My current realtionship issues

[Pegasus]

Um if she wanted you she wouldn't have married this other guy .
If she wanted you she wouldn't be telling storries of supersized hubby.
Headgames don't show respect.

 

[SirGainzalot]

its ok i dont expect you to understand. and i kinda asked out of my insecurities. she isnt playing headgames and if you read previous posts youd understand why she did what she did.

 

[Toadstool]

so what are you going to do about your insecurities?

 

[SirGainzalot]

im not sure man. i think once i get over the fact that shes been with another guy who is bigger than me. ill just enjoying the here and now with her and it wont matter as much im guessing. i dont think she is a size queen. afterall she will revert back to normal and i have trained her with jade eggs before. so that will help shes currently abstaining from sex from her husband anyway because she loves me still. so that all helps. im convinced that when were together i probably wont give a ****. its just that stuff like that has bugged me as i was teased at school about it. late bloomer and all. i love her to death guys if it takes a few years to get together so we can be together for decades after im prepared to do so.

 

[CptnD]

By the way, if she is the one who continues to talk about it (and you never bring it up) than there is a larger issue and you may want to find another woman.

If she is willing to be with you when she is married, you have to consider the fact that she would think about doing that with someone else behind your back. Not the way to get a woman man. Just my two cents and experience from dating/hooking up with girls that had boyfriends or engaged.

 

[burtybasset]

Your faith and strength are admirable, I wouldn't worry about your lady's other partners, as others have said your above average and there are millions if not billions of women who smile all day long because of their average or less than average partners.

The best of luck to you, I hope you find happiness!

 

[akaTrex]

#1 Rule in a relationship: NEVER ask about size! Not about her past lovers, not about your own...EVER!! When you ask it clearly demonstrates a lack of confidence, and that can kill her attraction to you. Women generally don't like men who lack confidence.

SJ, you are right on point. WTF is with people asking about their gals former lovers?


Confidence is HUGE. Get your Mind and Body into shape and you will be a much bigger Turn On to your Gal. Period!


I'm sure my Bride has had bigger but who the Hell cares. She has complemented my on my love making, my confidence and my body. I take pride in my appearance and stay in great shape for me and my Bride. It has payed huge dividends.


If you believe Great Sex is due to the Size of your Tool.......Then your just a Tool! IMHO!

 

[Pegasus]

its ok i dont expect you to understand. and i kinda asked out of my insecurities. she isnt playing headgames and if you read previous posts youd understand why she did what she did.

I read all previous posst before I posted and stand by what I said.

 

[SirGainzalot]

I read all previous posst before I posted and stand by what I said.

then you misunderstand the situation its that simple there wasnt a choice to marry me when you need to have 6 months worth of money in the bank to show you can support yourself in england before having a marriage visa liscence. if your nationality is outside the eu. and i was a student at the time so i couldnt bank transfer any funds. the only option to have was to marry someone else to keep being in the country. its a very sad and awkward situation. but now im close to finishing being a student ill be able to work full time and be able to support this aswell as myself.

 

[SirGainzalot]

Your faith and strength are admirable, I wouldn't worry about your lady's other partners, as others have said your above average and there are millions if not billions of women who smile all day long because of their average or less than average partners.

The best of luck to you, I hope you find happiness!

thank you i really want to do right by her

 

[SirGainzalot]

SJ, you are right on point. WTF is with people asking about their gals former lovers?


Confidence is HUGE. Get your Mind and Body into shape and you will be a much bigger Turn On to your Gal. Period!


I'm sure my Bride has had bigger but who the Hell cares. She has complemented my on my love making, my confidence and my body. I take pride in my appearance and stay in great shape for me and my Bride. It has payed huge dividends.


If you believe Great Sex is due to the Size of your Tool.......Then your just a Tool! IMHO!

yeh i plan to go to the gym when i have the funds dont get me wrong i am a good lover ive had many partners and mostly no complaints. im slwoly letting go of the idea about a bigger schlong equals more pleasure.

 

[SirGainzalot]

If she is willing to be with you when she is married, you have to consider the fact that she would think about doing that with someone else behind your back. Not the way to get a woman man. Just my two cents and experience from dating/hooking up with girls that had boyfriends or engaged.

in our eyes we only ever belonged to each other.

 

[Sean Jacobs]

yeh i plan to go to the gym when i have the funds dont get me wrong i am a good lover ive had many partners and mostly no complaints. im slwoly letting go of the idea about a bigger schlong equals more pleasure.

You don't need to wait for money to pay for a gym. Look up body weight exercises on the internet. I was an avid weight trainer from age 16 to age 42. Then I switched to body weight training (got sick of injuries) and I have had greater success then ever before. You can start working out today if you do a little research on line. Throw in some HIIT cardio (running, jumping rope, even running in place), and a great eating plan (which you can also find on line for free - I personally follow a primal/paleo plan). Trust me, you don't have to spend a cent.

 

[SirGainzalot]

You don't need to wait for money to pay for a gym. Look up body weight exercises on the internet. I was an avid weight trainer from age 16 to age 42. Then I switched to body weight training (got sick of injuries) and I have had greater success then ever before. You can start working out today if you do a little research on line. Throw in some HIIT cardio (running, jumping rope, even running in place), and a great eating plan (which you can also find on line for free - I personally follow a primal/paleo plan). Trust me, you don't have to spend a cent.

i need a personal trainer because i have weak hips, knees and alot of other things due to being stagnant. i will be alright after a few private sessions. plus i have a limited diet because my body rejects alot of foods. im a complicated guy lol.