So, Hi Everybody

[mrquestions]

i've read quite a bit here and figured it might be worth signing up so i can actually ask questions, provide feedback and maybe eventually add my experience/opinions to the forum.

i'm 32 this year, and over the last 5 years have found my(our) sex life has turned to crap despite having a beautiful, loving and above all open-minded long term partner. part of it has been stress/self esteem issues, and part has just been work related exhaustion. but the biggest problem has been the combination of poor stamina, PE and shattered confidence from previous sessions of the same; it's a deadly spiral as i'm sure many people know.

regardless, a lot of this is on the mend thanks to numerous bits of advice on this forum. for one thing it's a massive relief knowing that i am not one of few, but one of many who have self esteem issues related to cock size, shape, performance etc. it's also really nice to see people discussing male sexuality so openly; it seems to be a bit of a taboo subject in our society to think about sex beyond "banging chicks" and porn.

my main goals here are to improve my penis length (not too fussed on girth gains, though keeping the current ratio of my penis would be nice since i'm used to it), undo trained PE (from 15 years of porn addiction and an overactive IK) and straighten out a left hand curve that has gotten slowly worse over the years. Any advice/direction from long term members will be appreciated, but i'm likely to be a lurker

so yeah, that's me.

"hi"

 

[growtime]

Hello mate, Glad you joined us. What are your stats? Feel free to make progress log. This site already changed my life, I hope and there is REALLY big chance, that it will change your life too. Good luck and enjoy.

 

[mrquestions]

thanks zambijs, really glad to hear positive advocation for this place

admittedly, my stats are one of the things i'm not sure of; what do each of the abbreviations mean? that should help me figure out how to measure them more effectively than "about 6?".

 

[Aang]

Hi mrquestions, and Welcome!

Not sure if you've read this, but it's good to START HERE!

All the best on reaching your goals. I'm really glad you joined us!

 

[lilbigman]

As Aang has already suggested, the information located under the Start Here tab will answer probably 90% of all the questions you have. Reading and learning as much as you can about PE will go a long way in achieving your goals. You will also find half a dozen beginner routines located there. Pick one (I liked JP90) and ease yourself into the routine. Be patient and consistent, and gains will come. If you have any questions along the way, feel free to ask and we will try our best to answer them for you. Good luck buddy, and welcome to the gym.

 

[Cavalier]

Welcome aboard!

These will help you with abbreviations and measuring.

Abbreviations and Acronyms

Measuring

Yes, it is true that you are far from being alone, there are many dealing with the same issues. Your right, this site is open and diverse. It's not just penis enlargement, it's all about male sexual improvement


A good place to start is to do some reading in the START HERE! link that can be found at the top of the page. If you haven't already start off with one of the beginner routines. The JP90 is a great routine to start off with for most beginners. Start off slow, focus on safety and gradually work your way up to the full routine.


There is a lot to learn, so use your time during the JP90 to further educate yourself. There is a wealth of information here, do plenty of reading and don't hesitate to ask questions.


The key to being successful is to be dedicated, consistent and patient. PE does work, but it won't happen overnight. The rewards for putting in the time and effort are well worth it in the end.


Good luck and always PE safely.

 

[jockinthebox]

Welcome mrquestions, to the PE GYM! Glad you joined us! You've already gotten great advice from my Gym brothers, so do lots of reading to learn the lingo here, select a routine, take correct measurements, take pics (or you'll regret it later). start a journal to log your progress & stay motivated, and ABOVE ALL, PE SAFELY!

 

[closed224]

Welcome, and thanks for joining us. Don't let these guys fool you. They suck you in with promises to help with your penis, which we will. Then the next thing you know someone is helping you with real estate questions, or fishing questions, or cooking questions. Hell there hasn't been one taboo thing here that I have seen except hey look at this link where you can buy a bunch of crap, and hey lets have sex. Very helpful bunch.
Read up in the start section pick a good routine, start at about half reps and slowly add until you are doing the full routine.
Quit Porn there is no value to fake crap and so much value to time with your wonderful partner.
Learn to jelq against your curve and some other neat tricks to straighten your penis
Ask questions and share your experiences.
Beware, consistent, persistent, and patient and soon we will be reading your success thread.
Enjoy

 

[mrquestions]

thanks everyone, looks like i've got some reading to do see you in the forum!

 

[SaltySea]

Welcome to the forum mrquestions!!! There's a ton of very helpful users in the forum, so feel free to live up to your username and ask away.

 

[GettinBig1]

Hello and welcome! Good luck on your PE journey!

 

[kickinthemebs]

Welcome aboard, tonnes of great tips already there so follow them and you should do fine

 

[GeeMox]

:welcome:

Good advice above to get you started, just stop by to say good luck.

Glad to have you with us, have a safe PE journey!