deathgrip solves prematute ejaculation?

[bardok202]

So i've been reading around and it looks as if people have come to the consensus that death grip solves premature ejaculation. Im not sure how hard is considered deathgrip or how long to masturbate. Is this the right route to go down, because I am more than willing to do this to get rid of my premature ejaculation.

 

[Vifa]

ive been using the death grip for about a week now along with a reverse kegel routine and i gotta say that im seeing improvements in sex. The thing is not use death grip to the point that can cause you DE or you can not enjoy sex. Give it a try be confident and stop worrying about the problem, in a few months you are gonna look back and just laugh about this.


Good luck!

 

[Pegasus]

Deathgrip should still be regarded as experimental.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Yes. Death grip should be used as a last resort but I def do believe everyone should tighten up their grip a little just as a general rule and to stop touching their penis in a soft, gentle and sensual way because I believe that is one of the causes of hypersensitivity and involuntary kegel spasms. You also want to edge without lube sometimes and balloon your sweet spots.
Also NEVER masturbate to porn AND while sitting down(especially in a hard surface/chair). It puts pressure on your prostate and trains u to ejac quick. Always lay down flat or stand up or on your knees.

 

[Vifa]

You are right Pegasus I believe that only people who can have sex frequently should use death grip, in that way we can see if is causing damage or good.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Death grip can be PART of the cure with some people. It all depends on your body and EQ also. Curing prem ejac is a combination of many different things.

 

[relos]

It does but you won't be as hard or aroused during reguler intercourse as a result.

 

[Pegasus]

I like Jm;s reply in post 6.
Rerlos can you expand your answer in post 7, this has allways been an area of concern . Jm has contended it is a matter of training balance.

 

[TheIrishCurse]

I know it's silly, but maybe "death grip" isn't the right word. Because the biggest question I see is "What is it /How hard should I grip" stuff.

Seems to me there is logic in the pathway, but those who know of it could advance the experiment with a more nuanced description.

 

[relos]

Maybe my reply is only relevant to the general public and not people with a conditioned penis or very healthy erection quality?

When you fuck around with your own dick or watch porn you become desensitized to real women and your brain becomes trained to erotisize masturbation and porn. The ways in which this fucks up your life are uncountable.

When I was a kid I actually remember having wet dreams about WATCHING porn instead of fucking real women, lol. This has more to do with game theory and relationships than P/E though, i'm not an expert on p/e.

Google your brain on porn. Masturbating to a fantasy in your mind is just as bad. Had a very good link to give summing it up, can't fuckin find it with google anymore ) =

Even if you're able to have quality erections with real women after porn/masturbation, I still have concerns with it that I could elaborate on/ dig up evidence if anyone's interested.

For me, the reason I don't fuck around with my dick anymore is because I want to be able to get horny by looking at real women I see during the day, on dates, in bars, exc. I need something to motivate me to approach women. Also through the law of state transference, being horny on a date will make your date/gf/wife horny as well. The post I was going to link explained how it can porn/fapping de-sexualizes marriage. Do you think a wife wants to be duty fucked, or does she want a husband to be authentically aroused by her, and very much so? Ever read 50 shades of grey?

I can get raging hardons looking at very mediocre girls now. When I get horny, I think about fucking a GF or going to a bar/club and trying to find a new girl to fuck instead of watching porn. Masturbation is no longer a part of my life. Maybe a good thing, maybe not lol cuz i've slept with a few suspect girls.... 3+ months no fapping/porn for me.

 

[relos]

Something im personally curious about is if you can masturbate without visualizing anything erotic and instead focus on the feeling..If that can keep you from becoming psycologically de-sensitized by make you physically de-sensitized?

It's probably bad either way because when you get horny instead of putting serious effort into getting a GF your thoughts will turn towards masturbation.

 

[Pursuit]

Maybe my reply is only relevant to the general public and not people with a conditioned penis or very healthy erection quality?

When you fuck around with your own dick or watch porn you become desensitized to real women and your brain becomes trained to erotisize masturbation and porn. The ways in which this fucks up your life are uncountable.

