I started PE about 2 years ago. I was visiting 2 other sites, but decided to join this one since it seems there are more experts here.
I have a problem, and I would really appreciate your thoughts and advice.
I was on a beginner's regimen, using light jelq (5-10mins a day max) and a stretching device (Size genetics). I noticed after 2 months or so that my EQ has gotten a bit better, especially morning wood, and how long I stay hard. That was very pleasant. I was also going out with a very thin whale (huge vg) so that gave me an incentive to exercise more.
Last August 2012 incident: I was stretching as usual. I worker my way up from about 10 mins months before when I started stretching with device to around an hour typically with one break at half. That day I felt something pinching. I thought it was the skin, sometimes it gives me some discomfort but that pinching went away within minutes. When I took the device 20+ mins later my P was dead. No sensation. Completely numb. I ran to the sink and put hot water. Blood started flowing again and I felt normal the next day. But that experience scared me.
I took about 3 day break. Next time I stretched, I was numb within 5 mins. I got really concerned and stopped. I repeating this the following week out of curiosity and indeed my P went numb again. I tried masturbating that weekend (mostly of out concern) and I noticed that I had cold glans. These cold glans persisted for a a while. I got hard flaccid over the following week and numb P.
I knew I needed a serious break and I took one . I told my GF that I have an injury from excess masturbation and she agreed that a full break is needed. Over the following weeks I would use hot wraps and light massages. Hard flaccid was gone. Numbness was still there. I read a story on some forum of a similar case, he was healed within 8 months and did not abstain too much. Sex is important for me and that thought was scary, but better than never.
Over the following months I started getting better. No hard flaccid, but I continued to notice that I had numbness and weaker EQ. This has led to premature-ness at some occasions. But around 8 months later I was feeling much much better and felt that I could go back to normal and even maybe to PE hopefully.
After seeing the improvement in EQ from PE in the past, I was waiting to make a come back...So I did, around 10 months after the injury. I put the stretcher on and did several days of 10 min stretching after usual hot wrap and everything. So far so good. Few days after I manually stretch for 5 mins+ maybe. The same sensation came back: numbness, P feels very light, weird. In few days I had the worse premature-ness in my life and following a couple of masturbations during a sunday my P went hard flaccid.
Enter Hard flaccid. That started in June 2013 and will only go away after I stop touching it for about 2 weeks which I did. Over this summer I masturbated only once every 3 weeks on average, quite a feat. HOWEVER, my P still feels very light, quite numb, and after any vigorous exercise it would go hard flaccid on me again... I broke up with my gf because of this. I did not want to feel inept nor to have to explain myself. I noticed that the couple of times I had sex with her in the last 3 months she grabbed on on my P and pulled it (very normal) but felt bad straight after.
In summary, I took all precautions during, gave it all healing time following small injury, but returning to manual stretching (for 5 mins) after 10 months of pause has cause major problems that I am still suffering from.
You can only imagine how I feel. I am 8*5.75 and I would have been happy staying that way if I knew what was waiting for me. Not I am taking lots of vitamin b12 for nerve healing, eating healthy with read meat though for vitamin B and iron, and waiting and waiting. No porn since June.
I am not sure whether it is only a nerve problem or combination of nerve and muscles. My flaccid hangs lower in a funny way, feels rubbery and weightless, as if the ligaments that are supposed to hold it are not. But how can 5 min of manual (and GENTLE!) manual stretch do that is beyond me.
Sorry for long post but hoping to get quality advice. thanks very much in advance.
I have a problem, and I would really appreciate your thoughts and advice.
I was on a beginner's regimen, using light jelq (5-10mins a day max) and a stretching device (Size genetics). I noticed after 2 months or so that my EQ has gotten a bit better, especially morning wood, and how long I stay hard. That was very pleasant. I was also going out with a very thin whale (huge vg) so that gave me an incentive to exercise more.
Last August 2012 incident: I was stretching as usual. I worker my way up from about 10 mins months before when I started stretching with device to around an hour typically with one break at half. That day I felt something pinching. I thought it was the skin, sometimes it gives me some discomfort but that pinching went away within minutes. When I took the device 20+ mins later my P was dead. No sensation. Completely numb. I ran to the sink and put hot water. Blood started flowing again and I felt normal the next day. But that experience scared me.
I took about 3 day break. Next time I stretched, I was numb within 5 mins. I got really concerned and stopped. I repeating this the following week out of curiosity and indeed my P went numb again. I tried masturbating that weekend (mostly of out concern) and I noticed that I had cold glans. These cold glans persisted for a a while. I got hard flaccid over the following week and numb P.
I knew I needed a serious break and I took one . I told my GF that I have an injury from excess masturbation and she agreed that a full break is needed. Over the following weeks I would use hot wraps and light massages. Hard flaccid was gone. Numbness was still there. I read a story on some forum of a similar case, he was healed within 8 months and did not abstain too much. Sex is important for me and that thought was scary, but better than never.
Over the following months I started getting better. No hard flaccid, but I continued to notice that I had numbness and weaker EQ. This has led to premature-ness at some occasions. But around 8 months later I was feeling much much better and felt that I could go back to normal and even maybe to PE hopefully.
After seeing the improvement in EQ from PE in the past, I was waiting to make a come back...So I did, around 10 months after the injury. I put the stretcher on and did several days of 10 min stretching after usual hot wrap and everything. So far so good. Few days after I manually stretch for 5 mins+ maybe. The same sensation came back: numbness, P feels very light, weird. In few days I had the worse premature-ness in my life and following a couple of masturbations during a sunday my P went hard flaccid.
Enter Hard flaccid. That started in June 2013 and will only go away after I stop touching it for about 2 weeks which I did. Over this summer I masturbated only once every 3 weeks on average, quite a feat. HOWEVER, my P still feels very light, quite numb, and after any vigorous exercise it would go hard flaccid on me again... I broke up with my gf because of this. I did not want to feel inept nor to have to explain myself. I noticed that the couple of times I had sex with her in the last 3 months she grabbed on on my P and pulled it (very normal) but felt bad straight after.
In summary, I took all precautions during, gave it all healing time following small injury, but returning to manual stretching (for 5 mins) after 10 months of pause has cause major problems that I am still suffering from.
You can only imagine how I feel. I am 8*5.75 and I would have been happy staying that way if I knew what was waiting for me. Not I am taking lots of vitamin b12 for nerve healing, eating healthy with read meat though for vitamin B and iron, and waiting and waiting. No porn since June.
I am not sure whether it is only a nerve problem or combination of nerve and muscles. My flaccid hangs lower in a funny way, feels rubbery and weightless, as if the ligaments that are supposed to hold it are not. But how can 5 min of manual (and GENTLE!) manual stretch do that is beyond me.
Sorry for long post but hoping to get quality advice. thanks very much in advance.
