Need Help Giving My Girl an O

[bballer123]

So I've with my girl for a year now , she was a virgin when we met and she is super tight and short (I can hit the back easily Im 7.3 BPEL). But she seems to have a insensitive vagina compared to the other girls ive been with .And she likes it hard and deep but problem is most of time i cum too fast because its so tight.

but ive manage to some days last long and i think i gave her orgasm a couple of times but she said she feels nothing... I've made her pass out 3 times and she said she felt nothing lol. Ive made her eyes watery and tear up a bunch.and once her face was all red and blushing and she said her face just felt numb and no O.


She also loves the position when i sit down and she sits on my dick and grind the head of my cock into the back of her pussy and she moans n grind so hard that my dick hurts but still no O(it usually hurts for the other girls ive been with )

Iv'e given other girls O before , but is she just insensitive or what?

 

[draggin]

Sex is great. All sex. If you get an "O" that is just bonus. Either for the man or woman. Stop worrying about it. Y'all are young. Just keep having fun and soon she'll have too many O's to count.

 

[vulcan]

I find that women orgasm the most when they are on top.

 

[snippan]

My girlfriend don't like to be on top because I come to deep in her

The only way she get orgasm is when I go down on her.

 

[not2big]

I can always get my wife to orgasm if I perform oral until she orgasms. I then move up into the missionary positionary so we can orgasm together.

 

[Islandboy916]

Have to remember some ladies like penetration for the O, some like clit stimulation instead. If she likes to be on top and grind then she maybe grinding her clit onto you as we'll as enjoying the penetration? You can try to mix things up with a few pillows under her hips (missionary) to tilt the angle of penetration and if you are curved in your shaft you can mix it up with shallow strokes to stimulate her g-spot that is a few inches inside then a deep thrust.

For the insensitive part and her being a virgin prior to you. Could always have an extended foreplay time and talk or have her tell you what she is feeling as this is a new part in her life. Just so she is not just doing the do cause that is what she thinks is expected of her, if she is still tight after a year together is she producing enough self lube from the moment? My lady gets numb after awhile, the crazy side benefits of PE haha.

Physical stimulation is one side of a women, maybe it's time to work on the emotional stimulation side of a women to explore. Every women is different or has a different combination of things that will lead to the O, that's the fun part of the journey. Have fun with it...

 

[Mr. Stang]

^ Everything Islandboy said. A few other ideas:
Putting both her legs on your shoulders and piledriving her
spooning postion while rubbing her clit
Get atleast 3-4 different positions in
Variation of stroke, speed, and depth

 

[bballer123]

^ Everything Islandboy said. A few other ideas:
Putting both her legs on your shoulders and piledriving her
spooning postion while rubbing her clit
Get atleast 3-4 different positions in
Variation of stroke, speed, and depth

So I didn't read this post til now (after i had sex with her) and i did exacly that lol , what a coincidence, and she almost came. first time i've heard her moan so much . Some reason my dick is feelin really sensitive after i did some heavy jelqing the other day so i came too quick. But ganna get the hang of it next time

 

[DaddyDick]

I find that women orgasm the most when they are on top.

My woman orgasms most when I am performing oral on her or playing with her with a vibrator.

If she does not orgasm with strokes you may need to grind it--put your fat-pad on her clit and gently grind. My gal loves this--i don't know about other gals because she is the first that I had to do it with.

 

[averagedick]

Forget about your cock giving her an orgasm most women cant come this way. Focus on the clitoris with your fingers or your tongue before sex also has she ever made herself come before? If the answer is no chances are if she hasnt its going to he very hard for you to when the woman learns herself, its easier once she knows how. Most girls dont cone from penetration and only a lucky few can. A woman wont ever come with your dick inside her before she will comw you need to get her to the point of no return and remove your penis from her for the orgasm to take place. Just note like all my posts this isnt bases on medical facts just personal exoerience

 

[bballer123]

^ Everything Islandboy said. A few other ideas:
Putting both her legs on your shoulders and piledriving her
spooning postion while rubbing her clit
Get atleast 3-4 different positions in
Variation of stroke, speed, and depth

So I didn't read this post til now (after i had sex with her) and i did exacly that lol , what a coincidence, and she almost came. first time i've heard her moan so much . So reason my dick is feelin really sensitive after i did some heavy jelqing the other day so i came too quick. But ganna get the hang of it next time

 

[CUSP82]

Well if you really need help I'll come over and help you. She's not ugly is she? If she is I ain't coming! Relax, listen to some of the things you heard here, talk to each other, and enjoy finding out about each other.

 

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

send her my way... j/k bro LOL

eat that pussy up son, keep that clit worked and damn son... use your fingers

 

[bballer123]

send her my way... j/k bro LOL

eat that pussy up son, keep that clit worked and damn son... use your fingers

naaa not funny , and i think its hot to fck a girl til she cums , ive done it with other girls but she tough

 

[Qarzan]

Every woman is different. Find out if she can make herself cum, then ask her how she gets herself there. You can even watch her masturbate so you can see the motion and where she touches herself.

I've found, with my FWB, if I make her cum 3 times with my tongue, it's really easy to make her cum on my cock. It's also hot as hell.

 

[iCheat]

^^^^ 100%

Eat her out to a few O's and it'll be smooth sailing from there.

It is possible SHE does not know what she like to get the O so you need to warm her up with a few oral O's to get her used to feeling them. Then let her get on top of the monster and ride it.

 

[averagedick]

naaa not funny , and i think its hot to fck a girl til she cums , ive done it with other girls but she tough

It might be simply impossible to make this girl come from fucking her thats the reality

 

[bballer123]

It might be simply impossible to make this girl come from fucking her thats the reality

I did it last night in the car , it took alot of dam foreplay though lol

 

[Smu]

My girlfriend cums the easiest when I'm talking to her during sex. NOt dirty talk, but what I'm going to do, how good she feels etc. Kinda a shame, I would love to go wild on dirty talking sometime, but oh well...

 

[BaltimoreJohn]

A few things here, being that she was a virgin, she may not know exactly how to cum. She may feel the onset of something, and feel it may be too painful. My girl thought this about squirting. She always cums at least 4 times, max 9 or 10, but getting her to get over the hump of squirting took a little bit. Sometimes they think something may feel painful. So try to communicate with her openly and honestly and tell her if she's worried about pain to try and just let go. Another thing you mentioned is lasting long. You may try working on that. There are exercises you can do or even little mental things that can help. But to get my girl to cum, you need a minimum of a few minutes, and we'll go for 40 sometimes to get to 8-10. Also, you may consider a vibrating cockring. Those are great for giving girls the clit stimulation without having to really do anything and its constant so that helps bring her there faster. Another person mentioned talking to her and you could consider talking dirty to her too. That can work like a charm depending on the girl. Hope some of this helps. Let us know!