Perceived Size... the root of all rumors

[Batwoman]

Frankly I think that most women are not just bad at estimating size, but that they really don't care.
GUYS care about penis size -- most ladies don't. Sex for us is much much more about how we feel about a man, and how much attention he pays to pleasing us sexually. Penis size is very nearly irrelevant to how good sex is for a woman. All the "talk" about penis size by women is just for fun (for the women) and most women have no idea that men take it so seriously.

 

[CLOSEDDennyA]

Frankly I think that most women are not just bad at estimating size, but that they really don't care.
GUYS care about penis size -- most ladies don't. Sex for us is much much more about how we feel about a man, and how much attention he pays to pleasing us sexually. Penis size is very nearly irrelevant to how good sex is for a woman. All the "talk" about penis size by women is just for fun (for the women) and most women have no idea that men take it so seriously.

So, reading between the lines, penis size IS very important! I'm just kidding .

 

[disasters]

Frankly I think that most women are not just bad at estimating size, but that they really don't care.
GUYS care about penis size -- most ladies don't. Sex for us is much much more about how we feel about a man, and how much attention he pays to pleasing us sexually. Penis size is very nearly irrelevant to how good sex is for a woman. All the "talk" about penis size by women is just for fun (for the women) and most women have no idea that men take it so seriously.

I don't like to disagree with a respected user, but my experience contradicts this. I think the difference is that most women DO care about penis size for great sex, but DON'T care about great sex in the context of a whole relationship. My ex used to be content having mediocre sex with me because we had a good relationship (I had problems getting hard). But before me she was casually sleeping with a really well endowed guy and got her orgasms from him. And yeah she carried on cheating on me with him through the relationship. For her orgasms a big penis was more effective than intimacy with someone who cared about her.

 

[Frog]

I don't like to disagree with a respected user, but my experience contradicts this. I think the difference is that most women DO care about penis size for great sex, but DON'T care about great sex in the context of a whole relationship. My ex used to be content having mediocre sex with me because we had a good relationship (I had problems getting hard). But before me she was casually sleeping with a really well endowed guy and got her orgasms from him. And yeah she carried on cheating on me with him through the relationship. For her orgasms a big penis was more effective than intimacy with someone who cared about her.

Oooouch!

We are all not like that.
I hope your scares are healing from the pain she inflicted on you.:grouphug:

 

[Boosie]

I don't like to disagree with a respected user, but my experience contradicts this. I think the difference is that most women DO care about penis size for great sex, but DON'T care about great sex in the context of a whole relationship. My ex used to be content having mediocre sex with me because we had a good relationship (I had problems getting hard). But before me she was casually sleeping with a really well endowed guy and got her orgasms from him. And yeah she carried on cheating on me with him through the relationship. For her orgasms a big penis was more effective than intimacy with someone who cared about her.

ouch... damn that would leave me so devasted...

I agree with you tho.

 

[Frog]

Lets play devils advocate for a minute.

With all things being equal.

Woman A great personality sexy smart same hobbies as you same sex drive as you lives near you has money single beautiful Has the most perfect vagina shaped perfect for your cock.

Woman B great personality sexy smart same hobbies as you same sex drive as you lives near you has money single beautiful Vagina is a little big, you wish it was tighter for more sensation.

Would you leave a woman for last reason? I would assume no. Reverse that to penis size.....Your ex didn't cheat because of your penis size. She is evil! She is either not the marring type, used you for money/support, you got her pregnant or it was an arranged marriage. Or something you were doing or not doing....

I don't know. What I do know, is it had nothing to do with your penis size! Just like a man cheating because of vagina size! It takes more than one issue to be a deal breaker and even then cheating is not an acceptable option.

IMHO I think men find it easier to blame a physical self perceived fault rather than a mental or emotional fault. Men need to do a better job as whole being more emotionally supportive etc. and women need to do a better job being physically supportive, but it all comes down to COMMUNICATION!!!!!

 

[camaro]

I believe penis size matters to varying degrees.To some, less enough to not merit thought.A major obsession to others.No one can say " It matters " or " It does not ".I do believe however, having the right tool makes things a lot easier than making do.

IMO if she bothered to notice the size, there was not enough emotional connection.

 

[Boosie]

Lets play devils advocate for a minute.

With all things being equal.

Woman A great personality sexy smart same hobbies as you same sex drive as you lives near you has money single beautiful Has the most perfect vagina shaped perfect for your cock.

Woman B great personality sexy smart same hobbies as you same sex drive as you lives near you has money single beautiful Vagina is a little big, you wish it was tighter for more sensation.

Would you leave a woman for last reason? I would assume no. Reverse that to penis size.....Your ex didn't cheat because of your penis size. She is evil! She is either not the marring type, used you for money/support, you got her pregnant or it was an arranged marriage. Or something you were doing on not doing....

