I want to ask the ladies a question...Based on your experience, would you say that its much more fun to have sex with a guy packing a large (7-9inch) penis but soft-like ( I mean you cant fully fill that thing with blood), or an average (5-6inch) rock hard penis...Just curious...Elaborate on some of your sexual experiences and what is your preferred size and EQ level...
Large Soft vs Average Hard
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I slept with a girl who told me her boyfriend was tiny compared to me, when it all ended and I wouldnt put out anymore she told me his might be smaller but its much harder, her exact words were hes like a brick doesnt matter if your floppy dick fills me up more ha ha as man I didnt give a fuck still had the biggest smile on my face. Reason I told you this is because in my experience women do have an opinion whatever that opinion is free to decide that for yourself
I normally have a 5.1" girth but I can pump it up to 5.75" and maintain it with constriction. My wife recently advised that she prefers the 5.1" harder erection.
Easy question. EQ is everything. Great EQ = Great cock.
I'm not a girl, but according to my wife and the hundreds of girls I slept with (ya right, you know I'm kidding), I'm told women don't care about inches at all. My wife measures my enthusiasm by the hardness of my cock. The harder I am the more fun and excited she is.
I'm not a girl, but according to my wife and the hundreds of girls I slept with (ya right, you know I'm kidding), I'm told women don't care about inches at all. My wife measures my enthusiasm by the hardness of my cock. The harder I am the more fun and excited she is.
Interesting points guys...I get rock hard but My goal is to have a 7" x 5.5" dick...Nothing too big but I can work with that...I am 5' 9". I can only work my ass off to get there...
Im 7.5 x 6 the situation I talked about I didnt care cause she didnt say I was small so no matter what she put me down about it wasnt my size thats the thing im most insecure about didnt care what she said about hardness. I got it in there was happy with another notch on my bed post
I prefer smaller and rock hard. The more veins the better! I like the way it feels when I'm ready to climax and my muscles are contracted around a rock hard vein covered unit.
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I have read claims several places here that big dicks automatically takes longer to get harder and is also less hard than a smaller penis. Perhaps there will be a statistic correlation to support that larger penises are more often experiencing some softhess, but I don't expect it to be a strong correlation. Perhaps that misconception has risen as of the story of John Holmes' floppy penis? He was on lots of drugs, and suffered from a 'soft' penis. Pre-drugs his penis quickly got hard. I heard stories in my early teens about this John Holmes and other people with huge penises, that *if* and *when* their pensises were fully hard, these people would faint becaus of loss of blood in their [upper] heads. Failure of blood pressure because of a huge penis. This has been proven wrong.
Also perhaps people see or experience penises that are temporarily (vacuum) pumped up are larger but softer than penises that are not pumped up, and think that it is due to the size. But no, vacuum pumping makes a slight fluffy soft penis regardless of size.
Most of you really believe that it is a significant loss of hardness in a 8x6 penis vs 6x5 penis?
Also perhaps people see or experience penises that are temporarily (vacuum) pumped up are larger but softer than penises that are not pumped up, and think that it is due to the size. But no, vacuum pumping makes a slight fluffy soft penis regardless of size.
Most of you really believe that it is a significant loss of hardness in a 8x6 penis vs 6x5 penis?
Even tho women prefer smaller and harder units that personally doesen't change what i want. I'd rather take a 9 sloppy cock instead of a 5 hard.
Your sweet...Thank you
I just speak from the heart or what ever part of me has the most blood going to it at the time!
EQ is number 1. I wouldn't go for gains if it weren't in check, I'd fix it. I get perfectly hard being large, I've always been proud of how hard I can get.
I prefer smaller and rock hard. The more veins the better! I like the way it feels when I'm ready to climax and my muscles are contracted around a rock hard vein covered unit.
Damn right!-hot post and true for 99%of women in my experience.
First a few things about cock size though-8" or 9"is really massive,not just large.Bigger still is very,very rare.Often penis size is exaggerated,as its easy to write or type anything.Surveys say different things-some that 5 and a quarter average,others 5 and three quarters-I think the shorter lengh is accurate myself(bigger guys answer surveys!).
Have talked to a lot of women,and many have never seen an 8".My wifes slept with dozens of guys before and hasnt seen one as large as mine(not boasting-Im useless in bed(blushes)!.
So if we are talking about a 6 or 6 and a half inch penis versus an 8 incher-8 inches is very big,and even 6 and a half is big,not really average.Guys like the ones mentioned here who have poor blood flow with dicks up to 13.5(biggest in world)are really freakishly large.No,someone who is 8 or 9 inches wont faint when theyre hard!.
