Odd question on Deep throat

[WIItard]

My wife has been big on BJ's forever and she has always gone deep but never deep throated me. In the last year I have gotten bigger and in the last couple of months she seem to be trying to go all the way. One day she was all gung ho so I gave her head a little push which was enough that she finally when all the way down on me. Now she seems to be be trying to perfect the deep throat move getting pretty excited by it.

Just wondering if any ladies have a comment on why she would like that??? I like it so good for her but I'm not thinking I would like to have something going down my throat gagging me at times. The whole Bj thing is a control thing so I guess this is just follow through????

Just wondering if we have any ladies out there who can deep throat 7-8 inches and what they like about it.

 

[Hound]

Im not a lady but mine does tell me that she does it because she likes it and she knows it pleases me. Plus she is submissive to me in the bedroom and she finds that hot as well. Im 7 inches and she takes it like a champ. Took a bit to loosen her throat up but it works great now

 

[WIItard]

Im not a lady but mine does tell me that she does it because she likes it and she knows it pleases me. Plus she is submissive to me in the bedroom and she finds that hot as well. Im 7 inches and she takes it like a champ. Took a bit to loosen her throat up but it works great now

Second time around she got much better. First time around it was "wow I can do that", second time around it was "let me figure out how to do this better". Think tomorrow will be round three.

Still not sure why women wood like that but some times the women can't tell you themselves why they like something they just do. LOL.

 

[LilNudeDude]

I can't really speak for the ladies point of view either. But, being a Bi-guy, I absolutely love swallowing the entire thing. For me, it's a turn-on in both a submissive and control sense. Seeing the guys face light up with pleasure when he slides down my snug throat is awesome (on the submissive side). But, that also means I have complete control over the level of pleasure he receives. I rev him up or down, tease and torment, until he can't stand it and blows his load. I can make him come quick or make draw it out as he requests. (controlled submissive). It's mostly just plain!

Also, I don't know if this a mental or actual physical thing. I suspect I am not the only one male or female. There is a connection between my gag reflex and sexual arousal. I actually get a rock hard erection just from deepthroating. So there is that too.

It is a very initimate act and provides a very special connection between you and your partner.

Just a few thoughts.

 

[WIItard]

Good explanation Lil.

Wife was back for round three and seems to have gotten the hang of it. Looks like she enjoys it.

 

[longerlastingnoob]

I always thought it weird that girls would like to almost choke, didn't make sense that even the ones good at going deep would gag and seem uncomfortable. But my gf says when she gives head it turns her on and deeper she goes the better.
Suppose they might wonder why someone would want to be smothered with pussy.

 

[jockinthebox]

My GF's over the years have all pretty much liked oral, though some were more enthusiastic than others. Those who accept the challenge to go balls-deep are certainly more rare. They're the more competitive females, in my experience. Usually more driven,with high sexuality and generally pretty good athletes, overall. Just like guys who are athletes, it's a challenge to "out perform" your competitors and the refusal to give up until you win. You just keep on trying and training until you accomplish your goals. Females who like oral and really are good at it, have that competitive spirit, and I'm perfectly happy to let them grab my baton and run the race!:becky:

 

[downthere]

^ That's pretty awesome jock! Makes a lot of sense, too.

 

[jockinthebox]

^ That's pretty awesome jock! Makes a lot of sense, too.

Hey, thanks downthere! But I am just the "baton" (and very happy to be!); it's the gals that are "awesome"!:becky:

 

[BigO]

I'm signing my wife up for softball!

 

[Koh]

I was never actually a big fan of being deepthroated, being teethed always hurt and sorta turned me off from it.

 

[jockinthebox]

I was never actually a big fan of being deepthroated, being teethed always hurt and sorta turned me off from it.

REALLY??? Hate to sound like a jock, but NO PAIN, NO GAIN!!
May I suggest you become a bit more assertive with your partners? Give directions and enthusiastic feedback to your partner. Keep experimenting with different positions and compliment them on their technique and things they do well. Balance those comments with constructive alternative suggestions when you feel pain/discomfort receiving oral. GOOD ORAL SEX technique takes time and practice for both partners to learn; both giving and receiving. Discuss how to improve your performance with your partner over breakfast or before bed, outside the sexually charged act itself. Nobody is born with the knowledge of how to give really good oral sex. It is a talent acquired by being open and honest with your partner, with LOTS of practice. No 2 people are alike in their particular "pleasure switches" either, so honest and direct dialog about YOUR circuitry (turn ons) will make "the connections" much more smoothly.

You're missing out on a MAJOR element of satisfying sex (at least for me). Do you enjoy cunnilingus, Kohl? As I was taught in church as a boy, "it is more blessed to give than to receive"...it is Sunday, isn't it? :becky:

 

[WIItard]

I'm signing my wife up for softball!

Funny, my wife was a softball player.

 

[WIItard]

I was never actually a big fan of being deepthroated, being teethed always hurt and sorta turned me off from it.

Your girl needs to try harder, I'm not having a teeth problem.

 

[MrsLooking4more]

I really don't think we Ladies like to Gag but if we enjoy fellatio which I do. Then we want to perfect it. I don't think is a matter of competition, I only do it to my beloved husband of 25 years. I love that he likes fellatio and I am a submissive but I do it because I ENJOY it, he just happens to be the recipient of my obsession.

When you deep throat the precum gets past the taste buds and the feel is different and so is the "taste". I love the texture of the penis in my mouth, is a big turn on for me.

 

[Hound]

I really don't think we Ladies like to Gag but if we enjoy fellatio which I do. Then we want to perfect it. I do think is a matter of competition, I only do it to my beloved husband of 25 years. I love that he likes fellatio and I am a submissive but I do it because I ENJOY it, he just happens to be the recipient of my obsession.

When you deep throat the precum gets past the taste buds and the feel is different and so is the "taste". I love the texture of the penis in my mouth, is a big turn on for me.

Yikes....You are getting me hot with that last sentence!!! LOL Lucky man and congrats on the 25 years