When I was a kid I actually remember having wet dreams about WATCHING porn instead of fucking real women, lol. This has more to do with game theory and relationships than P/E though, i'm not an expert on p/e.

Google your brain on porn. Masturbating to a fantasy in your mind is just as bad. Had a very good link to give summing it up, can't fuckin find it with google anymore ) =

Even if you're able to have quality erections with real women after porn/masturbation, I still have concerns with it that I could elaborate on/ dig up evidence if anyone's interested.

For me, the reason I don't fuck around with my dick anymore is because I want to be able to get horny by looking at real women I see during the day, on dates, in bars, exc. I need something to motivate me to approach women. Also through the law of state transference, being horny on a date will make your date/gf/wife horny as well. The post I was going to link explained how it can porn/fapping de-sexualizes marriage. Do you think a wife wants to be duty fucked, or does she want a husband to be authentically aroused by her, and very much so? Ever read 50 shades of grey?

I can get raging hardons looking at very mediocre girls now. When I get horny, I think about fucking a GF or going to a bar/club and trying to find a new girl to fuck instead of watching porn. Masturbation is no longer a part of my life. Maybe a good thing, maybe not lol cuz i've slept with a few suspect girls.... 3+ months no fapping/porn for me.

I used to watch porn and get aroused by any moderate looking woman that dresses in a sexy way or even to a hot perfume! The desensitization after porn can be true if the picture of porn attaches to your brain and never leaves it, that could be due to limited types of movies you look at.

 

[kevron]

Death grip will definitely work but then it will be hard to feel anything cause youll be used to a hard grip.

 

[Chungungo]

Yes. Death grip should be used as a last resort but I def do believe everyone should tighten up their grip a little just as a general rule and to stop touching their penis in a soft, gentle and sensual way because I believe that is one of the causes of hypersensitivity and involuntary kegel spasms. You also want to edge without lube sometimes and balloon your sweet spots.
Also NEVER masturbate to porn AND while sitting down(especially in a hard surface/chair). It puts pressure on your prostate and trains u to ejac quick. Always lay down flat or stand up or on your knees.

This is gold, I always masturbate in front of my computer but not always watching porn...and well in my last encounter with a pretty milf I came in the oral, then in the second round I came just behind her...

 

[xTwisteDx]

I've been trying this, FL STU edging for a week, then edging with death grip, gonna go back to STU after a couple weeks and see if I can last longer.

 

[Minuteman]

There are different reasons to what can cause premature ejaculation. Sometimes is indeed the sensitivity, other time the sensitivity is simply a by product of something else. Before attempting deathgrip as the long term fix one should try and edge for a longer time and actually try and notice what exactly is causing premature ejaculation. It might not be the shortest way but it can be both the safest and in the long term view the most efficient if not the most effective one.

I am not saying that deathgrip should be the last solution but it should indeed be the most thought trough solution.

 

[xTwisteDx]

Really frustrating to deal with PE, so a lot of people might go straight to death grip. I've been lasting longer while using death grip vs FL, but then again deathgrip has been dry and FL is with a lot of lube.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Really frustrating to deal with PE, so a lot of people might go straight to death grip. I've been lasting longer while using death grip vs FL, but then again deathgrip has been dry and FL is with a lot of lube.

Im just guessing here(cuz ive never used a fleshlight), but i think its because I consider The Fleshlight a sensual, soft, erotic stimulation(especially with lube). I believe THAT kind of stimulation is what causes involuntary kegel spasms and hypersensitivity. Thats why i suggest dry deathgrip and dry ballooning of most sensitive spots on the penis. Also read my post on "what is your sweet spot?".

 

[adios01]

So watching porn and masturbating is definitely a nono??? It seems to get my arousal remain at high even throughout my daily life but i just wasnt sure if that was the cause

 

[JamesMonroe]

So watching porn and masturbating is definitely a nono??? It seems to get my arousal remain at high even throughout my daily life but i just wasnt sure if that was the cause

Watching porn while masturbating is a HUGE no no and is prob the biggest cause of prem ejac for most people on this site.