Girlfriends comments (woman's perspective wanted!)

[Bam]

Today in bed my girlfriend grabbed my dick and playfully acted like she was going to yank it very hard (as in an attempt to hurt me)..

Me- "Careful, you'll rip it off!"

Her- "yeah, and it'll grow back!...like a lizards tail, except it'll come back bigger and larger"

So naturally I immediately thought to myself, oh she wants my dick to be "bigger and larger".. So I responded with that.

Me- "So you want it to be bigger and larger?"

Her- "No! I never said that, I don't think I could fit anything bigger.."

Now we've been together almost 5 months and have an INCREDIBLE sex life, she always tells me I'm the best she's ever had and I know she means it, but she has only commented on my size a HANDFUL of times, like 3-5 times tops. She's told me I have a big dick, made comments of "look at that long big dick"... Etc. but again, it's MAYBE once a month she comments on it... My stats aren't that big.. BPEL 7.5 x MSEG 5

So me being my normal self, I read into everything... So now I'm wondering to myself if she really wants me to be bigger? Since she commented that it would grow back bigger and larger? Is that her subconscious speaking? Or am I reading too much into the situation and was she really only playing around? Why would she have said that (even playfully) if that not what she actually fantasizes about?

Opinions are graciously welcomed, especially from a woman.

Thanks!

 

[namsokiek]

Could it be that when a lizards tail grows back that it is bigger and that she is merely kidding around with this comparison?

Your description sounds like your most likely source of her dissatisfaction with you would be a result of your hyper-sensitivity about your penis (and the visible insecurities resulting from it) than about your size.

Believe her when she tells you that you have great sex and leave it at that.

 

[IWANTA12INCHDIK]

funny how she was redundant, and said "bigger and larger."
she emphasized what she subconsciously wanted, and then tried to retract upon her initial desires after you asked.
ofcourse she'll never admit it.
i work with all females, and they talk about dick size at least twice a week.
they asked to see my dick again today. i keep delaying in showing because that'll ruin the suspense.
all females secretly want a big dick.
like i said, she's not gonna admit it, but maybe you could ask her friends about her comments on your dick, because she's definately discussed it with them.

 

[mcpecker]

Where the hell do you work?

OP is way above average and should learn to not be so sensitive. She meant just what she said and nothing else; just playful banter. Ever said anything without thinking only to wish you hadn't said anything at all? We're human.

 

[kickinthemebs]

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[Pegasus]

Actually 3 to 5 times is a lot to say you have a big dick be happy.

 

[TPW]

Hiya Bam,

Your girl meant nothing malicious nor was there any "subconscious" desire being expressed in her rather innocent remark. She was attempting to be humourous not insulting; clearly she failed.

Please understand that men are far more concerned (obsessed?) regarding penis size than women could ever be. How could we; we don't have one remember?

Your current stats put you in the above average range, so she is being truthful when she tells you that you have an impressive package and that she doesn't want it any bigger.

My advice? Let it go.

 

[Sean Jacobs]

I agree it was just playful banter and you shouldn't read to much into it.

 

[BigO]

I think she likes your dong.

 

[Bam]

My girlfriends comments (perspective wanted!)

My girlfriends comments (perspective wanted!)

Well thanks guys, and gals, like I stated, I knew I was reading into it, but it's also nice to hear others opinions. I knew she was being playful, but obviously being a guy that is an active member in the PE community, I have a morphed view of my penis.

Like said we have a an incredible sex life and an incredible relationship, I know she means it when she says it's the best sex she's had, but I was just curious if there was any insight into her deeper thoughts on my size.

thanks again!

 

[Koh]

You sound delusional. Actually look at a ruler and mark off 7.5 inches, it's pretty damn long.

 

[OnMyWayThere]

This is a relevant thread that you may find interesting. Got a lot of good discussion:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/71452-got-7-75-still-no-comments-ladies.html

 

[Frog]

If we women are supposed to take everything a man says at face value, then the same is true with you. Your size is more than enough and your girlfriend was only being playful.

There is no doubt in my mind, with your length you must control your thrusting intensity in certain positions to avoid the possibility of hurting your girlfriend by going to deep.

Self sabotage is a learned response we can change about ourselves. Been there!:hug:

 

[NCGUY1972]

she is just kidding and having fun. My wife doesnt comment much either maybe once every few months and probrably just for me because I think she could care less as long as its there and it functions.

 

[Mrs. workin_4_it]

i work with all females, and they talk about dick size at least twice a week.

all females secretly want a big dick.
like i said, she's not gonna admit it, but maybe you could ask her friends about her comments on your dick, because she's definately discussed it with them.

I'm sorry, but as a real woman that doesn't lie, I can tell you that in most cases that is not true. You can do so many more things with an "average or smaller" dick then you can with a "bigger" one.

It doesn't help the situation when men exaggerate their size.

 

[islander]

Fishing
Anyway... IMO Guys with big dicks don't need to hear it. I have big breasts I don't need to hear it.

 

[BigO]

emmersun biggins,

 

[Nachos87]

She probably said it because lizard's tail gets larger after it grows back.
I'm an expert at saying things that can be misinterpreted so I believe this might be such unintentional thing.

 

[islander]

emmersun biggins,

knock knock
who's there
emmersom
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emmersom big tits!

 

[bozocore56]

dude 7.5 bp is awesome stat stop being insecure lol