Generally yes. Most of the women I was with if we were together long enough were into the hair pulling and some hip hop vocabulary. Things like "f--- me", or "you like that?" or "how my dick feels?" Stuff like that. The wife likes that stuff and likes me to incorporate some biting of the back. I had an ex that wanted to go further. She wanted me to call her my little whore or slut. After a few drinks she would ask me to treat her like a hooker. I have to admit it was a little awkward but after a few drinks I could get aggressive and she never complained. Guess it was ok by her standards too.