When your GF (perhaps unintentionally) kicks your ego...

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So my girl has got some experience...and when I mean experience I mean like god knows how many dicks she's had in her life time. She told me 9 when we first met, then it was 24 when I called her out on it, Something tells me that is an underestimate by alot too. She has a crazy sex drive, hot as hell, and charming so it's kind of a no brainer thats she's been around...alot probably.

I know she's a fan of big dicks, she's let a few things slip out around me which made it pretty obvious what her preference was. She also tells me she likes Rough cervix hitting sex, so immediately it's like OK I get it you need me deep inside you I hope I'm enough.

My Best EQ leaves me at 7.8 BPx5.8EG and I feel like I'm not enough for her. She started talking about using a vibrator during sex with me recently, which is always a weird ego hit. I know the last guy she used a vibrator with had his magnum condoms slipping off when he had sex with her. I think the vibrator was something to make the sex with him more tolerable...

She never talked about using a vibrator with the last guy she was fucking. I already know this dude is mad hung according to her, and the guy was so good at fucking that he was cheating on her and she STILL stuck around just for the sex. She knew after 1 month and she stuck with him for 5 MONTHS, and I know she never even thought of using a vibrator with him. He "made her feel like a virgin" and "had the best sex of her life" with the guy. I mean sh*t must have been to stick around through that BS.

She asked me one day if other girls complemented me on my dick size. To be honest she's the only one that never said anything about my size. Don't get me wrong I think I'm big but not HUGE, but every girl has said something acknowledging the size. When I told her that every girl before her said something she kind of laughed and went "oh freaking white girls" (I'm from the burbs, she's latina from the city).

That was a pretty huge ego hit for me, and just made me very self concious about my size and general performance...We just started having great sex, she'll squirt buckets from the right position (didn't happen till recently when my EQ got back to 100%) and get loud as hell when she get's a chance to catch her breath. But It's so hard to tell if she's actually satisfied or if she's just getting by with me.

I don't know how to ask her if she's legitimately enjoying it without seeming like a self concious pussy, the last thing I want to do is turn her off psychologically by thinking I'm needy for attention for my johnny. I've brushed over the topic lightly, like asking "well what were some things you really liked in other guys, was there something your last guy did especially well?", but she would just say "(her ex) Only had sex to offer so of course he had to be good at it, it was literally the only thing he had going for him, he was also just in really good shape too". So ya...not much of an answer but a start, I feel like it was a nice way to say.

"You'll never have the skills he had in bed unless you somehow grow his dick" LOL

The bar is set high...I really want to know how she feels about our sex life, but without sounding too self concious about it. She's one of those people that even if you ask her to be dead honest she'll lie to save giving you a truth that you may not like, which makes it impossible to improve in any department.

Any idea's on how to approach that, trying to get an honest answer out of her.

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She prob sounds like the biggest cunt ever...wait ya she totally is sometimes hahaha.
 

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Boy this sounds like a great relationship. I'll go get some breakfast.
 

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You have to let go of her past and enjoy what you have with her now. Ya' and if you figure out how to do that, please let me know.
 

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So my girl has got some experience...and when I mean experience I mean like god knows how many dicks she's had in her life time. She told me 9 when we first met, then it was 24 when I called her out on it, Something tells me that is an underestimate by alot too. She has a crazy sex drive, hot as hell, and charming so it's kind of a no brainer thats she's been around...alot probably.

I know she's a fan of big dicks, she's let a few things slip out around me which made it pretty obvious what her preference was. She also tells me she likes Rough cervix hitting sex, so immediately it's like OK I get it you need me deep inside you I hope I'm enough.

My Best EQ leaves me at 7.8 BPx5.8EG and I feel like I'm not enough for her. She started talking about using a vibrator during sex with me recently, which is always a weird ego hit. I know the last guy she used a vibrator with had his magnum condoms slipping off when he had sex with her. I think the vibrator was something to make the sex with him more tolerable...

She never talked about using a vibrator with the last guy she was fucking. I already know this dude is mad hung according to her, and the guy was so good at fucking that he was cheating on her and she STILL stuck around just for the sex. She knew after 1 month and she stuck with him for 5 MONTHS, and I know she never even thought of using a vibrator with him. He "made her feel like a virgin" and "had the best sex of her life" with the guy. I mean sh*t must have been to stick around through that BS.

She might just be a freak. Maybe one is not supposed to make her his woman.

She asked me one day if other girls complemented me on my dick size. To be honest she's the only one that never said anything about my size. Don't get me wrong I think I'm big but not HUGE, but every girl has said something acknowledging the size. When I told her that every girl before her said something she kind of laughed and went "oh freaking white girls" (I'm from the burbs, she's latina from the city).

It was a straight and direct ego shot. She probably knows all about it. This is how someone gains an "inch" on you by controlling your mind. This is an easy ego hit on 95% of men.

