Finally lost my virginity!
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Still waiting for that "oh fuck she's pregnant thread" coming in 2 or three weeks.....She's not bored. It's just the pregnancy hormones.
op2::hungry:Glad that you got treatment sooner rather than later. Take the advice given from the others on here and wrap that thing up if you intend on finding more FWBs.
Symptoms showed a little over a month after I first slept with her. Lucky for me or I might have had it for who knows how long without knowing. Treatment was a single dose of Azithromycin. Symptoms are slowly clearing up. Hopefully it'll be gone soon and I can just move on with my life. Fuck STDs! -_-
Still waiting for that "oh fuck she's pregnant thread" coming in 2 or three weeks.....
Don't think so. The odds of her getting pregnant were slim to begin with, but now that she's had this STD for a really long time, it might have damaged her reproductive system.
kelthuzad1986 -- whats ur size bro (no homo ofcourse lol)...ive only had sex once when I was 16 and now im 23 so I mine aswell be a virgin lol. but from what u said she seemed to love ur tool so I just wanna know so I can figure out if Im good where Im at.
Because until I caught it and did research, I had no idea STDs were so insidious and so often didn't even show symptoms. I certainly know better now.
It's been quite awhile since I measured, but I would say I'm around 6.5 by a little over 5.5.
That's about average, in USA for a white male it can be considered a little above average.
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Bummer about the clap. Good thing you used your head and went to the doc. Glad it was not something worse.
great 5.5 girth is average? that's just fuckin great, theres goes my self esteem for the day. lol jk
I believe the average is actually 4.0-5.5. Most men fall into that range with 5.5 being on the high end of average.
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Average girth is 4.7 according to moat studies I have read.
5.5 is not high average, it is big as far as girth is concerned.
5.5 is not high average, it is big as far as girth is concerned.
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So it began with just another customer at the convenience store I worked at. I thought nothing of her, until I realized she seemed to be paying special attention to me whenever she would come in. Later on when I was working some hours at another convenience store in the chain, she came in there as well. The girl I was working with just happened to be one of her friends. Later that night, her friend called me at the store and said she kept going on and on about how she should have given me her number and she gave it to me over the phone so she would stop bugging her lol.
So we get to talking. We hung out twice with each other at her apartment, and we went to see a movie also. I could tell she liked me, but I told her that all I was looking for was a good time and nothing serious. At first when we discussed friends with benefits, she said she couldn't do it because I was exactly the kind of guy she would fall for, but something snapped like, two days later and she said she wanted it. Now she is fairly overweight and wouldn't be my first choice for a sex partner, but she has a cute face and I like her personality so that helped a lot.
Of course, I'm not going to turn down pussy!
So we got in the room. She was so nervous that her hands were shaking. I had previously bought some wine per her request to help her out with nerves. It's funny really. I was the virgin. She had had sex before, and yet I was the calm one.
I allowed her to set the pace. We began by simply kissing and hugging and getting warmed up to each other. After making out for a few minutes, she pushed me onto the bed and got on top of me continuing to kiss me. After a few more minutes of that, I tried to get her shirt off. It was dim and I couldn't see well so I was having a little trouble. She took it off and her bra followed. She has small but nice tits which make nice hand-fulls. My shirt followed. After a little more kissing, it was my turn to push her onto the bed. This time I went for her pants and then finally, her underwear. Mine came off soon after. Then we ran into a roadblock; I had my own case of nerves I was dealing with. I was having trouble getting hard enough to penetrate her.
Eventually with a little time and effort, I was able to get hard enough. Here's the good part, medically, the possibility of her getting pregnant is virtually zero so we both agreed there would be no condoms. I was ecstatic! Anyway, I eventually got it inside of her and she went wild! She loved how thick it was and her reaction every time I thrusted deep was priceless. I came inside of her fairly quickly. The part that surprised me is that after the initial hypersensitivity wore off, I was able to keep on going until she had her orgasm.
After that we simply chilled for a little while and later on, I was able to go for a second round and came inside her again. So sexy! We tried going for a third time last night but I couldn't stay hard. I was just too worn out. We watched the movie Role Models and soon after went to bed.
I was having a lot of trouble sleeping because my mind was hyperactive. I couldn't believe it! I finally had sex! At around 6:15 in the morning, I found I was hard. I guided her hand to it and she began stroking. I asked if she wanted it inside her and she said "oh yes!" I had no trouble getting it in that time. I came in her a third time. We tried twice more to go this morning but my dick is shot for right now.
I'm exhausted right now, I'm sore, I'm tired from lack of sleep, and I have a class and work today, but I'm fucking happy! This was an amazing experience and it is something we both want to do again. Next time, I hope it goes more smoothly. I'll be a lot more confident in what I'm doing so that should help.
Congrats boss!!
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Awhile back, she invited me over to her place. She was drinking Vodka. In any other circumstance, I would have, but I had just gotten home after a full day of work and classes plus the temps out were subzero and I had no desire to go back out into that.
