Good sex..?
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Hey LLN,
I think Swishh10 understands that the definition of "good sex" is highly subjective and just wants people to define - for themselves - what they consider good sex to be.
Edit: oops, I see you already considered that, my bad.
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I actually thought on this for a minute, and the answer was surprisingly simple. Any time it feels good and I can intimately connect with my wife. Anything that happens to that end is all good.
I'll admit Swishh, I'm still a bit curious as to the reason for the question, if you don't mind sharing. Are you just looking for outside perspective, or are you looking to gauge your's or someone else's experience by our answers.
This might help the posters more accurately give feedback. Just a thought.
I'll admit Swishh, I'm still a bit curious as to the reason for the question, if you don't mind sharing. Are you just looking for outside perspective, or are you looking to gauge your's or someone else's experience by our answers.
This might help the posters more accurately give feedback. Just a thought.
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Hiya Swishh10,
Since there are only a few women on this site to provide you with an answer, I thought I would post these real responses written by women of various ages...
“The best sex I ever had was when I was with a man who really knew what he was doing. It seemed to me that he got professional help in this category. I also would like to add that how he got me turned on helped the situation very much. I had a blast my hot sex night was indescribable. Sex is the best when you really get yourself into and it helps when the love for the person is very strong.”
“Great sex is when you and your partner have passionate hot sex and climax at the same time followed by long cuddles.”
“My definition of great sex is knowing that the man I’m with loves me and we can both let go and enjoy each other, with no worries...”
“When your level of arousal parallels your partners , during each stage of progression to intercourse and/or orgasm ...”
“Great sex, for me, happens when you completely give all of yourself to your partner, mind and body, and try to fulfill their desires of pleasure. You have to be kind of selfless. And then with trust and selflessness, you exchange great pleasure”
“To me great sex is not about orgasm. It is true that reaching climax is great in sex. But there are times that it just doesn't happen. However, the closeness that a person feels with their partner, the intimacy, and the enjoyment of the time spent together is what makes sex great.”
“When two people connect so deeply they float, do not come up for air hours on end, collapse from exhaustion of being one, intertwine as one speak words that are sexy yet inviting bodies being sweaty what more can one say?”
“The exploration of each other’s body and desires in any and all aspects. Being non-judgmental and allowing yourself the sexual freedom not to be judged, truly great sex!”
No seriously, I always thought sex had to be long lasting, vigorous, kinky and uninhibited to be the best it could be. As someone who had pre e I never experienced that sobre, so always had to utilise whatever I could to achieve that. But when I got with my first serious gf ( a girl who couldn't take long, hard sessions) I realised it didn't have to be that way all the time and I could get as much sometimes better pleasure from those.
With my current gf it's been the best I've had, short sessions long sessions, hard, soft, sensual with no actual sex. So what defines good sex, great, is her although I don't have a plethora of experience to go by or compare, I doubt seriously I'd have this level with anyone else.
And sometimes a bit of roleplay/dom.
Drunk wild sex is the best. Well maybe drunk wild makeup sex might be even better. Oh wait did I mention ruff yeah kinda ruff too:crutch::crutch:
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Sex is only good if/when the arousal is good... if she can't get me aroused, then it might as well be in the banana peel.
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When my beloved and I connect through our romantic overtures and then we are wiped out and sleep like there is no tomorrow.
Well I'm male but for me good sex is when it feels free. Not in the way of not costing money but being free from any worries or expectations. When you can feel that both you and your partner is just enjoying the moment without worrying about anything. For instance many girls get selfconcious and might worry about if you like their body or not, if their pussy smells ok, if what they're doing is good for you, what you will think of them for doing what they're doing and so on. And we men can have the exact same problem.
So for me good sex is when both me and my partner is completly in the moment and free from any worries. And in my experience this is what girls like too.
So for me good sex is when both me and my partner is completly in the moment and free from any worries. And in my experience this is what girls like too.