That was a pretty huge ego hit for me, and just made me very self concious about my size and general performance...We just started having great sex, she'll squirt buckets from the right position (didn't happen till recently when my EQ got back to 100%) and get loud as hell when she get's a chance to catch her breath. But It's so hard to tell if she's actually satisfied or if she's just getting by with me.

I don't know how to ask her if she's legitimately enjoying it without seeming like a self concious pussy, the last thing I want to do is turn her off psychologically by thinking I'm needy for attention for my johnny. I've brushed over the topic lightly, like asking "well what were some things you really liked in other guys, was there something your last guy did especially well?", but she would just say "(her ex) Only had sex to offer so of course he had to be good at it, it was literally the only thing he had going for him, he was also just in really good shape too". So ya...not much of an answer but a start, I feel like it was a nice way to say.

You might just need to fuck her and not care about her. Due to her conversation, I mean her conversation would strip any man down. This kind of woman will diminish your own confidence. I would not give her the pleasure.

"You'll never have the skills he had in bed unless you somehow grow his dick" LOL

The bar is set high...I really want to know how she feels about our sex life, but without sounding too self concious about it. She's one of those people that even if you ask her to be dead honest she'll lie to save giving you a truth that you may not like, which makes it impossible to improve in any department.

I wouldn't be asking about the other guy. She's taking stabs into your ego, and it's no accident. She needs to be cheated on, I'd cheat on her with someon who digs you more. If you want to keep her around use her for PE motivation.

Any idea's on how to approach that, trying to get an honest answer out of her.

P,S,

She prob sounds like the biggest cunt ever...wait ya she totally is sometimes hahaha.

Yes, sometimes they are. Tell the truth to yourself and accept it. Don't let this one get you down!
 

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Lol don't worry bro already am cheating on her with a girl that actually loves my dick. Trust me I know it's a sh*t relationship, it's coming to it's tail end.
 

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Im going to put this on every thread related to this topic.

NEVER GO INTO PAST SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR PARTNER! EVER!!!!!! NOT EVEN IF THERES A FIRE!

Tell her you dont want to hear that sh*t.
 

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But it got me doing P.E! So...blessing in disguise.
 

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bro , like you said , you got another girl in ur life , if shes super hot ,keep her around as a fck buddy . dont wrry bout ur dick
 

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If she fucks that many people aren't you worried about catching something?
 

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I'm a really morally straight kind of guy, but after reading this, it sounds like she's pretty similar to her ex; the relationship is only worth it for the sex. I wouldn't worry about pleasing her too terribly. Just get yours, and when she goes slut-mode again, just move on and find a real relationship. No offense to any of the guys here, but people who have had 24+ other sexual partners recently, and still talk about them, don't make great choices for lifetime companions. If she had tried to humble herself, been upfront with you about how many people she's been with, and not held it over your head, I wouldn't judge her for her past. However, as she is still living in her past and bringing it up, it's safe to say it's not quite a dead phase yet.
 

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Hmmm. You cheating on her. Her being a slut on a hunt for big dicks. Both of you discussing dick sizes. Sounds like a great short-term casual-sex (and pretty shallow) relationship. Why worry then?
 

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OP is bigger than 99% of guys and is still self conscious. Wow.
 

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I'm not sure if anyone mentioned this, but if a magnum condom is slipping off, you're rolling with a slimmer than average member. Those things have such a restrictive base circumference it's insane. The magnum XL base is something like 54mm, that's comfortable for the 4.8" range I think.

Also, if your significant other is putting you down in any way (this includes sexually!) then cusp is right. That's one hell of a rotten relationship. Abandon ship, dude.
 

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Lol don't worry bro already am cheating on her with a girl that actually loves my dick. Trust me I know it's a sh*t relationship, it's coming to it's tail end.

Blooming end it then!?@
 

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Lol don't worry bro already am cheating on her with a girl that actually loves my dick. Trust me I know it's a sh*t relationship, it's coming to it's tail end.

Good sh*t, keep this latina chick around for the sex. That is what i would do.
 

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You have a 7.8 inch dick and you are complaining? You are either a troll or a retard... dude, I would kill to have a dick of your length, so stop complaining and dump that bitch, she is obviously a slut who is not worth your love.
 

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I screwed around with a chick like that one time. I never went past the 2 and done phase (2 sexual encounters), because she was such a pretentious b****. Come to find out after we stop screwing around, she was telling everyone that "I was the biggest she'd had", though when we were talking and getting ready to screw she would tell me that I was "in fourth place" (7.2" consistent bone press length, 5.0" exact consistent girth). Some women just like to get under peoples skin and lie their heads off.
 

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oh boy ! she makes you feel bad by her comments. I would never hang around with a person who makes me feel bad with her comments. Good luck !