I don't know. What I do know, is it had nothing to do with your penis size! Just like a man cheating because of vagina size! It takes more than one issue to be a deal breaker and even then cheating is not an acceptable option.

IMHO think men find it easier to blame a physical self perceived fault rather than a mental or emotional fault. Men need to do a better job as whole being more emotionally supportive etc. and women need to do a better job being physically supportive, but it all comes down to COMMUNICATION!!!!!

If the girl im with is an 8 and i like her ofcourse but not love her, I would totally cheat on her with a 10 if she was into me.


but then again if i loved the girl im with like i do now, nothing in the world would make he cheat on her.

 

[Frog]

If the girl im with is an 8 and i like her ofcourse but not love her, I would totally cheat on her with a 10 if she was into me.


but then again if i loved the girl im with like i do now, nothing in the world would make he cheat on her.

Exactly...that was my point...The ex-wife cheated for reasons unbeknownst to us. But I can say with almost absolute certainty, penis size was WAY down on her list of excuses, if even on it at all.

 

[Boosie]

Exactly...that was my point...The ex-wife cheated for reasons unbeknownst to us. But I can say with almost absolute certainty, penis size was WAY down on her list of excuses, if even on it at all.

Depends how you look at it, I know many ways that i can get with a girl by using my penis size. Those 2 mentioned in the story already had sex and she KNEW how big his dick was. He could of easily flirted with her by using his dick in different ways to get with her. So i mean the big dick could of contributed more then we know aswell.

 

[disasters]

Lets play devils advocate for a minute.

With all things being equal.

Woman A great personality sexy smart same hobbies as you same sex drive as you lives near you has money single beautiful Has the most perfect vagina shaped perfect for your cock.

Woman B great personality sexy smart same hobbies as you same sex drive as you lives near you has money single beautiful Vagina is a little big, you wish it was tighter for more sensation.

Would you leave a woman for last reason? I would assume no. Reverse that to penis size.....Your ex didn't cheat because of your penis size. She is evil! She is either not the marring type, used you for money/support, you got her pregnant or it was an arranged marriage. Or something you were doing or not doing....

I don't know. What I do know, is it had nothing to do with your penis size! Just like a man cheating because of vagina size! It takes more than one issue to be a deal breaker and even then cheating is not an acceptable option.

IMHO I think men find it easier to blame a physical self perceived fault rather than a mental or emotional fault. Men need to do a better job as whole being more emotionally supportive etc. and women need to do a better job being physically supportive, but it all comes down to COMMUNICATION!!!!!

This is an interesting post.
Do you really think that for women penis size is the equivalent to how men care about vagina tightness? If a man having a small penis is exactly the same as a woman having a loose vagina then I think my insecurity would be fixed lol. I was with a woman with a really unusually loose vagina and I couldn't care less lol it didn't really matter to the sex.

 

[Boosie]

This is an interesting post.
Do you really think that for women penis size is the equivalent to how men care about vagina tightness? If a man having a small penis is exactly the same as a woman having a loose vagina then I think my insecurity would be fixed lol. I was with a woman with a really unusually loose vagina and I couldn't care less lol it didn't really matter to the sex.

Yeah, I also forgot to mention this. Women care about a mans penis WAY more then we care about a womens tightness... were lucky to get any at all.

 

[TurtleProblems]

You nailed it, perception. 6 girth erect. 6.5-7 girth after pumping and clamping for an hour. In my own view, it still doesn"t seem big at all.

 

[Boosie]

You nailed it, perception. 6 girth erect. 6.5-7 girth after pumping and clamping for an hour. In my own view, it still doesn"t seem big at all.

7 girth and it seems small? lol

 

[bballer123]

I don't like to disagree with a respected user, but my experience contradicts this. I think the difference is that most women DO care about penis size for great sex, but DON'T care about great sex in the context of a whole relationship. My ex used to be content having mediocre sex with me because we had a good relationship (I had problems getting hard). But before me she was casually sleeping with a really well endowed guy and got her orgasms from him. And yeah she carried on cheating on me with him through the relationship. For her orgasms a big penis was more effective than intimacy with someone who cared about her.

Yea man , you g2 lay down the pipe game for girls to like you , sucks but thats the way it is . I remember when I got out of my first relationship and finally grew some balls and have sex with other girls and i realized that the girls that kept hittin me up were the girls that love the sex and the one who didn't were the ones that didn't

 

[bballer123]

Exactly...that was my point...The ex-wife cheated for reasons unbeknownst to us. But I can say with almost absolute certainty, penis size was WAY down on her list of excuses, if even on it at all.

Na , shes doing it because she misses the orgasm he gave her , Tight pussy or not we still ganna bust that nut so it don't really matter either way lol

 

[Frog]

You nailed it, perception. 6 girth erect. 6.5-7 girth after pumping and clamping for an hour. In my own view, it still doesn"t seem big at all.

:yikes: