I was seriously self conscious about my size.

Fast forward two years, and I have now both surpassed my initial gain goals, and am indisputably above the statistical mean for both length and girth.

Here is the issue: Though I am totally aware that I am comfortably above the average, and my self consciousness has substantially reduced, I still do not think that my penis looks that big. Perhaps this is just some sort of minor body dysmorphia, I don't know. My concern is that I will never be satisfied with my gains.

My question is this: have any of you had a similar situation to me, where you met goals, which did not satisfy you? And if so, was there ever a point where this "not enough" feeling went away? I would appreciate any input on the topic.

Did you take before pictures ?

Dd you take after pictures ?

 

[jackjohnson]

Also If your dick gets any longer you might not be able to go balls deep anymore.

 

[Big 'Un]

"Penile dysmorphic disorder" is genuinely a psychologically diagnosable disorder these days, but I doubt your problem can't be resolved with a slight attitude adjustment.
Perhaps you should focus more on other aspects of your life, and not place too much emphasis on your penis size. It doesn't define you as a person (despite what you may think lol)

 

[seanyboy]

When I look at it in the mirror from the side view, it looks pretty big. When I look at it from my own POV, it does look small. Hook up with girl, and she'll definitely affirm that you're not small. Even if she doesn't tell you directly (though at your size, she probably will), you'll know when you two are in the act.

 

[habban]

Just a question.. When you look down at your penis, does it feel like it is the same size as when you started visually, or can you see the difference?

 

[CaptainJohnson]

Wanting a bigger dick is a feeling any guy can get, at any size, but viewing your dick as "not big enough" is a whole other problem. If this is the kind of feeling you've been having, PE won't help you overcome it.

If it is really bad, therapy might be worthwhile. If it is something you think you can deal with, try that instead. Don't stop talking about it on here, and get the healthy feedback you need.

PE is a fun experience, but nobody should have to feel anxiety over it.

 

[growtime]

Ok, I hate threads like this. Really. And i feel angry and sad!

My opinion:

- See doctor/psychologist.

Really. You are almost 8 NBPEL. Your girth is insane. What are you wanting to hear? Do you know that many people here are really SMALL and some people can find your post even offensive. Shame.

 

[kong15]

People understand that their perception is warped. I am well above average in both categories but it still looks the same to me. I have the same issue with my body as I lost 50 pounds and still think I look like fat. It will take time for people to change their mental state and I try to reaffirm myself each day.

 

[wemustbuildthebomb]

Ok, I hate threads like this. Really. And i feel angry and sad!

My opinion:

- See doctor/psychologist.

Really. You are almost 8 NBPEL. Your girth is insane. What are you wanting to hear? Do you know that many people here are really SMALL and some people can find your post even offensive. Shame.

zambijs I did not mean to be insensitive, and please accept my apologies if I have offended you. I realize that many men are smaller than me, this is the issue. Numerically, I realize I am ahead of the pack. I just can't get over the psychological perception that I need to be bigger. Plus, whether or not other men are smaller is of no consequence to me. My penis is the only penis that I have ever known, and as such I have no non-statistical baseline (besides porn) to compare myself to. The data shows that I am big, that doesn't mean I go around comparing dicks with every guy on the street to actually see that I am big.

I think the real problem is when I first started PE, I had a goal in mind (7.5 nbpel), and in my head 7.5 nbpel just seemed like it would turn out to be absolutely monstrous. When I actually got there, granted it looked bigger, it just didn't fulfill what I expected. I do put a lot of blame on pornography, as it has severely skewed my view of what "big" looks like. Perhaps when I get some sexual experience (mine thus far is negligible) it will change my perception. Until then, I am just trying to deal.