Remember that girth is also important-but not vital,mine is very wide too,but that doesnt help me!(see below)
But anyway,going off-topic and digressing a bit.The point is average-or small even v big or very big.Even if we are saying 7 or 8 is big-let alone very very large ones-I think that there will be:
a)less blood flow(softer),
b)more difficult to maintain erection,
c)longer recovery time(e.g.a "one fuck a night man"problem!)
d)lower angle of erection,
e)often more uncomfortable for women(if over8"),
f)bigger guys dont withdraw fully before a thrust!,
g)Bigger men (often) just dont try as hard to please the women!
Of course there are exceptions,but its just common sense really-blood flow and centre of gravity.So unless the woman has some kind of size fetish("size queen")that overpowers everything,shes going to be choosing between a limp,soft, premature ejaculator who is only good for once a night(who may even hurt her if he can get and stay up!) and one thats "smaller and rock hard"!
At the end of the day,what women wouldnt want a rock hard littler one!.As a man with a (genuine)natural 8/8 and a half incher,I speak from experience!I myself experience fairly useless on-again-off -again erections,dont get rock hard as a smaller one would,and am really an all around "lousy lay"-as all the women Ive been involved with have told me!(not that Ive even been capable of having sex with most of them,let alone satisfying them sexually/keeping them).Neither do I have medical complaints,e.g.hypertension.
Dont know about other people,but I think theres too much stuff on the net and else where,in our whole culture really,about how great big dicks are(some of it I admit spread by small-dicked men themselves!),e.g.cuckold sites and all that.Each to their own-but as a very large "well endowed "man, wish I had a small one!.Smaller men are often so much better in bed and able to satisfy a women with their little iron hard ones!
The truth is that many very large dicked guys have to become gay,as they cant satisfy women-and also anal sex is the only sex that really works for them,as (most) women cant take one that size even if hard!.Many are trans.(witness all the shemales with huge ones),and/or only good in a "fem"role.I think nature might even give effeminate,"sissy type men who are too weak- willed to satisfy women a large one in the same way that animals that are blind hear well often-e.g.evolution compensates(my wife says its a "cruel joke!")
Its just the opposite of our cultural stereotype really-I blame porn stars to be honest.Yes there are some ultra-virile"bull" type porn stars with huge ones -so if your one reading this my apologies,but most porn stars are on viagra/have had surgery/injections etc:your not seeing a "natural"penis/erection(also with photoshop today the camera lies!).Its the same with the women too-all anal sex,which many women who arent in porn dont like!.
Theres so many stereoypes that are foolish,e.g.women only take lovers and "cuck" a guy if we has a small dick,and that black guys always have a bigger one than white guys.A women is going to cuckold you if your bad in bed,period,whatever your size,and theres is little or no evidence that black guys on average have bigger dicks-some do,some dont.
Id say 6 to six and a half inches of rock hard dick of a good girth is really the optimum size for a women(veins do sound good too).I consider a man with a six and a quarter inch iron- hard one who can go all night a real man,who can satisfy a woman in a way I never could with my enormous and useless great limp hunk of meat (I last about 10seconds!)!-I wish I had a smaller rock hard one to satisfy a real women like you(blushes)
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jockinthebox
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OMG, bigbutlimp! I feel like a priest in a confessional! Welcome to the gym,,,and thanks for being "real". Hope your EQ improves, and soon! Can you give us more info on maybe your health, diet, lifestyle, exercise history, etc.?
We may be able to help!
We may be able to help!
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Er,thanks Jockinabox...sorry about the priest thing(unless priest is good?)perhaps I got carried away.......
I dont think theres much wrong with my health diet etc...not over weight.....dont get the most exercise in the universe,but not the least exercised(think thats the wrong word!)guy either.....(walk and have worked out).
Think thats just my nature+my theories about "big ones"-though realise not everyone will agree with them.Guess I shouldnt generalise too much,but like us all go by my own experience.
thanks again for reply anyway.
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I dont think theres much wrong with my health diet etc...not over weight.....dont get the most exercise in the universe,but not the least exercised(think thats the wrong word!)guy either.....(walk and have worked out).
Think thats just my nature+my theories about "big ones"-though realise not everyone will agree with them.Guess I shouldnt generalise too much,but like us all go by my own experience.
thanks again for reply anyway.
R.
I prefer smaller and rock hard. The more veins the better! I like the way it feels when I'm ready to climax and my muscles are contracted around a rock hard vein covered unit.
Hard and veiny 7.6x5.2 checking in...lol
Honestly glad I did notice this thread...although I don't feel small length-wise I do in girth, and it is good to know a really hard 5" MEG or so is better than a softer 5.5-6" MEG in most cases. Still shooting for more girth (and length!), but I don't want to sacrifice hardness to get it.
One of those oriental sayings in Tao says haha that big and soft cannot compete against short but hard...is for real or could be chinese men feeling envy xD
..not sure if you need to ,as you already seem massively endowed to me +hard too(little-green monster takes hold),but good luck with getting even bigger!
I'm around 8.5 but even when fully hard it's bendy. Never been a prob before so I'm happy being more floppy then brick lol