Fast forward to last night and she invites me over. I hadn't chilled with her in awhile so I figured why not. She said she couldn't wait to see me. I asked if I should bring condoms just in case and she said (over text) no please don't. The wording sounded desperate, as if sex definitely would happen if she knew I had protection.
So I get there and we start kissing and hugging and cuddling while we're watching the TV. At one point, I mentioned the last time she had invited me over saying I wished I had gone because I had never seen her under the influence and was curious. Bear in mind I had no ulterior motives in getting laid whatsoever.
So she goes and gets the remainder of some Raspberry Vodka and drinks it rather impressively quickly. I very quickly regretted suggesting alcohol.
What followed was an unending stream of "I could be good for you if you give me a chance" and "what's wrong with me that you don't want to see if we could work?"
I'm going to take a very big risk here and bring religion into the picture. We were both raised born again Christians. As a very backslidden Christian myself who was sick and tired of waiting for sex, I didn't question it when she suggested a hotel room. I knew she was Christian but I didn't want to jeopardize my chances of getting laid.
Anyway, she was going on about how we could try and become better Christians together, we could start going to church with each other blah blah blah. A major reason I am still single at nearly 28 is that at my core I want to be a good Christian. I believe in heaven and hell and that where you end up depends on whether or not you trust Jesus to forgive your sins. I believe this universe was created in 6 literal days etc. So if I believe there is an all powerful God as I have stated then of course I want to be a good example to my wife and kids when I have them and I want my wife to be a good Christian woman. That's just it. I don't consider myself worthy of the kind of woman I want to eventually end up with. Not even remotely. Before I can justify pursuing the kind of woman that I would want to marry and have my children, I want to become closer to God myself. I'm not going to be perfect by any means, but I can be better. I've told her all of this, but she keeps arguing that we could help each other with that blah blah blah.
I don't know what to do guys. In a way I WANT to give us a chance, but I'm not happy with the kind of man that I am right now. There's also the fact that she would have an extremely hard time getting pregnant if we did end up getting married and I dearly want children of my own someday, not someone else's kids. And the one thing that I will never tell her no matter what is that while I think she has a cute face and I like her as a person, I'm rather turned off by her overweight figure. There's no good way to tell that to a woman. What makes this whole thing worse is that for her the sex was never no strings attached like I thought it was at first. She's fallen for me, and by her own admission, sex from day one was an attempt to keep me around.
Speaking of sex, we did ultimately end up having sex again last night without protection. My test results came back negative, and so I have whatever it was put down to a random occurrence. Worst case scenario I have to go back to the family planning clinic, suffer a little embarrassment for knowingly making that mistake again, and get another round of antibiotics.
I feel like a colossal asshole. I could have said no. I told her I should have said no in light of how horrible she felt afterward but she said "I would have insisted or tried to guilt trip you into it anyway" which makes me feel only marginally better because I still had the ability to walk away, and I should have since alcohol was involved. She texted me today and said she feels like someone put her through a shredder. I feel horrible for letting my selfishness take over when I knew she would probably hate herself in the morning when all was said and done.
What the fuck am I supposed to do guys? From the beginning she fell for me and from the beginning the sex wasn't NSA for her. If I had known, I'd have steered clear for sure. Her figure could be worked on but the inability to easily get pregnant is a huge deal breaker for me. And then there's me. I cannot justify pursuing the kind of woman I want to be with until I get my own life in order and so I content myself with chasing strangers for one night stands or fwb. I cannot think of any way to let her down easy. I never ever saw her as relationship material, but she just walked in my store a few times as a customer and over the course of those visits began to fall hard for me. I never asked for that. I see her as a friend, nothing more.
Awhile back, she invited me over to her place. She was drinking Vodka. In any other circumstance, I would have, but I had just gotten home after a full day of work and classes plus the temps out were subzero and I had no desire to go back out into that.
Fast forward to last night and she invites me over. I hadn't chilled with her in awhile so I figured why not. She said she couldn't wait to see me. I asked if I should bring condoms just in case and she said (over text) no please don't. The wording sounded desperate, as if sex definitely would happen if she knew I had protection.
So I get there and we start kissing and hugging and cuddling while we're watching the TV. At one point, I mentioned the last time she had invited me over saying I wished I had gone because I had never seen her under the influence and was curious. Bear in mind I had no ulterior motives in getting laid whatsoever.
So she goes and gets the remainder of some Raspberry Vodka and drinks it rather impressively quickly. I very quickly regretted suggesting alcohol.
What followed was an unending stream of "I could be good for you if you give me a chance" and "what's wrong with me that you don't want to see if we could work?"
I'm going to take a very big risk here and bring religion into the picture. We were both raised born again Christians. As a very backslidden Christian myself who was sick and tired of waiting for sex, I didn't question it when she suggested a hotel room. I knew she was Christian but I didn't want to jeopardize my chances of getting laid.
