I've been seeing this new woman for about a month now, and... WOW! What's happening with us is more than I'd ever imagined possible with anyone. Usually, I'll get along with a woman in one, or maybe two different areas. Like, we'll be extremely attracted to each other and unable to keep our hands off of each other. Or, our personalities mesh so well, we can spend days at a time together. Or, our communication is so good, we can talk about anything!
But this woman... it's everything, and then some.
Our personalities match on so many levels:
- we're both polyamorous (have other lovers); she loves hearing about my dates, is turned on by them, and is planning a threesome
- we're both extremely communicative, and delve into uncomfortable conversations head-first; we're both very straightforward, up-front, and honest, in a responsible manner; we are self-expressed in such a way that it isn't controlling, manipulative, or degrading in any way (this goes to the communicative aspect)
- we're both dancers, we both have done the same personal development courses (Landmark), we both love to travel, and are into outdoor activities; we both work in real estate (I'm an investor, she's a property manager).
Our communication is amazing. We both strive for the defenselessness, vulnerability, and the intimacy that comes along with it. She says this is the reason she has so many orgasms: I make her feel safe, loved, and appreciated. This is what makes everything else so valuable to her. She sees me, and I see her. We've committed to having nothing between us; no barriers, no walls, no defenses; no excuses, no justifications, no manipulation. None of that. It doesn't belong in what we're creating.
We also have so much fun together! She laughs at everything I say, she thinks I'm so funny, which makes me want to make her laugh more. She's a ray of sunshine that everyone is attracted to; she brightens up any room just by her being in it.
All of this is mutual; she thinks I'm just as amazing as I think she is. She continues to tell me how beautiful I am, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
I told her about PE. She said, with a giant grin, "Anything that results in us having more sex is fine by me." She's also impressed with my curiosity about my own body, and concern for maintaining my sexual health, in an area that most other men would just give up, accept, or feel defeated.
We can fuck for hours at a time. She loves licking the cum off of me. She loves it when I cum in her mouth, she loves it when I go down on her. Then, after we're spent, all I have to do is kiss her passionately, once, and she's ready to go for another few hours.
Oh, BTW, did I mention we haven't had intercourse yet (ie- penis in vagina)? And she had 5 orgasms last night. Yeah.
We're discussing sex without barriers right now, and we want to get tested before we do that. Our original plan was to get tested in June, and then remove barriers when the results come back negative. I have condoms readily available, but neither of us like them, so we're just not doing that. We'd rather our first time be without barriers. Last night, she was begging for my cock to be inside her, so I just teased her entrance. And then she begged, "Let's get tested this week."
Of course, we were both naked and in the throes of passion at the time, so I said, "Yes!"
This morning we talked some more, and I said, "There's something hot about having it be forbidden. Let's keep this boundary in place for another week and discuss again. It makes us dance around the idea, and that's what makes our sex so great right now."
She agreed.
We aren't going to see each other tonight, because, when we're together, sleep doesn't happen. In our first week together, I think we got a total of 10 hours of sleep. And, I don't want to get our relationship to a place where we're just used to being around each other. I don't want it to get to a place where being in bed together isn't so exciting, and we can just fall asleep. I want being in bed together to be that we can't resist ripping each others' clothes off and fucking each other senseless for hours and hours on end.
She calls it "protecting our lust." And she appreciates it.
So, yeah, flying high right now, and wanted to share. <3
But this woman... it's everything, and then some.
Our personalities match on so many levels:
- we're both polyamorous (have other lovers); she loves hearing about my dates, is turned on by them, and is planning a threesome
- we're both extremely communicative, and delve into uncomfortable conversations head-first; we're both very straightforward, up-front, and honest, in a responsible manner; we are self-expressed in such a way that it isn't controlling, manipulative, or degrading in any way (this goes to the communicative aspect)
- we're both dancers, we both have done the same personal development courses (Landmark), we both love to travel, and are into outdoor activities; we both work in real estate (I'm an investor, she's a property manager).
Our communication is amazing. We both strive for the defenselessness, vulnerability, and the intimacy that comes along with it. She says this is the reason she has so many orgasms: I make her feel safe, loved, and appreciated. This is what makes everything else so valuable to her. She sees me, and I see her. We've committed to having nothing between us; no barriers, no walls, no defenses; no excuses, no justifications, no manipulation. None of that. It doesn't belong in what we're creating.
We also have so much fun together! She laughs at everything I say, she thinks I'm so funny, which makes me want to make her laugh more. She's a ray of sunshine that everyone is attracted to; she brightens up any room just by her being in it.
All of this is mutual; she thinks I'm just as amazing as I think she is. She continues to tell me how beautiful I am, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
I told her about PE. She said, with a giant grin, "Anything that results in us having more sex is fine by me." She's also impressed with my curiosity about my own body, and concern for maintaining my sexual health, in an area that most other men would just give up, accept, or feel defeated.
We can fuck for hours at a time. She loves licking the cum off of me. She loves it when I cum in her mouth, she loves it when I go down on her. Then, after we're spent, all I have to do is kiss her passionately, once, and she's ready to go for another few hours.
Oh, BTW, did I mention we haven't had intercourse yet (ie- penis in vagina)? And she had 5 orgasms last night. Yeah.
We're discussing sex without barriers right now, and we want to get tested before we do that. Our original plan was to get tested in June, and then remove barriers when the results come back negative. I have condoms readily available, but neither of us like them, so we're just not doing that. We'd rather our first time be without barriers. Last night, she was begging for my cock to be inside her, so I just teased her entrance. And then she begged, "Let's get tested this week."
Of course, we were both naked and in the throes of passion at the time, so I said, "Yes!"
This morning we talked some more, and I said, "There's something hot about having it be forbidden. Let's keep this boundary in place for another week and discuss again. It makes us dance around the idea, and that's what makes our sex so great right now."
She agreed.
We aren't going to see each other tonight, because, when we're together, sleep doesn't happen. In our first week together, I think we got a total of 10 hours of sleep. And, I don't want to get our relationship to a place where we're just used to being around each other. I don't want it to get to a place where being in bed together isn't so exciting, and we can just fall asleep. I want being in bed together to be that we can't resist ripping each others' clothes off and fucking each other senseless for hours and hours on end.
She calls it "protecting our lust." And she appreciates it.
So, yeah, flying high right now, and wanted to share. <3