Anyway, she was going on about how we could try and become better Christians together, we could start going to church with each other blah blah blah. A major reason I am still single at nearly 28 is that at my core I want to be a good Christian. I believe in heaven and hell and that where you end up depends on whether or not you trust Jesus to forgive your sins. I believe this universe was created in 6 literal days etc. So if I believe there is an all powerful God as I have stated then of course I want to be a good example to my wife and kids when I have them and I want my wife to be a good Christian woman. That's just it. I don't consider myself worthy of the kind of woman I want to eventually end up with. Not even remotely. Before I can justify pursuing the kind of woman that I would want to marry and have my children, I want to become closer to God myself. I'm not going to be perfect by any means, but I can be better. I've told her all of this, but she keeps arguing that we could help each other with that blah blah blah.
I don't know what to do guys. In a way I WANT to give us a chance, but I'm not happy with the kind of man that I am right now. There's also the fact that she would have an extremely hard time getting pregnant if we did end up getting married and I dearly want children of my own someday, not someone else's kids. And the one thing that I will never tell her no matter what is that while I think she has a cute face and I like her as a person, I'm rather turned off by her overweight figure. There's no good way to tell that to a woman. What makes this whole thing worse is that for her the sex was never no strings attached like I thought it was at first. She's fallen for me, and by her own admission, sex from day one was an attempt to keep me around.
Speaking of sex, we did ultimately end up having sex again last night without protection. My test results came back negative, and so I have whatever it was put down to a random occurrence. Worst case scenario I have to go back to the family planning clinic, suffer a little embarrassment for knowingly making that mistake again, and get another round of antibiotics.
I feel like a colossal asshole. I could have said no. I told her I should have said no in light of how horrible she felt afterward but she said "I would have insisted or tried to guilt trip you into it anyway" which makes me feel only marginally better because I still had the ability to walk away, and I should have since alcohol was involved. She texted me today and said she feels like someone put her through a shredder. I feel horrible for letting my selfishness take over when I knew she would probably hate herself in the morning when all was said and done.
What the fuck am I supposed to do guys? From the beginning she fell for me and from the beginning the sex wasn't NSA for her. If I had known, I'd have steered clear for sure. Her figure could be worked on but the inability to easily get pregnant is a huge deal breaker for me. And then there's me. I cannot justify pursuing the kind of woman I want to be with until I get my own life in order and so I content myself with chasing strangers for one night stands or fwb. I cannot think of any way to let her down easy. I never ever saw her as relationship material, but she just walked in my store a few times as a customer and over the course of those visits began to fall hard for me. I never asked for that. I see her as a friend, nothing more.
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Oh man. It sounds like you care about her; that you're stuck in this place where you personally don't want a relationship with her, and also you don't want to hurt her. That's perfectly understandable; nobody wants to hurt another person. And, sex naturally brings people emotionally closer.
If you don't want a relationship with her, then don't do it. She's going to be hurt, you can't avoid that. You can tell her your concerns, though, like you can't think of an easy way to put it, that you really don't want to hurt her, and that you don't want a relationship with her.
If you don't want a relationship with her, then don't do it. She's going to be hurt, you can't avoid that. You can tell her your concerns, though, like you can't think of an easy way to put it, that you really don't want to hurt her, and that you don't want a relationship with her.
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Okay, first...you've had one scare already. The worst case scenario is not another round of antibiotics. Not by a long shot. If there's even a remote chance, bring protection and use it!
Now...If that's how you feel, and you're sure, then that's that. But if she's looking for more than just a meaningless fling, and has admitted that, then you're not only prolonging the inevitable, but increasing her pain by continuing. And that is a bit selfish.
Likely, she wanted some alone, non-sexual time with you. Then alcohol, open feelings, and confirmation through acceptance of sex.
If you've been up front, and told her you don't want anything like a relationship, and she does, then you have a conflict of interest. She won't back down. You must, for both of your own good.
I hear you have doubt, and she's using sex as a lure. Not a good combo.
Be as compassionate, but direct, as you can. There may be no easy way, but you can soften the blow.
Now...If that's how you feel, and you're sure, then that's that. But if she's looking for more than just a meaningless fling, and has admitted that, then you're not only prolonging the inevitable, but increasing her pain by continuing. And that is a bit selfish.
Likely, she wanted some alone, non-sexual time with you. Then alcohol, open feelings, and confirmation through acceptance of sex.
If you've been up front, and told her you don't want anything like a relationship, and she does, then you have a conflict of interest. She won't back down. You must, for both of your own good.
I hear you have doubt, and she's using sex as a lure. Not a good combo.
Be as compassionate, but direct, as you can. There may be no easy way, but you can soften the blow.
You're right. She knows I don't think of her in that way but I want to remain friends. Maybe I should distance myself from her. Thing is she suffers from severe separation anxiety. If she gets too close to someone emotionally and then has to be apart from them she has panic attacks. There's no easy way out of this.
